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[p1nK_p0p]

O.k., here we go...
well my question is how can i get over the gye i...well, im not sure what it was. i dont want to sound pre-mature by saying it was love. but, realy, it wasent a crush...who knows, maby limbo...ok, well, im babbling again...so, anyhow...yea, heres the sorty:
he was perfection.
in 6th grade i moved from iown to calafornia and started school when middle school started. he was in my home room and sat on the right of me. he would flirt with me when we were suposted to be listening. he sat on the table next to me in lunch. one day in 7th grade he asked me out. even though i wanted nothing more than to spend a evening with him, i said no. partley because of me being a bit shy and un-sure what to do, but mostly because of my mom.
in 8 th grade i asked him. (my friends and i figured out a was to sneek out...) but, this time it was my turn to be turned down. he was very kind about it, but said that he dident feel that way about me anymore. i told him it was ok, put on a fake smile,and walked away.
a cupple days later my best friend asked him out, and he- he said yes.
ther enow going out. my heart breaks again and again everytime i see them together.
i thought i was over him untill 3 days ago when i was at the beach with my friends and i salw someone who looked just like him carraying a surn board (he surfs) and walked up to him. i said "hey, eaven." and the gye turned around and said "excuse me, i have no clue who you are" it wasent him.
i feel so patthatace.
can you tell me three things?
1 how to get over him...
2 if i can get over him
3 if i was in love

[*stephinika*]

first off, you made this topic twice just to let you know...secondly. yes you can get over him, no i don't quite think it was love. probably a very very strong like, but not love. i know its hard (i went through crap like that in grade 8 too, don't we all? or freshman year anyway.... ) but just try to keep your mind off of him. keep yourself busy and notice all the other great guys out there, and if there's not that many around right now...just wait. they'll come don't you worry. hope i helped at least a little.

[silver-rain]

yea, you can get over him. just try not to think about him- distract yourself, hang out with some of your girlfriends, try to find someone new to like. i don't think it was love, it was probably just a crush or something.

[inthemudhole]

Get a new crush.
Don't think about him.
Don't talk about him.
Avoid him. *shrugs*

[*mishyerr*]

okay..

do you really want to get over him? look deep down inside. how will you feel once you're over him? i know it hurts when he's with someone else.. but do you like to like him?

the only way to get over someone is if you put yourself in control of your heart..
you should avoid hanging out with this boy and avoid thinking of him. you should go find happiness in things that will last such as friends and so.

i had to go through something like what you had to. i know how hard it is to get over someone.. i liked a guy for two years.. and he was my first love too. well we did date but i dumped him cus he was a bad bf.. so its sorta like your story.

i just got over him recently..

and dont get a new crush. it wont help it at all. in fact it will make things very confusing. trust me on that too. lol. that happened to me..

you should talk about him. it will help get him out of your system. tell the world of your memories and your love.. soon.. you'll find yourself letting go.. you cant force it upon yourself. it will come naturally.. but first you gotta make sure that you serously want to get over him. even if the circumstances change and he might like you again. that you want to be independent and not let his smiles, his voice get to your heart again..

=) good luck.

[aznriceboi]

1. how can i get over him: the usually thing to do is to throw rocks at him. that'll make you feel alot better
2. yes everyone can move on
3. it really depends on what your definition of love is, if you think it was love then it was or maybe it was just lust

[p1nK_p0p]

1. how can i get over him: the usually thing to do is to throw rocks at him. that'll make you feel alot better
2. yes everyone can move on
3. it really depends on what your definition of love is, if you think it was love then it was or maybe it was just lust

lust...yea...that sounds right.

[MeanBastard]

Your loss. Sucker.

[shawty_redd]

^^ ur so rude

anways "i feel so patthatace" what does that mean?
no it wasn't love
yes you can get over him. just give it time

[aDorabLepinayy]

it takes time to get over a guy you really like.. so take time and just be happy for your friend.. even though it hurts you

[NinJa_CraZeEe]

no it wasn't love
yes you can get over him. just give it time

I agree with her. If you give it time, your feelings for him will eventually go away. The guy you turned down before, Evan, probably went through the same thing. If he got over it, then you can get over it too.