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 Aug 17 2004, 03:40 PM
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Next time just don't mention the race. Just say that you're not into him.
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Aug 17 2004, 03:45 PM
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 who again? Group: Member Posts: 555 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,458 |
thats kinda racist.
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Aug 17 2004, 03:46 PM
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 t3h koolest guy in cB Group: Member Posts: 2,194 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 513 |
dats f*ed up man...
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Aug 17 2004, 03:46 PM
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 Is it maturity, or admitting defeat...? Group: Member Posts: 152 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 36,659 |
I really don't think that what you said was bad; I've seen a lot of girls here say that they don't like black guys or other specific races, but I don't take it personally; he shouldn't either. It's not like you said that you hate white people or crap like that, you said that you're just not into them, and that's your preference, not being racist.
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Aug 17 2004, 05:14 PM
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cb=bullshit. Group: Member Posts: 1,783 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,793 |
AHHHHHHHHHHH HAAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA.....
I'm not laughing at what you said.... I'm laughing at the situation.... lmao. |
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Aug 17 2004, 09:12 PM
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te quiero Group: Banned Posts: 2,586 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,678 |
QUOTE(omg_melface @ Aug 17 2004, 5:14 PM) AHHHHHHHHHHH HAAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA..... I'm not laughing at what you said.... I'm laughing at the situation.... lmao.  i guess its funny in a way. 
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Aug 17 2004, 09:38 PM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
hmm thats not mean ur just sayin ur honest opinion
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Aug 19 2004, 09:17 AM
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Jessica Group: Member Posts: 480 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,118 |
aww it isn't mean..its juss that you aren't into him..well you were honest 'nd it was better than leading him on..XP
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Aug 19 2004, 10:59 AM
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Aug 19 2004, 02:59 PM
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 i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
no i dont think it's mean....i mean honestly im into korean guys or chinese guys or japanese guys only....i mean u can like watever u want. jus dont listen to them....they jus duno..we can like whoever we want.
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Aug 19 2004, 03:09 PM
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 ilikeyouSofreakingmuch. Group: Member Posts: 2,014 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 643 |
Just say it! Atl east you're being honest
 i would never date a white guy either. i'm in asians xP
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Aug 19 2004, 05:22 PM
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te quiero Group: Banned Posts: 2,586 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,678 |
QUOTE(scandalous_chic @ Aug 19 2004, 10:59 AM) No. That's your opinion and if he can't take it, too bad. I've told a lot of people I don't date white guys and well, some of them were offended but I told them it's nothing personal. But of course, if you dish it out, you might have to take some back. Someone might not want to date an Asian chick, know what I mean? exactly. plenty of people have told me that they don't dig asians. and i'm just like "fine, whatever, its your taste and your opinion" |
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Aug 24 2004, 08:27 AM
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i feel the same way.. sorta
i find white guys cute or hot and all but i dont like them.. iono why.. im just not attracted to em.. 
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Aug 24 2004, 08:59 AM
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QUOTE(th5418 @ Aug 16 2004, 11:23 PM) Once feelings are taken in account, you can't exactly be truthful can you? Exactly. You weren't mean, It's better than lying right? |
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Aug 24 2004, 02:02 PM
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doesnt matter, he gets the point.
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Aug 24 2004, 02:06 PM
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QUOTE(love[x) melissa,Aug 16 2004, 5:49 PM] nah i find you kinda funny. and i'm not a damn racist. i just don't date white guys .. anymore. i have nothing against white people though. I don't think it's racist. Truthfully... I'm not into black guys. But I don't have anything against them. So if you say thats racist, then a lot of people are. <3 |
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Aug 24 2004, 02:56 PM
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 Mmm..Meat :D Group: Member Posts: 326 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,086 |
You should be honest, but for some reason, it sounds pretty harsh.
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Aug 24 2004, 07:29 PM
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i don't think it's a mean thing to say because you are telling the truth rather than lying about it and pretending that you are interested in him.
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Aug 24 2004, 07:32 PM
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i don't think it was mean, it was the truth
and if the truth hurts well then so be it, right? POST #500 |
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Aug 24 2004, 07:38 PM
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not it wasn't mean nor racist, its not like she said that she don't hate white people for being cacuasian ( not being racist, just an ex.) you told the truth and thats was better than lying to him
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Aug 24 2004, 08:40 PM
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 whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
naw, thats totally fine. people are picky, ya kno? they don't like blonds, don't like blue eyes, yadaydayada. don't brood over this. its all good.
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Aug 25 2004, 12:17 AM
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 have u lost ur mind? Group: Member Posts: 512 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 26,217 |
QUOTE(love[x) melissa,Aug 16 2004, 5:42 PM] so this guy tells me that his friend likes me and wants to know what i think about him. i personally think he's ... not my type, so i tell the guy to tell his friend that "i'm not into white guys". my friends all tell me i'm mean for saying that... but its kinda true. i don't think its mean... do you? i cant blame u... im yellow too n i'd prefer yellow over whites neday.... EXEPT for spanish grls... but yehhh i wud say that too if a grl asked me wuti thot of her n she wuz white... it'd b mean but its the truth.. it hurts rite? |
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Aug 25 2004, 01:22 AM
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Um... dunno... it sounds kind of racist... though I'm not saying you are... maybe you just should of told him you didn't think he was your type or you only think of him as a friend? I dunno... 'cause if a guy told me he didn't date asians... I'd think he's a jerk.
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Aug 27 2004, 06:32 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 5,585 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,082 |
Of course not! It's not a mean thing to say. >.< I've said much meaner things...lol XD Don't worry about it.
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Aug 27 2004, 06:37 PM
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 Whoah....a pickle! Group: Member Posts: 114 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,838 |
As long as its the truth, I dont think it is wrong. But where it is mean or not...that is all based on opinion.
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