my friend cuts :( |
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 Aug 9 2004, 05:14 PM
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telling her that it's not good won't mean that she won't do it....sit her down n hav a talk...tell her that u don't want her to do it cuz u care about her and luv her as a friend....and tell her that her dad isn't worth cutting herself and that they're other peoplez in the world that care about her...she'll understand n there's a good chance that she will stop...
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Aug 9 2004, 05:19 PM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
my sister and my one of my ex girlfriend cuts,yea its not nice knowing they cut but i did ask them to try to find another way to releive pain and well my sister stopped and iono about my ex i dont talk to her anymore
 just ask her if she only cuts to reliev pain,and its not some suicide attempt,clear that up.
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Aug 9 2004, 05:21 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
QUOTE(defjam_gangsta @ Jul 17 2004, 7:47 AM) GREETINGS!! i've frens who cut their wrists. they are overcomin their grief. by feelin pain in themselves, they hope their worldly pain will be overcome. this is all psychological. but being da concerned fren, it's best tat ya be at her side. dun try to force ya way in. just be there for her. she will overcome it. sooner or laterz. even if it's gonna take centuries, at least there is a sane person wit her. if worst come to worst, seek professional help or talk to ya skol counsellor or somethin rite. dun worry. our prayers are wit ya and ya fren.  CHEERS CB!! ^Wow. For once.. I actually agree with you, defjam. 
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Aug 9 2004, 05:59 PM
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 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
i dink you should tell an adult. or you could tell her how much other ppl are always caring for her, and that its kinda selfish if you just cut yourself. because its gonna and IS causing a lot of pain for everyone around her. someone CARES for her and shes never alone. let her noe dat.
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Aug 10 2004, 12:37 AM
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talk to heR? psh, ya right, force her to stop, yell at her, be angry at her, make her feel guilty wen she cuts herself, threaten to rat out on her, make her feel like **** wen she cuts. that'll teach her.
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Aug 10 2004, 12:37 AM
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talk to heR? psh, ya right, force her to stop, yell at her, be angry at her, make her feel guilty wen she cuts herself, threaten to rat out on her, make her feel like SHlT wen she cuts. that'll teach her.
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Aug 10 2004, 02:56 AM
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MiCHELLEY. Group: Member Posts: 164 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,846 |
tell her to stop in a playful-but-serious way .
 lol , am i making sense ? well show her that you care .
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Aug 10 2004, 03:04 AM
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 WWMD?! - i am from the age of BM 2 Group: Member Posts: 5,308 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,848 |
you should reccommend her to a psychiatrist, or reccommend some anti-depressants. they worked for me..
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Aug 10 2004, 03:05 AM
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 We are the cure. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,936 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,456 |
QUOTE(VaguelyAware @ Aug 10 2004, 4:04 AM) you should reccommend her to a psychiatrist, or reccommend some anti-depressants. they worked for me.. 
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Aug 10 2004, 03:11 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 646 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,847 |
*clutches skizzors* i'm glad none of you are my friends
lol kidding i quit cutting in april i think my boyfriend threatened to stop takin his insulin if i didn't quit (he's diabetic) |
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