i really like this guy....., but my friend likes him to! Options

[LiL_RiZZLe]

he asked me out...and i don't kno wether to say yes....i kno it's wrong to go out w sumone that my friend likes too, but i like him a LOT more than she duz and i liked him longer!! but i still wanna b a good friend to her cuz she's my best friend....wat should i do??

[head_0ver_heels]

Talk to her about it and if she's okay with it then go ahead with the relationship. If she doesn't like the idea of you going out with him then maybe you could tell him why you can't go out? I dunno...Just trying to help.

[XaZnX07]

maybe you should ask her if its ok for you to go out with him cause if she is a very good friend to you she would let you so talk to her ok i wish for all the best for you



.:tony:.

[*CEP*]

I say just go out with him.
You friend would understand. I mean, the guy's not her property.
So it's not like you stole him from her or anything.

- Chinkieeyedpnoi

[pbear]

Maybe tell her ahead of time that you're going out with the guy so she doesn't find out from someone else and flip.
But if you really, really like the guy, you shouldn't let her stop you.
I guess you should choose: [excuse the phrasing] chick or d*ck?

[ComradeRed]

There is only one solution: Fight to the bloody death...

[preciousheart]

o0oh i was on that situation before. my friend likes this guy first before i did and when she sorta introduced him to me i started liking him but i felt something more though. and then the days went on and i found out that the guy that we both like, likes me too..more than like. and we became friends and he asked me out. i was worried about my friend on how she would feel. but i did what my heart told me to... so i told him yes. and yeahhh my friend got mad at me and everything but i wouldnt blame her though. we kinda didnt talk for like 3 days? yep im such a bad friend but we both moved on though and she has her own bf now too. lol. we`re still friends.

ehhhrr sorry for my long reply. but yeah like everyone else said you should talk to your friend and also follow what your heart is telling you to and think about it and the consequences and everything. just make the right decision.

[sammi rules you]

I don't think it's really fair to stop you from having a nice relationship just because your friend likes him. He asked you out, so he obviously likes you, and that's too bad for her. It's life.

I say go for it. If a guy comes between your friendship, then it's not a very good one.

[*jooleeah*]

hmm. i think you should go out with him. but talk to your friend first. she might not be too happy but hopefully she'll accept that fact that you're going out with him. [ well, if you chose to.]

[cutey2kc]

i say bein a good best friend that u are..u should talk to her about it..tell her how you REALLY feel about the situation u have..and if she really is that good of a best friend..she will completely understand..and if she doesn't...than u should talk the situation over with the guy that just asked you out...and see if he understands..it's just a matter of who will understand the most..try out all that..hope this helped! good luck!!

[conster]

i wouldnt ask her for permission lols but ill tell her before i say yes.. if shes ur best friend she should understand

[LiL_LDY]

i was in that situation before .. & i ended up with him. it was a really hard decision .. but it was like my friend wanted to play him .. and i truly liked him, so i went for it. as it turned out, she & a lot of my other homies thought i f**ked her over. but, they got over it .. and i`m still with my bf. =) so .. ask ur friend if she`s okay with it, i dont see why she shouldn`t be. if she`s ur best friend, she`ll be happy for you.

[xsweetdreams12x]

Talk to her about it and she'll realize she needs to get over this guy and find somebody she actually has a chance with.

[slurp]

ask if your friend if shes okay with it and if she is a good and understandable friend to you, she would be okay with you saying yes

[inquisitive_]

I've been in that situation too. I say you just say no to him because even if you talk to your friend and she says its okay, it really isn't. She'll probably feel betrayed because she likes him too. I know you like him but there are alot of guys out there. You can find one that your friend doesn't like and you'll be fine. Don't ever put a boy in between a friendship. Hope that helps in some way!

[NvieDi3ai3yGrL]

if you liked him longer than i'm sure your best friend should understand. talk to them about it first anyway.

[SH0RTAYE]

I don't think it's really fair to stop you from having a nice relationship just because your friend likes him. He asked you out, so he obviously likes you, and that's too bad for her. It's life.

I say go for it. If a guy comes between your friendship, then it's not a very good one.

^ yeah !

[inthemudhole]

I don't think it's really fair to stop you from having a nice relationship just because your friend likes him. He asked you out, so he obviously likes you, and that's too bad for her. It's life.

I say go for it. If a guy comes between your friendship, then it's not a very good one.

^I totally agree with Sammi.

She might be mad at you, but if it's a really true friendship, she wouldn't let it get in the way forever.

Goooooooo for it.

It's obvious he likes you, and not her.. there's nothing you can do about that part of it.