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 Aug 10 2004, 08:47 PM
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 » [[ K4R3N ]] «  Group: Member Posts: 46 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,111  |
i have a bf and i haven`t been able to see him a lot because we are both really busy ... so i try and call him as much as i can ... but when i do call, he tends to watch tv or listen to music and doesn`t really listen to what i`m saying ! ex. i say something & then it`s all silent ... so i say his name and he`s like .. "oh ... what`d you say?" it`s like he doesn`t care ...
do guys not like the phone ? or is he not interested to talk to me or whaaaat?! arg . =l |
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Aug 10 2004, 08:54 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Lol.
Iono. My boyfriend is just quiet on the phone.. but yet he's quiet around everyone. Eh. Iono, I don't think they (most) enjoy the phone as much as (most) girls do.. |
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Aug 10 2004, 08:59 PM
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 ¢¾ Wanting it. ¢¾ Group: Member Posts: 2,060 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,234 |
lay low if he's actually doing sumthng like work it means he's into gettin wat he wants and atleast he's doin sumthng thats y he's watching t.v he's tryna get away if there was no reazon 4 hym not to b listenening to u then there wud b a serious prob. once i called my bf evry single day and he'd get so mad he'd scream so like i sed lay low
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Aug 10 2004, 09:08 PM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
well im a guy...
and i dont really like to talk on the phone unless theres something to say cuz well, cuz i usually have very little to say and i would rather let my gf or friend blabber on the phone and i just listen. But i do like getting phone calls 
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Aug 10 2004, 09:13 PM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
bleh my bf does the exact same thing -_-. i used to call him alot but usually wen im tryin to tawk to him, hes either playin playstation or playin a gam on tha computer or somtin like dat. das y i stopped callin him. he needs to learn to listen to me
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Aug 10 2004, 09:14 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,051 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,264 |
Maybe he's just distracted cause he's watching TV.
IM him. That may create a better conversation. 
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Aug 10 2004, 09:14 PM
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 Dark Lord of McCandless Group: Member Posts: 2,226 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,761 |
I HATE phones. Unless both people are using a cell phone. IM over phone whenever possible. Phones are mobile communication devices. You don't use a mobile recon force to attack a major enemy base.
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Aug 10 2004, 09:15 PM
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 WUT THA DUCK? Group: Member Posts: 3,950 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,138 |
not mine! he's always there! but yehh some guys are like that.. one of my ex's would play video games while talking to me... soo i had to repeat myself!
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Aug 10 2004, 09:15 PM
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 ilikeyouSofreakingmuch. Group: Member Posts: 2,014 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 643 |
Haha I'm usually the one going like, "huh, whatchu say?"
i used to talk on the phone for hours with ex. but that was when we weren't together yet .. lol |
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Aug 10 2004, 09:17 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
QUOTE(LiNHy POO @ Aug 10 2004, 8:15 PM) not mine! he's always there! but yehh some guys are like that.. one of my ex's would play video games while talking to me... soo i had to repeat myself! Lol. My boyfriend sometimes plays video games, but he hears what I'm saying, so it's alright. Maybe they're just distracted.. that's why I choose IM to talk to most people.. |
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Aug 10 2004, 09:30 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
er, my ex and i usually never talked on the phone- but when we did, it would be me that would listen, and he'll be talking a lot.
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Aug 10 2004, 09:53 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 196 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,922 |
my boyfriend does that at night. I finally figured out what the reason was...he CANT multi-task.
I came to the conclusion of...not talking to him until a commercial otherwise it is just pointless.  IF it is something important, I usually wait to tell him in person because I know he is paying attention. 
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Aug 10 2004, 09:59 PM
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Oh, yeah.
I've done that a lot. With everyone. I don't like missing parts of my shows. Ruins everything. That happens when I play games too. You can just talk and talk and I'll just play. - Chinkieeyedpnoi |
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Aug 10 2004, 09:59 PM
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 Word. Group: Member Posts: 3,004 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,673 |
we guys usually get bored on the phone and start THINKING about we want to do so we cant LISTEN at the same time.. its hard. lol.
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Aug 10 2004, 10:12 PM
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 Tina + Tommy Group: Member Posts: 427 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,575 |
whenever im on the phone with a guy, they seem to be doing something. then a minute or so later they answer or ask me what i said
i hate it when im talking and their not listening.so rude. 
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Aug 10 2004, 10:56 PM
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WONDERWOMAN? Group: Member Posts: 335 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,636 |
yep. that happens a lot. sometimes when im talking on the phone with a guy friend theyre like "oh sorry whatd you say?" cause theyre always too busy playing music or watchin tv or something.
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Aug 10 2004, 10:58 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,443 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,050 |
i am a guy and if the person i am talking to is liike my gf then i can talk with them for hours but if a friend calls me up we talk max is like 10 minutes haha
.:tony:. |
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Aug 11 2004, 01:16 PM
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 i need an sn change. Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
one time me and my exboyfriend were talking. and i fell asleep...its was so funny. cuz i culd hear his voice in my dream and so i woke up and i was lik huh...
haha... |
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Aug 11 2004, 01:25 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 32 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,929 |
QUOTE blowpops69 Posted on Aug 11 2004, 2:16 PM one time me and my exboyfriend were talking. and i fell asleep...its was so funny. cuz i culd hear his voice in my dream and so i woke up and i was lik huh... haha... haha lmao niiice. anywho.. i talk to my bf on the phone all the time.. sometimes i get bored and dont really wanna listen, i think its cuz we talk too much. so maybe just dont talk as much on the phone, or not as long. or just yell at him and tell him to wake up. 
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Aug 11 2004, 01:28 PM
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 LunchboxXx Group: Member Posts: 1,789 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,810 |
i'm a guy and i personally hate phones
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Aug 11 2004, 02:04 PM
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 look to the sky Group: Member Posts: 15 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,600 |
I don't know; all the boyfriends I've had, including my current one, like talking on the phone. Maybe it's just a personal preference thing with guys.
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Aug 11 2004, 02:06 PM
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 who again? Group: Member Posts: 555 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,458 |
some guys just dont like to talk alot.
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Aug 11 2004, 02:10 PM
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 Serious As A Heart Attack. Group: Member Posts: 2,292 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,344 |
hMMm..its usually the other way around for my boyyfriend and i..but onliee sometimes..for the most part we both listen to each other..he lives 9 hours away from me..so sad..ehh..
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Aug 11 2004, 03:09 PM
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 i'm lala. girly girl. Group: Member Posts: 1,531 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,888 |
omg i know that feeling...i hate *yuckie poo* it's a sucky feeling...guys dont like the phone...but some do! and it's a miracle...but yeah...i'm glad i dont have that feeling anymore...just bare with him...do the same thing...or ask him stupid questions or something to keep conversation...so it works out...
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Aug 11 2004, 07:27 PM
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 mrs. carrabba Group: Member Posts: 67 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 33,786 |
eh..i wouldnt put up with that if i were you. ask him if he hates phones or something, and if he doesnt talk more online i'd say ditch him.
haha now you know why my relationships never last <3 dani |
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