Distant relationships, how do they do it? |
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 Aug 8 2004, 06:24 PM
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 who again?  Group: Member Posts: 555 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,458  |
ok on distant relationships, i know some people have them, how do you people do it?! i mean seriously, i would die if i couldnt cuddle with my loved one ><, i love hugging and kissin them showing my affections, how do you do that when your distant? You guys are strong i tell you that.
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Aug 8 2004, 06:31 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
mine isnt really distant but we do live like 20 minutes away and go to different skools...its all about trustand communication. If you can maintain it, then ur fine
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Aug 8 2004, 06:40 PM
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 WWMD?! - i am from the age of BM 2 Group: Member Posts: 5,308 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,848 |
i live in indiana, nick lives in new york. i think that's pretty distant.
 you're right, it's not easy..i wish i could cuddle and hug and all that good stuff, but i just have to deal with what i have..it depends on whether you really love the person or not. but thankfully i haven't come to one of the hardest things in distant relationships.....when someone from where you live wants to date you. 
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Aug 8 2004, 07:19 PM
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 WUT THA DUCK? Group: Member Posts: 3,950 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,138 |
ahh im in one right now... its been 2 months and 6 days with him... its pretty hard though... i've never been in one.. and this is our first... we talk and spend as much time with each other as we can.. he's moving down here in december... juss to be with me! though we do get into alot of fights.. we care for each deeply... and the distance makes me want him even more!
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Aug 8 2004, 07:30 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,051 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,264 |
It's all about trust and communication.
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Aug 8 2004, 07:57 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Mine is so distant.
I mean, gash, man.. he lives a WHOLE THREE BLOCKS AWAY FROM ME! I don't know how I survive.. It just takes a lot of trust.. and lots of talking.. |
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Aug 8 2004, 08:01 PM
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 mrs. carrabba Group: Member Posts: 67 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 33,786 |
i could never do it.
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Aug 8 2004, 09:07 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 875 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,841 |
if you really love someone as much to the point youre willing to have a distant relationship i guess if you have faith in the relationship itd work out, did i make sense ?
 
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Aug 8 2004, 11:44 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 286 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,508 |
it's really tough. but I guess constant communication and honesty/trust/loyalty are the key.
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Aug 8 2004, 11:54 PM
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Mine isn't like permanent long distance. He goes to Jersey every summer. It's really hard. We just talk on the phone as much as we can.
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Aug 9 2004, 04:26 AM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
im in one right now, i see her every once in a while but heh, we talk online,on the phone,and someimes email if we're really busy. yea it kinda sucks that i cant hcuddle with her w/e i want to but we're both sweet talkers, we know what each other want to hear and talk about to keep us happy.
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Aug 9 2004, 04:56 AM
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 Bardic Nation Group: Member Posts: 1,113 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,059 |
distance is always there, it is the devotion, trust, means, and determination to make what divides you smaller. It's the same with every obstacle in a relationship.
What's keeping you apart? What if it's not love, what if there is somebody else? that my friends is lack of trust. |
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Aug 9 2004, 05:35 AM
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 Cb's Emotional Writer Group: Member Posts: 166 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 33,300 |
theres a girl in cali, that really likes me and wants to do the whole long distance thing i got ot meet her once at the airport and shes great, just dont know if i should go for it lol
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Aug 10 2004, 11:47 PM
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 » [[ K4R3N ]] « Group: Member Posts: 46 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,111 |
i honestly don`t know how people can have long distant relationships ... i would be so sad that i wouldn`t be able to see my bf often ='[ but for those ppl who really REALLY love each other .... then i guess they will make it work somehow =]*
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