HOW do I get MY mom TO let ME date?, shes so strict... |
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 Aug 20 2004, 04:05 PM
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Any Ideas...
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Aug 20 2004, 05:29 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
well, you don't have to let her know. my mom doesn't really like me dating, but i never told her about my ex. just tell her that you're hanging out with some friends or something and secretly date him.
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Aug 20 2004, 05:32 PM
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 wishing for SIMPLE LOVE with Jay Group: Member Posts: 708 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,601 |
I'm sorry I have no idea cuz I have the same problem with my mom...sigh
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Aug 20 2004, 06:17 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Uhm.
Rebel. XD That's what I did. I wasn't allowed to date, but then I just said "aw, screw it.. I'll go out with someone if I'm asked." I got asked. I said yes. I told my parents. They were pissed, but oh well. I'm not going to back down on it simply because they are mad at me for going against the "rules." |
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Aug 20 2004, 08:30 PM
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ahh..i knoe exactly how yoo feel. my mom will let me date. but my dad wont. they sey that im too young, and i need to focus on school. first of all..im a straight a student so i got that checked. and im also 16. shiet..i knoe 11 year olds that go out. wtf. but yea..my dad seys that i cant date till im 65.
 holie shiet..but he's gonna have to let me go sometime soon.
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Aug 20 2004, 09:13 PM
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QUOTE(linke3 @ Aug 20 2004, 5:29 PM) well, you don't have to let her know. my mom doesn't really like me dating, but i never told her about my ex. just tell her that you're hanging out with some friends or something and secretly date him. exactly. |
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Aug 20 2004, 10:10 PM
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isn't there a thread exactly like this?
tell her you'll force her live in the old folks home |
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Aug 20 2004, 10:14 PM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
sneak around if u dont want any fuss from ur mom.... or u can just get a boyfriend and show theres nothing ur mom can say or do to prevent u from liking/dating ..... at first ur moms gonna be pissy but then she realizes she cant change ur ways
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Aug 20 2004, 10:44 PM
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heh..smae with my parents especially my dad. If they ever saw me with a guy they'd start asking me questions and stuff. I never told my parents..if they were ever to find out then so be it. Well, they found out. Dad gave the lecture....mom just shocked. Show them they can trust you around guys =)
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Aug 20 2004, 10:46 PM
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both my parents dont let me date...they dont even want me around boys...and everytime my dad gets suspicious or something, for stupid things too (like one time when my friend called there was extremely bad reception or watever so she sounded very different and i heard my dad pick up the phone too and later on he was yellin at me and tellin me sh!t like why the eff were u talkin to a boy and all this sh!t...goodness sakes
 ) So, u should be happy that at least only ur mom doesnt let u date...and I agree with the other peeps to just sneak around or confront ur mom and tell her that its ur life and u want to be able to have fun, get experience, whatever. My effin sister is 21 and yet my dad is still suspicious of her and is hesitant to let her go anywhere. Isnt that just effin GAY??! I hate him so effin much...so yea, u should just do wat u think is right...ur mom doesnt control ur life, right? right. ^ ^
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Aug 21 2004, 01:44 AM
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 J.S. Bach Group: Member Posts: 79 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 36,862 |
Be a REBEL and just DO IT ANYWAY!
NIKE - JUST DO IT! 
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Aug 21 2004, 06:51 PM
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 Linny the dork. Group: Member Posts: 178 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,258 |
well, what'd i do is that i'd totally give them the message that "i hate boys," they're so icky, yadda yadda yadda.. then they won't be suspecting you much and also, there's gonna be a turning point when they just let you do whatever(like when you get your car, they're not gonna know about the bf, right?). i would NEVER tell my parents about my ex's or whatever, they'd freak, and they're already suspicious.
 just ask yourself if it's really worth keeping behind your parent's back, if they guy is totally worth it, by all means go go go! lol.
