A question for all of you... Options

[aakash27]

if u love eachother everything can work

[xjjajeengx]

well... i would say they dont work, but then... if i had to be in one, then i would hope they work. i think it doesnt really depend on if you love that much or not. of course it matters, but i think that it depends on how much you have faith it will work, and how commited you are to making it work. also, if the couple has good coordination meaning it isnt just one of them that is putting effort into the relationship, i think that definetly, it'll work.

[KGRL1]

i think they work if u put work into it. if u have time u guys can plan on meeting up and such. well for me, my relationship didnt start off with it being long distance buh then 2 months into tha relationship my bf left to tha mothaland and i havent seen him since :P

[anglazncutie911]

yah i gotta say...i mean they can cheat on ya even if its a long relationship..buts it ur life

[LadyJade]

i really don't think it works well. u don't kno if he/she is cheating on u or not.

[jen b0 lee___x0x]

[FONT=Arial] YEAH, THEY W0RK..iM iN 0NE RiiGH N0W& iTS G0iN WELL.. iT JUST DEPENDS iF Y0U GUYS REALLY L0VE EACH 0THER..S0 YEAHH!

[Baptismapyros]

I've seen it work and I've seen it not work. My friend's girlfriend moved to Texas for work and for a while, he'd fly down there every now and then. Eventually he proposed and they're happily married. What it really depends upon is the maturity and commitment of both parties. Unfortunately, it’s usually the guy that backs off and starts cheating. It works if both people want to make it work. Yeah, it’s commonly known that guys do cheat physically, but girls cheat emotionally, I don’t know which is worse. If you want to hear me rant on people who cheat and its sociological implications, just let me know.

[xxxlilazngrlxxx]

if the people are extremely dedicated and loyal to each other then it would probably work. but a lot of people arent like that these days

[Dr3aMeR]

NOOOOO!!!!!!!! F***ING NOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Will only work under two conditions?
1) Obviously if both the people are in love. Most likely kids, teenagers, etc do not know what love is from slight obsession to longing to companionship. Two people at a young age do not know "love".
(So this condition cannot be met)
2) The people must "NOT be in LOVE" or more specifically they both must not like the other "that much". They key word is "BOTH". It must be both because if one likes the other more than the other he/she will sacrifice to get the relationship to work and the other will just bum around and do nothing. Yet, if both like the other just "so and so" to the point where they won't cheat on each other the relationship will just draaaaaggg onn annnnd ooooonnnn aannnddd onnnnnnn until the day they finally will be able to meet and have a "not long distance but short distance relationship". Then during this time they might start to like each other more and actually have a good relationship. But, this is only after it has been a dull and boring time until they get "closer".
(Possible, but why bother to wait and not find someone you really like?)

[Baptismapyros]

I'm in agreement with Dr3aMeR for 99% of the cases of long distance relationships. Haha to be honest, I’ve only seen it work once. Didn’t want to destroy all your hopes, but Dr3aMeR’s right.

[soul4star]

only with trust can that work well

[colorsarenice]

they should work if you guys are really in love or you guys trust each other enough. my friend's ex girl broke up with him after a few months since they went to different school. he really loved her, but i guess she didnt. my other friend has been going out with this guy for about over a year now. its been a few months they havent seen each other since she moved schools, but theyre still together. so i guess it really depends on the relationship you have.

[lexion]

If both of you trust each other enough and love each other enough, then it will work. It's rare though.

[aj637]

hasnt this topic already been said? well if you ask me long distance relationship can work and cant work. it depends on the people. if they want it to work then they will let it work but if they dont they it wont. thats how simple it is.

[geeitzphuongee]

i went on a long distance relationship once..last for about one month and half...long distance relationship doesnt work out for everyone...but it does sometimes..

[NvieDi3ai3yGrL]

yes they can w0rk .. but it inv0lves a l0t 0f time, dedicati0n, patience and trust 0n b0th sides .. i've been in a l0ng distance relati0nship f0r well 0ver 3 years n0w .. it's p0ssible =]

[himynameismike]

i'm in a long distance relationship right now and all i can say is pffft.

its no good.

and like leenie said, sex/making out is pretty important. although that may be shallow, the relationship will get boring with just talk.

unless that person is very, very interesting.

mike.

[psychoticangel]

It depends I guess... If you know and trust each other pretty well then, its got chances to work out... buh sometimes you just really need to be with a person physically so LDR kinda sucks.. coz some people having LDRs tend to pour all that "Affection" on those people near him/her so yah.. third parties and all those happen =/ oh wellz...

I'm in one btw... 5 months and going.. and welp.. he wubz me *i can tell o.o I mean, if someone calls you and messages you thousands of times a day.. what else would that mean? xP* hehe~

[iloveyou07]

they can if both ppl try to heep it going

[nearly sam]

i hope they work..i really REALLY hope they work.cause i might probably get into the long distant relationship too. but i guess it all depends on both couple. if they still want to be together even if it's a long distnat i think it'll work out. hopefully. but if they arn't sure.. than i'm not sure

[*AngelicEyz00*]

I moved from my home city to San Diego, and I had been w/my bf for 1 yr and 1 month before I moved. Then 4 or 5 months later, my bf cheated on me and broke up with me. I don't think long distance relationships work and i wouldn't be willing to try one again

[x1049]

how much distance are we talking?

i'm not one for long distance myself.

[-sincerely]

Yess. I know somebody who has had one for about a year, they visit during breaks, and he gave her a promise ring (they're getting married).

[priyas]

yes.

[Annabella Lee]

i don't think so. i wouldnt even want to think about how it would be if i didn't get to see my boyfriend every week.