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 Jul 22 2004, 10:57 PM
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I like a 17 year old and he likes me. (14 by the way.) But he says the age difference is bad because its "like rape." Wtf? Is it bad to go out with a guy 3 years older than you?
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Jul 27 2004, 08:14 AM
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QUOTE(sweetx305 @ Jul 27 2004, 8:02 AM) now THAT's statuatory rape.... if there was sex involved.  there wuz no sex involved!! buh we loved eachother...5yrs is nth!! |
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Jul 27 2004, 12:16 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 213 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 12,800 |
its not rape unless the significant other is 4 years or older
well the law in my state says 4 years is the limit .. 
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Jul 27 2004, 12:17 PM
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 What the fack. Group: Official Member Posts: 6,164 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,519 |
I don't think age matters all that much. If it bothers you and him, then maybe you should talk about it. If not, then what does it matter? You shouldn't be worried about of what other people think. Although there are times when too old is way too old. But I don't think so in your case.
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Jul 27 2004, 12:38 PM
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 I can't believe its not "Ryan" Group: Member Posts: 1,981 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,368 |
I dont think 17 and 14 is bad...but if he was like 21 and 14 thats a different story...yikes!
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Jul 27 2004, 06:07 PM
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 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
err i think its fine. "rape?" gosh. is he like thinking of sex already..
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Jul 30 2004, 10:31 PM
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i dont think it matters as long as both of you are feeling it, namean?
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Jul 31 2004, 04:00 AM
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When I was still with my ex, I was 14 and he was 17. It's no big deal.
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Jul 31 2004, 04:01 AM
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 We are the cure. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,936 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,456 |
Age doesn't matter if you love them.
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Jul 31 2004, 04:02 AM
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Yes, It doesn't matter.. Although.. I think it'd be kinda weird if it was like.. 12 year old girl with 80 year old guy.. >_<
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Jul 31 2004, 04:04 AM
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We are the cure. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,936 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,456 |
^ We have a word for that:
Pedophile. |
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Jul 31 2004, 04:08 AM
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:hammer: Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,849 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,700 |
Paedophile*
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Jul 31 2004, 04:08 AM
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We are the cure. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,936 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,456 |
QUOTE(x_angawhomps @ Jul 31 2004, 5:08 AM) Paedophile* It's not paedophile =] |
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Jul 31 2004, 04:50 AM
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 WWMD?! - i am from the age of BM 2 Group: Member Posts: 5,308 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,848 |
My first boyfriend was the exact same age diff. He's 17 and im 14.
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Jul 31 2004, 04:58 AM
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:hammer: Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,849 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,700 |
OH BUT IT CAN BE. Paedophile. Doesn't it look so much cooler that way?
http://hyperdictionary.com/search.aspx?define=paedophile |
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Jul 31 2004, 06:40 AM
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no, i dun think age would matter if it was even 10 years, my parents have a 9 year age difference
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Jul 31 2004, 08:51 AM
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Gackt's Wife Group: Member Posts: 411 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,549 |
mmm depends on the state law i think.. in VA if ur over 18 its considered illegal to go wit ne one under that age
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Jul 31 2004, 11:08 AM
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 TheQuietThingsNoOneEverKnows Group: Member Posts: 75 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,721 |
uhhhh....if theres love then go for it
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Jul 31 2004, 11:47 AM
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Well, it's not rape YET.
Wait one more year.  - Chinkieeyedpnoi |
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Jul 31 2004, 11:59 AM
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it dun matter i noe ppo that goes out wid older guys..mai friend is going out wid a 21 yr old nd shes 15
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Jul 31 2004, 02:03 PM
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it is not bad
unless you are having sex with him then it is rape |
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Aug 2 2004, 08:08 AM
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if you're both truly happie.. i dun think that age makes a difference.
[I]..i hope you open your eyes soon, before you realize i won't be there much longer..[/I] |
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Aug 2 2004, 08:10 AM
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if you're both truly happie.. i dun think that age makes a difference.
]..i hope you open your eyes soon, before you realize i won't be there much longer.. |
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Aug 2 2004, 08:11 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
its not tht bad. its just like a freshmen going out with a junior. I think its fine but just make sure he isnt in it for sex..
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Aug 2 2004, 09:46 PM
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 heart broken x Group: Member Posts: 247 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,259 |
QUOTE(xxxlilazngrlxxx @ Jul 23 2004, 12:53 AM) it`s not rape unless u hab sex with him, and even then he`s still technically underage its not rape unless u liked it ^well u knoe wah i mean^ |
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Aug 3 2004, 05:08 PM
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 umm, ya, whatever. Group: Member Posts: 33 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 36,854 |
its not ilegal untill he is 128 but who cares
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