Friend or Bf?, confused...?_? Options

[designergurlxx]

there's this guy that i have known for pretty long time that i'm friends with...i know he's got a little crush on me but im not into him as much...i know he is tryin to take our friendship into another level...but im not sure...it would probably break our friendship if we start going out...so im realy confused right now...im not sure what to do...

PS: hes also a few weeks younger than me(so im not very sure i want to date a guy younger than me)

[ghjgfkgfk]

PS: hes also a few weeks younger than me(so im not very sure i want to date a guy younger than me)

what the...?
a few WEEKS younger? how would that matter? people won't even know.

[*CEP*]

OH NOS dun j00 go out wit him. hes t3h yungar dan j00. wut iph pplz phind out?! omgwtflolbbq dats t3h sc4ndaloos. dats t3h weeerd. but den agn j00 dun lyk him dat much. so i guess s1nc3 j00r such a phr33 spirit. j00 shud go try him oot. i m34n dats wut j00 pplz do righ? go oot wit t3h pplz dat r j00r phrends witout dinkin bout what'll happen?
meh t3h pplz and j00r low moral standardz.

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- Chinkieeyedpnoi

[x AZN D0RKii x]

OH NOS dun j00 go out wit him. hes t3h yungar dan j00. wut iph pplz phind out?! omgwtflolbbq dats t3h sc4ndaloos. dats t3h weeerd. but den agn j00 dun lyk him dat much. so i guess s1nc3 j00r such a phr33 spirit. j00 shud go try him oot. i m34n dats wut j00 pplz do righ? go oot wit t3h pplz dat r j00r phrends witout dinkin bout what'll happen?
meh t3h pplz and j00r low moral standardz.

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- Chinkieeyedpnoi

omfg what the hell .. i don`t get what you`re tyrna say .. hah i even tried to translate it ..

he`s only a FEW WEEKS younger .. would that REALLY matter ?

[pbear]

lol, Jose.

But seriously, a few weeks younger? Who cares?
And plus, have you thought about what might happen if it doesn't work out between you two?

[dani41790]

OH NOS dun j00 go out wit him. hes t3h yungar dan j00. wut iph pplz phind out?! omgwtflolbbq dats t3h sc4ndaloos. dats t3h weeerd. but den agn j00 dun lyk him dat much. so i guess s1nc3 j00r such a phr33 spirit. j00 shud go try him oot. i m34n dats wut j00 pplz do righ? go oot wit t3h pplz dat r j00r phrends witout dinkin bout what'll happen?
meh t3h pplz and j00r low moral standardz.

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- Chinkieeyedpnoi

i'll translate each word but it mite be a litto weird: oh no dont you go out with him. hes the younger than you. what if people find out?!? omg wtf lol bbq thats the scandalous. thats the weird. but then again you dont like him that much. so i guess since you're suck a free spiri. you should go try him out. i mean that's what you people do right? go out with the people that are your friends without thinkin about what'll happen?
meh the peoples and you're low moral standardz.

but yea mayb u should give him a chance. so what if hes a few weeks youger than u. my bf is like a month younger than me n idc. its not like its a big gap between u two

[whomps]

Eh.. if you don't feel that way about him then don't try to make it work.. just tell him that you value your friendship more than being with him and having to break up and have nothing at all. Hope that made sense.

[conster]

well if u like him then go for it... i guess just warn him a bit that the friendship mite be ruined and see how he feels about it

[xsweetdreams12x]

Tell him that you don't want to take your relationship to another level, because you don't want to ruin the friendship you already have.

Hopefully he'll respect that and move on.

[silver-rain]

well, if you like him, go for it. who cares if he's just a few weeks younger than you.

[jihae526]

who cares if hes younger? i don't see what it matters. well if you don't like him that much to go out with him, tell him no and you still want to be friends. i'm sure he'll understand (i doubt he'll go and throw himself off a bridge... he won't.. will he?)

