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 Aug 19 2004, 01:41 PM
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 Living in Shadows..yet able to see the light  Group: Member Posts: 304 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 41,830  |
wondering.... my girlfriend is moving back to the mid-west while im staying out in md i mean we have a good relationship but is it worth to have a long distance relationship and do they really last?
What do you guys think about long distance relationships? Have you been in any? |
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Aug 19 2004, 02:05 PM
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 wishing for SIMPLE LOVE with Jay Group: Member Posts: 708 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,601 |
Long Relationships are REALLY REALLY hard to tell you the truth cuz relationship takes time spending with each other and with long distance you can't do that easily. I know cuz my b/f was in Taiwan for 3 months..he's back, but then again he's leaving for Australia for another 2/3 months. I mean, if you really love her and she really loves you, then I believe love will conquer all. But if your love is not
that strong and stable then I would say prepare for a lot of pain and sadness. I honestly believe if two people love each other soooo much, distance should not be a problem..that just means you each both have to try a little harder. |
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Aug 19 2004, 02:11 PM
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 03.21.00 <3 LaTe 637 Group: Member Posts: 744 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,890 |
uhmm... it CAN work if you want it to work... you have to be able to trust her and she has to be able to trust you... but it'll be hard...
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Aug 19 2004, 02:17 PM
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Living in Shadows..yet able to see the light Group: Member Posts: 304 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 41,830 |
QUOTE(xnastyninjagrlx @ Aug 19 2004, 2:05 PM) Long Relationships are REALLY REALLY hard to tell you the truth cuz relationship takes time spending with each other and with long distance you can't do that easily. I know cuz my b/f was in Taiwan for 3 months..he's back, but then again he's leaving for Australia for another 2/3 months. I mean, if you really love her and she really loves you, then I believe love will conquer all. But if your love is not that strong and stable then I would say prepare for a lot of pain and sadness. I honestly believe if two people love each other soooo much, distance should not be a problem..that just means you each both have to try a little harder. hmm i mean there is strong love but i would say like 50% was love/sexual lust i mean we loved spenindg time with each other as much as we loved like messing around but.. hmm i just have doubt and is that good or bad first time i have ever really doubted a relationship |
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Aug 19 2004, 02:21 PM
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Hey..they work if you really love her but if you dono't really love her its gonna end sooner or later so if you really love her kepp goin' for it but not don't let her think that you love her if you really don't so ya hurr
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Aug 19 2004, 03:17 PM
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wishing for SIMPLE LOVE with Jay Group: Member Posts: 708 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,601 |
QUOTE hmm i mean there is strong love but i would say like 50% was love/sexual lust i mean we loved spenindg time with each other as much as we loved like messing around but.. hmm i just have doubt and is that good or bad first time i have ever really doubted a relationship I think to have doubts is sometimes healthy cuz not every relationship is all happy and good all the time. But if your love is based on really your lust for each other than you really gotta consider if you feel that you can't live without her at all. I would say give it a try, take risks cuz if it doesn't work out at least you know you made an effort. |
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Aug 19 2004, 03:43 PM
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it all depends on both of you, if you have enough trust and feelings for each other than by all means it'll last. but once that begins to fall. then it ususally to work out after that. if you get to visit her like at least once a month then yea
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Aug 19 2004, 03:56 PM
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Living in Shadows..yet able to see the light Group: Member Posts: 304 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 41,830 |
QUOTE(aznriceboi @ Aug 19 2004, 3:43 PM) it all depends on both of you, if you have enough trust and feelings for each other than by all means it'll last. but once that begins to fall. then it ususally to work out after that. if you get to visit her like at least once a month then yea naw if i her see her it wont be in a while like if she comes to maryland to visit or stay with her aunt otherwise she is so far out...hmmm......we establiahsed trust in everything so i guess its just a matter of will to see it through |
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Aug 19 2004, 03:59 PM
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You guys are dumb. Group: Member Posts: 1,252 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,094 |
It cant work out. Destory it. Now.