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Aug 21 2004, 07:08 PM
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My mom told me that when I got to high school I could date, but to be free I had to wait until she affirmed my grades wouldn't slip because of a relationship.
It's been 2 years, grades stayed fine, all howdy doody and my girl and my mom love each other. Maybe you could work a deal out like that with your mother. |
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Aug 21 2004, 10:16 PM
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Linny the dork. Group: Member Posts: 178 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,258 |
eh, it wouldn't work with me. she's wayy too over protective.
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Aug 21 2004, 11:18 PM
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QUOTE(linke3 @ Aug 20 2004, 5:29 PM) well, you don't have to let her know. my mom doesn't really like me dating, but i never told her about my ex. just tell her that you're hanging out with some friends or something and secretly date him. Lol! I did the exact same thing except the horrifying thing was that my mom was following my arse. Oh welps, she doesn't know about my current one. Just sneak out. Is school starting for you? You can easily stay after school to do "voluntary work" and just chill with your boy.
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Aug 22 2004, 11:40 AM
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my sister does it behind my mom's back hahah. it's working quite well.
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Aug 22 2004, 12:20 PM
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 kristin Group: Member Posts: 5,705 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,985 |
does she really have to know...
 i just tell my mother im hanging out with firends and its not a lie...i mean...boy firend is partly firend....yah |
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Aug 22 2004, 12:44 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 84 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,142 |
QUOTE(linke3 @ Aug 20 2004, 5:29 PM) well, you don't have to let her know. my mom doesn't really like me dating, but i never told her about my ex. just tell her that you're hanging out with some friends or something and secretly date him. thats what i have been doing, but i feel realy guilty. also, i can tell her im gonna go to a movie. and (i can walk to the theater) meet him there. and we just make out... 
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Aug 22 2004, 12:45 PM
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QUOTE(DrEaMgUy2K1 @ Aug 20 2004, 10:14 PM) sneak around if u dont want any fuss from ur mom.... or u can just get a boyfriend and show theres nothing ur mom can say or do to prevent u from liking/dating ..... at first ur moms gonna be pissy but then she realizes she cant change ur ways yea. i also sneek out. |
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Aug 22 2004, 12:54 PM
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i mean, its now like i havent been on dates. ive been on A LOT of dates. and had a LOT of ex-is. im not mmas little girl anymore. ive had my first kiss. ive made out. but, every night when i go out, i feel so guilty.
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Aug 22 2004, 01:08 PM
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You guys are dumb. Group: Member Posts: 1,252 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,094 |
Blow her brains out. Then lets see what she thinks.
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Aug 22 2004, 01:24 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 84 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,142 |
QUOTE(th5418 @ Aug 22 2004, 1:08 PM) Blow her brains out. Then lets see what she thinks. ok, your realy getting annoyinh. |
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Aug 22 2004, 05:34 PM
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 whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
i have no idea how to help u. depends on how strict ur mom is. if she's really really uptight and ur dad lets u have a bf, then go beg for ur dad to help u. or just hide ur bf and pretend to be "hanging out with ur friends." i never really had to deal with this problem. i told my mom in the first place and she said, "u have a gf now?? o, ok. *walks away to prepare dinner*" so its all good. =]
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Aug 22 2004, 06:14 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 136 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,910 |
well, i'm only 12, but i've had 2 -exes so far...hm... i didn't tell my mom till i broke up wiff them both... and i said:: well... WAHT DO U THINK NOW? and she was all like... U SHOULDN'T OF HAD DONE THAT!! >:[ so i was all like:: well i've already done it, and i'm fine!! .... so now she lets me dayte, but my daddy ish still all... X_x about it... so i dont' think he knows.. x]] my mom has been good enough to NOT tell him, even though everytyme a guy calls, my daddy kinda 'chats' wif him... X_x
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Aug 22 2004, 08:14 PM
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well just dont let her know,as long as she doesnt know,then its all good lol
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