[asdf]

ok. i understand some ppl mind if the guy is a year or couple years younger.. but few weeks??

you guys are still in the same grade!

[lurideyes]

You are really wierd... A FEW WEEKS? Chill... Sounds like you are a little superficial...why should age really matter in a relationship? The part about breaking up the friendship is what I'd worry about...but who knows maybe it'll be worth it. Life is about chances.

[slurp]

if you dont know you want to stay friends or more than that then be friends for now and see if youd like to stay as friends or something more than that, and if you really feeling it age doesnt matter

[ForgottenDreamz]

a few weeks younger I mean if he was 2 years or so that would matter I am only dissapointed by this becuase I am younger but more mature than most than everyone in my grade.

[SH0RTAYE]

OH NOS dun j00 go out wit him. hes t3h yungar dan j00. wut iph pplz phind out?! omgwtflolbbq dats t3h sc4ndaloos. dats t3h weeerd. but den agn j00 dun lyk him dat much. so i guess s1nc3 j00r such a phr33 spirit. j00 shud go try him oot. i m34n dats wut j00 pplz do righ? go oot wit t3h pplz dat r j00r phrends witout dinkin bout what'll happen?
meh t3h pplz and j00r low moral standardz.

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- Chinkieeyedpnoi

L0L wtf manng .

[whywasisostupid]

uh a few weeks shouldnt b a problem...but i wouldnt kno...i always dated older men

and if u dont realy feel that way with him, just tell him. or give him a chance. you never kno, yall might b a realy awesum couple

[inthemudhole]

OH NOS dun j00 go out wit him. hes t3h yungar dan j00. wut iph pplz phind out?! omgwtflolbbq dats t3h sc4ndaloos. dats t3h weeerd. but den agn j00 dun lyk him dat much. so i guess s1nc3 j00r such a phr33 spirit. j00 shud go try him oot. i m34n dats wut j00 pplz do righ? go oot wit t3h pplz dat r j00r phrends witout dinkin bout what'll happen?
meh t3h pplz and j00r low moral standardz.

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- Chinkieeyedpnoi

LMFAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Uh. Just.. go out with him.
God, he's only a few weeks younger.
My boyfriend is 3 months older, and he doesn't care.
Garsh.

[StarStruck xD]

a few weeks doesnt matter THAT much !! I mean it wasnt like a 6 years or anything...

[mistahpho]

i'd pick friend lol

[hybrid]

Tell him.



It might break his heart.
But.. it's better than lying to a friend, isn't it?

[tootsie_kiddo]

PS: hes also a few weeks younger than me(so im not very sure i want to date a guy younger than me)

itz only a few weex. does it really matter???

[aznmunki]

PS: hes also a few weeks younger than me(so im not very sure i want to date a guy younger than me)

that just hurts...
ever1 i eva liked was way olda than that to me..... months...even years...

[LiL_RiZZLe]

[QUOTE]PS: hes also a few weeks younger than me(so im not very sure i want to date a guy younger than me)


what the...?
a few WEEKS younger? how would that matter? people won't even know.

i agree....it's only a few weeks, get over it....but u need to b realli sure he likes ya and i mean really sure....especially if it's w/ a friend..u don't wanna b confronting to him that u kno he likes u or sumthing like that and he nevr liked ya...u'd jus b embarrasing urself! and if he duz really like u, you don't need to go out w/ him if u don't want to...and u definately don't need to hook up w/ him cuz u feel srry for him...if ya did want to go out w/ him...i'm pretty sure it would b cuz ya really like him or ya jus need to give him a chance....

[sunshiNe_sweeTi_]

a few weeks duz not matter...get over that...and it's a little crush....who knows mayb he likes sumone else....and if he did ask u out...then go out w/ him if u want to....if u don't then jus say no cuz u guys r such good friendz....it's as simple as that...and sure he'll b crushed but he'll get ovr it