Torn and Confused and need, Advice on whether 2 meet him or not |
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 Aug 12 2004, 05:18 PM
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I need some help on whether to meet a guy that i kno thru mutual friends...he lives about 3 cities away from me and i have known him for about 3-4 months and i have talked to him on the fone every single day since i started talkin to him. Ive seen about 7-10 pix of him but he has never seen me. He wants to meet me and even tho he sais looks dunt matter...i think they do and well
 lets face it im no beauty so im scared to meet him...yes i will most definately bring friends and he is 15 and im 14...and i do hav 911 programmed into my fone...but i still need a desicion if i should!!!xoxoxo hugs n kissies AngelEyes |
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Aug 12 2004, 05:30 PM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
perhaps u should send him a picture b4 he meets you, im sure ur not hidious so it wouldnt matter cuz he knows u for who u are right? i mean if u talk to him on the phone everyday and he still hasnt seen what u look like, i think hes more interested in YOU and not how you look...iono if that makes sense but anywho...i think you should meet him cuz u seem to be ready for it...uGhZ
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Aug 12 2004, 05:32 PM
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 aint the world lovely? Group: Member Posts: 228 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 19,602 |
QUOTE perhaps u should send him a picture b4 he meets you, im sure ur not hidious so it wouldnt matter cuz he knows u for who u are right? i mean if u talk to him on the phone everyday and he still hasnt seen what u look like, i think hes more interested in YOU and not how you look...iono if that makes sense but anywho...i think you should meet him cuz u seem to be ready for it...uGhZ what he said |
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Aug 12 2004, 05:50 PM
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If you talked to him on the phone a lot, I say go for it :D but bring LOTS of friends
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Aug 12 2004, 05:52 PM
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 3,565, you n00bs ain't got nothin' on me. Group: Official Member Posts: 3,761 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,565 |
The best thing to do is what you did- talk to him first, build up a good relationship, then send him the pic.
Then, like somechinkgirl said, bring alot of friends, just in case. A cellphone, etc. Make sure you know where you are meeting, and before you let yourself be seen by him, scope him out and make sure he doesn't look suspicious. Otherwise, have a good time. |
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Aug 12 2004, 06:25 PM
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Bring lots of friends, and go for it. You've talked on the phone, and you've seen him so it's not like he's some 45 year-old stalker.
 Don't wear too much make-up, or something you wouldn't usually wear. You don't want to look like anything that doesn't look like you usually do... |
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Aug 13 2004, 01:23 AM
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go with a friend if you feel uncomfortable =)
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Aug 13 2004, 01:54 AM
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don't worry too much about your looks. i think your personality is what counts the most. what i think is 3-4months is a good time to finally meet up in person rather than just talking on the phone every day. just be safe. and be yourself!!
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