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Aug 19 2004, 04:31 PM
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 have u lost ur mind? Group: Member Posts: 512 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 26,217 |
if u truly luv da grl den its worth it. if shes def the type to party alot then i'd break it off... it all depends on u n the grl if u madd close keep it. if u aint break it..
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Aug 19 2004, 04:55 PM
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 advanced newbie... S2 Group: Member Posts: 3,504 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 752 |
mmoving to relationships. ther are alot of topics on this, perhaps searching through the search engine will help?
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Aug 19 2004, 05:31 PM
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 WUT THA DUCK? Group: Member Posts: 3,950 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,138 |
im in one too! and yess they are very difficult to handle.... but if your love is strong enough and the trust is there... then most likely it will work! me and my boyfriend would fight alot... more fighting then with non long distance relationships i had.... but its alright! we always work them out! but all that matters is the trust and the love you have.
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Aug 19 2004, 05:32 PM
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i think it can work. if you guys really treasure the relationship and want it to work and love each other, then yeah its definitely possible. i have a friend who's just had their one year anniversary and my friend lives in vancouver, canada while her boyfriend lives in new jersey! crazy huh? so i think it can work.
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Aug 19 2004, 06:31 PM
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 MaRisSa* Group: Member Posts: 17 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,906 |
yea i was in a long distance relationship but mine was hard cuz the guy i was wit wasnt lyk tryin to keep in touch
 so i think it depends how much u realli care bout keepin in touch wit that person and wantin it to last..
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Sep 14 2004, 10:53 AM
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tim u have a gf and u didnt tell me!!! im gonna kill u lol anyways...long distance relationship work if u want them to work just u have to trust the person to the last...if u guys really wanna be together then distance shouldn't be the problem....i cant believe i just wrote this
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Sep 14 2004, 11:56 AM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
depends how long you've had a relationship with the person, what stage of relationship were u guys in, chances of ever seeing each other again, and trust . and if ur relationship last long enough maybe day u guys can live near each other again oO;
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Sep 15 2004, 07:44 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 90 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 49,186 |
#1 it could be worth it if u had the time/money to see her if u see her say once a month or 2 twice i month then thats good i dont really know its up to you
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Sep 17 2004, 02:27 PM
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 sO seDuctivE Group: Member Posts: 291 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 2,009 |
if you LOVE each other and trust each other, all will be fine.
Lack of trust KILLS relationships. |
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Sep 17 2004, 05:43 PM
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 -:- Nothen But Dreams -:- Group: Member Posts: 82 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,146 |
yea its all about trust u can do it
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Sep 17 2004, 06:18 PM
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 Property of Falon Group: Member Posts: 19 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 45,538 |
I'm in one too. With somebody who just happens to be a CB member
 Although we are separated by a considerable distance, the love we share is no less real than if she was right here. |
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Sep 17 2004, 06:23 PM
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If you guys really love each other, then it'll probably last. The majority don't really though...
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Sep 17 2004, 06:28 PM
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Property of Falon Group: Member Posts: 19 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 45,538 |
Some do work out though. If there's enough love, anything's possible.
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Oct 15 2004, 11:56 AM
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 <3~Tara~<3 Group: Member Posts: 345 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,491 |
has anyone ever had a long distance relationship? did it work out? was it hard
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Oct 15 2004, 12:00 PM
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 wanderlust personified. Group: Official Designer Posts: 7,515 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 797 |
Yes I have. He's not that far I guess, an hour away but we only see each other once a week or less. It didn't work out. We broke up after 2 1/2 years.
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Oct 15 2004, 01:25 PM
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 Maggot Rocker Group: Member Posts: 396 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,016 |
I'm sort of in one right now...But she is only like a 4 hour drive away..and its working out so far...but turst me your turst for your partner has to be very strong to do this ;D
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