my boyfriend is..., hard to dump |
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 Aug 8 2004, 07:19 PM
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 mrs. carrabba  Group: Member Posts: 67 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 33,786  |
i've been dating a guy who lives 30 minutes away for about 4 months now. i've known that i wanted to break it off for awhile now, but i just can't do it. he's the most geniunley nice guy i've ever met, he has goals, he's intelligent, witty, so much fun, wealthy, and very much loved (the perfect guy)...the only problem is our relationship has been dwindling, we dont talk as much or get to see eachother because of the distance. i know he cares alot about me and i have so much respect for him and he's the last person i'd want to hurt. how do i let him down the easiest and make sure we'll be friends after this?
*danielle |
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Aug 8 2004, 07:28 PM
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Is he the perfect guy for you?
Even though he seems perfect, he may not be right for you. You've made it seem that there's nothing that doesn't want you to break it off with him is the distance. Is that all? 
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Aug 8 2004, 07:35 PM
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mrs. carrabba Group: Member Posts: 67 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 33,786 |
distance, and we're not as close as i'd like us to be at this point. not as much attraction anymore...that kind of deal...
<3 danielle |
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Aug 8 2004, 07:38 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,051 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,264 |
Icic.
Then just break it off. It may be hard, but you can't let yourself be walked upon and stay with him just because you're afraid of hurting his feelings. |
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Aug 8 2004, 07:59 PM
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 Linny the dork. Group: Member Posts: 178 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,258 |
QUOTE "the only problem is our relationship has been dwindling, we dont talk as much or get to see eachother because of the distance" i'd tell him all of that that you just told us, he'll understand. 
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Aug 8 2004, 08:12 PM
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yea just tell him it's the distance... i mean, there's nothin u can really do about it u kno
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Aug 8 2004, 09:07 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
i think the easiest way not hurting someone is to hurt them all at once.. its better that u rip their heart all at once then to tear it bit by bit.. which hurts more.. so just say it all out straight out
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Aug 8 2004, 09:29 PM
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u can try sparking the relationship back again
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Aug 8 2004, 09:51 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
if hes the perfect guy for you, distance shouldnt matter. it matters tht you two are in love and nothing can get in the way.
next week is me and my bf's 5th month anniversary. We live like 20-30 minutes apart and he has summer school (which is gunna end this week thank god) and I havent seen him in 2-3 weeks...Yah we dont see each other much but once you do see him, its like all the bad things go away. Me and my bf dont talk much online or on the fone lately but we still are going strong and love each other. And because u guys dont talk much, dont mean its over. If you really care about him and love him then u guys should try to work things out. Im sure things will get better down the road!
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Aug 8 2004, 10:01 PM
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mrs. carrabba Group: Member Posts: 67 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 33,786 |
well i just dumped him. thanks for all the advice guys, it was the right thing to do...although im still crying about it.
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Aug 10 2004, 02:12 PM
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dont forget to smiLe today Group: Member Posts: 336 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,095 |
eeks. if you wanna break up. meet somewhere face to face. its better than on the phone. be as nice and polite as you can. goodluck!
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Aug 10 2004, 05:38 PM
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 unify and defeat... divide and crumble Group: Member Posts: 2,759 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,379 |
Just Do It. (face 2 face if possible) just tell the truth, and be honest.
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Aug 10 2004, 06:18 PM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
if u really want to end things heh, just break it down clearly to him heh, like nike and wut other people said. "JUST DO IT"
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Aug 10 2004, 06:29 PM
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 anti-friendly Group: Member Posts: 181 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,973 |
relationships... funny. love is for the weak minded
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Aug 10 2004, 07:02 PM
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Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
QUOTE relationships... funny. love is for the weak minded no need to hate the ppl tht is in love with someone |
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