I know this might be closed but its worth a tryy, finding someone in your family atractive |
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 Aug 12 2004, 07:30 PM
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i recently met a cousin of mine at a fam picnic. . . I havent seen him scince i was litte. backround info im 14, hes 30. . . ( he doesnt look it ) The last time i saw him before then was when i was 4 and he was 20, sitting on his lap in his appartment.
i saw him recently, and i found him quite attractive. Is this so wrong? |
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Aug 12 2004, 07:32 PM
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 forget me not.. Group: Member Posts: 29 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,281 |
haha, i dont know, it probably is though. i dont know i never had that kind of experience =]
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Aug 12 2004, 07:32 PM
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 freedom Group: Member Posts: 844 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,358 |
I don't think it is wrong. I find some of my family members attractive. As long as nothing happens between you two than it is fine.
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Aug 12 2004, 07:35 PM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
theres nothing wrong with noticing how people look..as long as its just noticing haha
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Aug 12 2004, 07:38 PM
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Why would this be closed?
 Anywho, my suggestion is to move to West Virginia.  Or is that...Virginia...  Haha no, I'm kidding. Seriously, I think it's fine if you find him attractive. It's not normal, but hey - everyone's not normal in some way.  I'm sure it'll just pass.
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Aug 12 2004, 07:39 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 114 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 36,720 |
I think two of my cousins (18, Im 12) are terribly attractive. Actually, only one is, the other is just amazingly sweet.
 I think its because I'm the (second) youngest of my family tree. -_- |
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Aug 12 2004, 07:41 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 39 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,869 |
haha thanks you guys, but i was intrigued with him... haha it was sad as all hell. my huge thing was the age differnece . . . and plus what is "inapproprate" when its your cousin, sure everyone plays around, but whats too far?
god i feel like a dork for finally admitting this |
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Aug 12 2004, 07:57 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 39 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,869 |
just to let you know hes a blood first cousin..
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Aug 12 2004, 08:39 PM
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 GREEENROCKS Group: Member Posts: 1,393 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,624 |
i don't know. i guess you can't help it, but just don't do anything?? sorry...nothing like that happen to me before. thank goodness.
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Aug 12 2004, 10:57 PM
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 The Used Group: Member Posts: 265 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,501 |
no. im starting to fall in love with a 28 year old guy i barely know. my situation is worse.
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Aug 14 2004, 02:29 PM
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lol, it's normal. AT LEAST i THINK It is. :D Because I find one of my other cousins or something attractive, but yeah..I don't think he is anymore
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Aug 14 2004, 04:15 PM
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 badminton rocks!! Group: Member Posts: 184 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,031 |
QUOTE(Ladii_D @ Aug 12 2004, 5:32 PM) I don't think it is wrong. I find some of my family members attractive. As long as nothing happens between you two than it is fine. I agree. There's nothing wrong with thinking your cousin is attractive. I think ALL my girl cousins are HOT but yea.... just don't do anything... 
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Aug 14 2004, 04:38 PM
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hey, last month my cousin form florida came to stay at my house for a month (she's 17, I'm 14) and I couldn't stop looking at her LMAO... but no one noticed so I was OK =D
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Aug 14 2004, 04:44 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
there's nothing wrong with thinking he's attractive. but if something happens, then that's wrong.
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Aug 14 2004, 05:01 PM
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 and they say imitation is flattering Group: Member Posts: 1,337 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,269 |
Well it's like a cousin. And it's not like you have a crush on him or anything.
I can safely say that my brother's um.. attractive (Cause he's related to me ^_^ ) and not gross everyone out I hope *cough* Lol ~_^ /edit QUOTE hey, last month my cousin form florida came to stay at my house for a month (she's 17, I'm 14) and I couldn't stop looking at her LMAO... but no one noticed so I was OK =D That's kinda gross right there :P |
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Aug 14 2004, 06:08 PM
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 who again? Group: Member Posts: 555 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,458 |
QUOTE(trainspotting0116 @ Aug 12 2004, 7:30 PM) i recently met a cousin of mine at a fam picnic. . . I havent seen him scince i was litte. backround info im 14, hes 30. . . ( he doesnt look it ) The last time i saw him before then was when i was 4 and he was 20, sitting on his lap in his appartment. i saw him recently, and i found him quite attractive. Is this so wrong? as long as you guys dont go out. its kool 
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Aug 14 2004, 06:19 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
I find my brother cute.
I don't want to have anything to do with him, though. As long as it stays just a "ooh, he's cute".. then it's not creepy or anything, haha. |
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Aug 14 2004, 06:23 PM
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 Quand j'étais jeune... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 6,826 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,272 |
Absolutely normal. If someone is handsome/pretty, will you lie to yourself and say that they're not?
The point being, finding your cousin attractive is one thing, but acting on that attraction is a WHOLE DIFFERENT problem. |
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Aug 14 2004, 07:22 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 39 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,869 |
And it's not like you have a crush on him or anything.
ehhh but i do. . . . |
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Aug 14 2004, 07:24 PM
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and they say imitation is flattering Group: Member Posts: 1,337 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,269 |
QUOTE(InTheMudHole @ Aug 14 2004, 6:19 PM) I find my brother cute. I don't want to have anything to do with him, though. As long as it stays just a "ooh, he's cute".. then it's not creepy or anything, haha. *gasp* I've never seen any of your siblings before :P My brother's gonna let me starve to death while he snores..... *rolls eyes* |
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Aug 14 2004, 07:25 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
My siblings are old.. heh.
College-age. :P |
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Aug 14 2004, 08:27 PM
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i like ur duckies Group: Member Posts: 42 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,887 |
I think some of my cousins are cute. It's totally fine if thinking he's cute is all it is. I mean, why cant you think anyone is cute?
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Aug 14 2004, 08:34 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 39 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,869 |
lol thanks you guys, but after all he IS 30, and yes i do have a full blown crush on him
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Aug 14 2004, 08:53 PM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
i think its ok to think ur cousin is cute but its wrong to have a crush on him
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Aug 15 2004, 05:18 AM
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and they say imitation is flattering Group: Member Posts: 1,337 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,269 |
QUOTE(trainspotting0116 @ Aug 14 2004, 8:34 PM) lol thanks you guys, but after all he IS 30, and yes i do have a full blown crush on him Hon, that's where the line starts existing. 1. He's 30, which is illegal and rather ishy anyway.. 2. He's your freaking cousin. No. Just... no. |
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