my dad, i hate him Options

[pinkrocsmysocs]

Well i got a letter yeterday and it was a bad letter my dad is taking my mom to court ..........well the letter said that he want me 1 weekend of each month and every other holiday and he want a date in the summer for next year .............ok well they (mom and tommy) made me pick wether i wanted to do this and i knew right away my answer was no but i just couldent say that welll i broke down i started to cry i didnt kno what to do i had no clue then they tell me that i have 30 min to think and clam down soo i told my mom that i needed someone to talk to soo i called sara she wasent home and then i called one of my bestfriends and she was home soo we talk and then i told her that i had to go to court and face the judge well i told her i had to call my dad tonight and i told her i can do the talking in front of my dad but im tooo scared to talk to the judge well i talk to my dad after i got off the phone and i cried sooo hard and it hurt soo bad
i need help w// this one and i need every1 to give me something it just happened last night

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[scandalous_chic]

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[aznriceboi]

don't worry about it, the more you worry the worser things will get. if you don't want to stay with your dad then tell him, he'll understand you hopefully. everyones scare when they're doing somethign like that, just go and talk and then you'll loosen up a bit and it'll be easier

[xnastyninjagrlx]

First off, are your parents divorced already? Is that why they want to see if it's ok that they have you equally? Well I know that this can be very hard being torn in the middle, but I think if you need some more time to think about it you should tell your dad that and he should respect it because this is a big decision that's gonna take more than 30 minutes to decide. Also, the judge can be pretty scary, but I think he'll listen to you if you honestly tell him how you feel.

[pinkrocsmysocs]

well first scandalous_chic mmm yeah i kno but really im 14 and i have no1 there that can back me up with this i tooo scared 2nd aznriceboi i think i have gotten over me worry but scchool is bout to start im goin into high school and i have to be taking out wut im i soppose to do there 3rd xnastyninjagrlx mah parents r divored and my dad has a wife and there is anther big prob she hates me and i kno it she threw me out of the house when i was 11 and it was 12 o clock at night ???

[angel-roh]

umm u made two topics?! please dont double topics! thank u!

[MeanBastard]

I hat eyour dad too

[pinkrocsmysocs]

why do u say that ??

[aud_chua]

uh.. i've talked to several judges before.. they aren't all that intimidating. it's actually fun. (i'm not lying!)
just be firm, know what you want, and what you want to say. if you sound confident (even though you don't feel that way), the judge will take you seriously.. just don't over-do it...
give the judge a reason to consider what you're saying.. don't just say "i don't like my dad." give him/her substantial evidence, something valid..
i hope this helps... good luck with the judge!
(by the way, i've never faced a judge in family court.. generally, i talk to those in the higher courts.. i don't think they're much different.. maybe they're nicer, even.. )

[Mireh]

if you really hate your dad, then you would have to muster up all your courage and face the judge. either that, or you'll have to live with him.

The end.