why are all the guys i like TAKEN!?!, i like my friends bf!! |
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 Aug 9 2004, 12:20 PM
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hokay..problem!!!! so i liked this guy and i didnt tell anyone...BIG MISTAKE cuz like 2 weeks later one of my BEST FRIENDS told me that she liked him, and a week later they were going out...
 sad day....i still like him! and it kills me when im with tehm becuase i still like him..i alwasy thought he liked me too, but now i dont knwo what's going on...they've been going out now for a couple of months..they're relaly cute together but i dont knwo what to do....second problem! i like this other guy, and he's soo perfect! he's a year older than me and he's going out with this girl who i personally dont get a long with...we're friends and everytime we see eachother we talk A LOT! he's soo cute! but WHY ARE ALL THE GUYS I LIKE TAKEN!!!!? please i need advice! help!!!!  
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Aug 9 2004, 12:23 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 646 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,847 |
maybe you have a subconscience "i want what i can't have" complex???
i can think of 7 great guys off the top of my head that aren't taken... but they're my friends so lol i'm a little biased |
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Aug 9 2004, 12:26 PM
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To simply put it....No girl wants what another girl doesn't already have....It's natueral....The only choice is...if you want to be a good person or a bad person....
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Aug 9 2004, 12:27 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
lol i dunno what to say but learn ur lessons and next time u like a guy tell them asap lol
and about those 2 guys u like/liked.. u have nothing to do but give up.. unless u wanna wait till they break up? |
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Aug 9 2004, 12:28 PM
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 Word. Group: Member Posts: 3,004 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,673 |
you should act fast when you like someone...
i used to like this girl and then my friend saw her like 10 mins later and hooked up w/ her... it happened w/ 3 other girls... DAMN! oh well.. i should start paying attention and stop the slackin. |
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Aug 9 2004, 06:03 PM
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 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
you should tel someone you lik dem b4 its too late.
well deres always next time :) |
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Aug 9 2004, 07:03 PM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
maybe u just love things that are off limits ;] ?
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Aug 9 2004, 07:05 PM
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 Master Debater Group: Member Posts: 1,066 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,719 |
If you really liked these guys, you should've made it known. Maybe you only really start liking them once you hear all the good things about them through your friends.
Just remember, dont screw your friends over. Let them have there fun, and if things dont work out; you deff. need to make your move. |
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Aug 9 2004, 08:39 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,051 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,264 |
Maybe you only like the guys who are hard to get...
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Aug 9 2004, 09:58 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 286 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,508 |
aww, i'm sure you'll find a single guy one day!
in the meanwhile, there's nothing you can do about those two guys who are taken... unless if you wanna wait for them to break up, but that could be a waste of time =\ |
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Aug 10 2004, 02:08 PM
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dont forget to smiLe today Group: Member Posts: 336 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,095 |
maybe you should stop liking people for now? its hard but i gues you could try.
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Aug 10 2004, 02:12 PM
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awawaz.sweetie..its maybe just that the riight guy havent come to yet..when it comes u wont think like that..faith iz bringing the right guy 4 u..trust me=]
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Aug 10 2004, 08:51 PM
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 » [[ K4R3N ]] « Group: Member Posts: 46 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,111 |
i`m sorry that your guys are all taken ... but that juss probably means they`re not the right ones for you ... WATCH . one day the right guy is gonna come along . these things just take time =)*
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Aug 10 2004, 09:15 PM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
mayb its cuz u like guys that r realli likable so then other gurlz like em too n they start goin out.
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Aug 10 2004, 09:16 PM
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 ilikeyouSofreakingmuch. Group: Member Posts: 2,014 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 643 |
yep what she said ^ .. lol
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Aug 11 2004, 09:29 AM
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ur like me,
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Aug 11 2004, 09:57 AM
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jeez i hope you read this cuz i was in a similar situation for like a year. I really liked this guy who was older than me, but he was taken and me and his gf didn't really hit it off (if ya know what I mean) but he and I remained friends for a long time and I was always there for him when he needed a friend. We talked a lot and were really close but didn't see each other in person that often. As time goes by and blah blah blah, i just put him in the back of my head and went out with other guys...But every time I was single I always looked for a guy like him...One day he and his gf broke up..and there i was for him...and now we're going out. XD
so i guess im saying to you, try and put him in the back of your mind, but don't forget him. |
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Aug 11 2004, 10:05 AM
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 Is it maturity, or admitting defeat...? Group: Member Posts: 152 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 36,659 |
QUOTE(lurideyes @ Aug 11 2004, 10:57 AM) so i guess im saying to you, try and put him in the back of your mind, but don't forget him. Best advice I've heard in here so far 
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Aug 11 2004, 10:10 AM
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 who again? Group: Member Posts: 555 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,458 |
find some new guys.
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Aug 11 2004, 03:43 PM
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get ovr him cuz he's obvously off limits...
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Aug 11 2004, 07:15 PM
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 mrs. carrabba Group: Member Posts: 67 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 33,786 |
sounds like bad luck to me. i've definitley been there before.
wait it out. maybe they'll break up before you know it. |
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Aug 11 2004, 07:21 PM
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Word. Group: Member Posts: 3,004 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,673 |
the best thing u should do now is just give it up and start checking out the other guys... u never know. there might be someone right behind u and you didn't know.
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Aug 12 2004, 07:49 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 5,585 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,082 |
I say you just move on and pick another guy and once you find someone you like, tell them because if you keep it in, well it feels bad.
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Aug 13 2004, 03:32 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 78 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,654 |
hm maybe the time is just not right?
u should get over him, there's plenty of guys out there waiting for u 
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