its so hard, alone Options

[NiKECHiQ]

man isnt it so hard when you see your friends having boyfriends that they can talk to and all that stuff.... i dont know sometimes i feel i lil angry because the guys that asked me out were "heckka cute" as my friends would say but i always say no to them eventhough i think they`re cute and all that stuff... im really jelous of my friends changing they`re boyfriends as if they`re changing their underwear or something ! whoah i always ask myself when is my time??? trust me alot of people asked me out in the past before since considering that im only thirteen i always wanted a boyfriend that i can talk to err cuddle err watever

do u guys sometimes feel this way ??

[pikimoo]

so.. why do you reject them?

[NiKECHiQ]

i dont really know it might seem that im the one with the problem or i am i have this thing in me that says no

[pikimoo]

=\ Well, don't be angry at your friends if you're the one saying no.

And as you said, you're only 13. You have plenty of time

[DrEaMgUy2K1]

ur only thirdteen stop trippin...... i dont have that problem now or rarenly ever do have that feeling,so yea i know it must suck bu eh, u gotta stop being so picky and try to connect with whoever comes ur way that u can see ur self dating .

[Foolish Heart]

Hmm maybe you can try saying yes to atleast ONE date ? And see how it works out. You know girl, it all depends on your feelings. If you don't want to date it's okay! About your friends, don't be mad at them because it's not their fault!!! Your time will come when you'll start dating guys!!

Have fun!!

</3 Heart

[ForgottenDreamz]

wow I feel the same away besides the rejection thing I just can not find a girl that wants a real relationship and not a quick flick or just sex. But yea I do see alot of my friends with their gf's which are not the type of gf's i would want but still I feel left out. I know how ya feel. Just going to wait till school starts and see how things go

[Mireh]

Well. Start saying yes.

[Alpha240]

u really have no reason to complain when ur the one saying no to people. How do u think u get a boyfriend in the first place? they don't just appear out of nowhere.. u have to get to know the person first and go out on a date with them... but, 13 year olds dont go out on dates. do they?

wow I feel the same away besides the rejection thing I just can not find a girl that wants a real relationship and not a quick flick or just sex.

ok u look like ur 14 or something, please dont tell me you have girls your age just looking for sex. grossssssssss. gosh what is wrong with our youth these days? i'm not refering to you but people having sex in like 6th or 7th grade is disgusting. i mean, geez ur not even developed for it. gross gross gross

[x0143637x0]

it isnt so bad being single. yooh can mess around and no one would accuse yooh of cheating. and mostly yooh have ur own free will to do whatevr yooh please instead of worrying bout it. yooh dont have to get hurt or anything when yooh two have an argument or when yooh two break up. and ur still young. yooh can also cuddle and talk with ur guy friends too. doesnt mean yooh like them or anything but yooh just want comfort or something. be happy that ur single.

[MeanBastard]

I think this is a bragging thread.

[conster]

NiKECHiQ Posted on Aug 17 2004, 4:14 AM
  i dont really know it might seem that im the one with the problem or i am i have this thing in me that says no 

lol im in the same situation as u.. even my best friend is in that situation... both of us have like... 4-5 guys right now to choose from.. each of us have 4-5 lol they're different too (jus in case if ur wondering its the same guy that likes us lol).. i personally dont want a relationship... but then... i sorta do.. its crazy.. probably jus not wit them cuz i dont feel anything lol and my best friend... lol she wants a relationship.. a serious one that will hurt her and stuff cuz she never been in a serious one.. but then again... she cant find that feeling amongst those guys..


ok ok im bragging LOL jp i dunno.. maybe u should say yes to one of them and give it a try lol me and my best friend envy our other friends who has a bf/gf where they can turn to

[mouse_3k]

i only go out with guys tht are my good friends first..

maybe thts why i only had 2 bf's in my whole life lol

[NiKECHiQ]

this is not a brag thread .... is not having a boyfriend or having people ask you out that you dont have feeling for i personally dont think that`s something to brag about

[MeanBastard]

Omgz I have hella people asking me out and I turn them alllllll down.