courage to ask a guy out, bleh... |
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 Aug 1 2004, 11:28 PM
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 i THINK i like this guy but then i'm not sure if he likes me. but then we flirt a lot. like he talks and touches me (not in that way  ) and we tease each other a lot. and when we talk he like has that look you know? and it makes me all  and im just wondering what would you say make me determine to ask him out? or should i just wait? and how would you get the courage. pff talked too much 
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Aug 1 2004, 11:53 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,025 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,051 |
QUOTE(teeners__15 @ Aug 1 2004, 11:28 PM) i THINK i like this guy but then i'm not sure if he likes me. but then we flirt a lot. like he talks and touches me (not in that way ) and we tease each other a lot. and when we talk he like has that look you know? and it makes me all and im just wondering what would you say make me determine to ask him out? or should i just wait? and how would you get the courage. pff talked too much ask him out. practice in front of the mirror and too friends, thats what i normally do. Oh and record yourself saying what you are going to say the listen to it, so you know what you sound like and if you sound stupid say it differently go for it now, if you wait too long and no one makes a move, things might not work out |
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Aug 1 2004, 11:53 PM
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 Aww! ^___^ Group: Member Posts: 184 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,645 |
Aww lol I always get excited with this kind of stuff.
I say if you don't have the courage to ask him out, just tell him that you like him, then his probably gonna ask you out. Cause duh girl, it's so obvious that he likes you too. But earning the courage to ask a guy out ? Just don't think of the "What if's.." Cause if you do, you'll freak out and not do it. I hope my advice helps. -hEaRt </3 |
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Aug 2 2004, 01:04 AM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
lol i dunno i cant find the courage to ask a guy out the best i can do is tell him i like him =P good luck!
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Aug 2 2004, 01:13 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 47 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,295 |
OMG I'm in similar situation as you...only this has been on for 2 years now. so...don't be like me...just talk to him even though I know it's HARD. But don't wait 2 freakin years. Cuz now my friendship with him is strong and I'm afriad to let a relationship ruin it. So...take action NOW
hope that helps |
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Aug 2 2004, 06:06 AM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
just ask him out, the fact that ur letting him know ur into him,makes him like u even more. trust me speaking from experience of being a guy ;]...our brains go retarded when we find out someone likes us.
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Aug 2 2004, 10:02 PM
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 heart broken x Group: Member Posts: 247 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,259 |
QUOTE(conster @ Aug 2 2004, 2:04 AM) lol i dunno i cant find the courage to ask a guy out the best i can do is tell him i like him =P good luck! lol same hea i dont ask guys out its jus not me but u can no one stoping u |
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Aug 3 2004, 08:21 AM
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 I can't believe its not "Ryan" Group: Member Posts: 1,981 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,368 |
The truth is always the best action to take....
Tell him your true feelings....simple as that |
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Aug 8 2004, 10:29 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 113 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,544 |
it duz seem like he likes ya...but mayb u should giv it sum time....who kno mayb he'll ask ya out..but if he duzn't ask ya out...prepare to take action and make the first move
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Aug 8 2004, 10:55 PM
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 s a r a h r o s e <3 Group: Member Posts: 575 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 12,944 |
ask him :] if you want to wait, wait, he might even ask you out first
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Aug 9 2004, 02:43 AM
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 WWMD?! - i am from the age of BM 2 Group: Member Posts: 5,308 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,848 |
haha..i always have that problem. i'm shyyyy. like, a lot shy. so don't ask me..
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Aug 10 2004, 09:02 PM
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 ť [[ K4R3N ]] Ť Group: Member Posts: 46 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,111 |
haha i was in the same situation as you ... i wasn`t sure whether to act on my feelings or not ... but i was talking to my friends a lot and they told me to go for it! so i told him how i felt & it turned out he had feelings for me for a few months, but was too shy to do anything about it ! so ... my best bet is to maybe tell him cuz WH0 knows ... he might be too shy to do anything ! g`luck =]*
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Aug 10 2004, 09:16 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,051 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,264 |
Just talk to him, and ease it in naturally. Like talk about normal stuff, then like about your friends' girlfriends and boyfriends. Like that, I guess.
But I've never had a boyfriend, so I wouldn't know how to REALLY do it... 
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Aug 10 2004, 10:02 PM
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 Word. Group: Member Posts: 3,004 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,673 |
just talk to him and after a while. ask him out.
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Aug 10 2004, 11:09 PM
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POWAPOSTA Group: Member Posts: 3,169 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,725 |
heres what i learned:
dont get your hopes up. think for the worst, that if the worst happens you won't feel all depressed because you had it coming. and if the best happens, do a dance. :) |
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Aug 11 2004, 12:20 AM
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dont forget to smiLe today Group: Member Posts: 336 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,095 |
i say you casually invite him w/ some friends out. i would let him do the asking. but idunno. im quite timid
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Aug 14 2004, 02:43 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 5,585 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,082 |
QUOTE(Foolish Heart @ Aug 1 2004, 11:53 PM) I say if you don't have the courage to ask him out, just tell him that you like him, then his probably gonna ask you out. Cause duh girl, it's so obvious that he likes you too. But earning the courage to ask a guy out ? Just don't think of the "What if's.." Cause if you do, you'll freak out and not do it. No better way to say it. |
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Aug 14 2004, 04:04 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
1. eat a tic-tack
2. walk up to him 3. ask the famous question *Will you go out with me?* yupz
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Aug 14 2004, 04:22 PM
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 badminton rocks!! Group: Member Posts: 184 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,031 |
QUOTE(DrEaMgUy2K1 @ Aug 2 2004, 4:06 AM) just ask him out, the fact that ur letting him know ur into him,makes him like u even more. trust me speaking from experience of being a guy ;]...our brains go retarded when we find out someone likes us. *nods head* so true! lol do it! ask him out, tell him your feelings, etc and see how he acts. You never know, he may say "wow really!?" Pull out something pretty from behind his back (flowers, a necklace, a box of candy, etc) and he'll ask you out that exact moment!!!  yea... us guys get hella retared when we find out a girl likes us
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Aug 14 2004, 04:49 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
heh, that was like me and my ex- but he managed to ask me out. hmm, just practice i guess and tell him that you like him- and act like you like him so maybe he might ask you out.
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Aug 14 2004, 05:40 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,343 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,767 |
i would never ask a guy out, im way too much of a pussy. ;)
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Aug 14 2004, 05:49 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 875 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,841 |
QUOTE(jennypie @ Aug 14 2004, 5:40 PM) i would never ask a guy out, im way too much of a pussy. ;) eh same here but it wont hurt to tell him how you feel for him i guess 
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Aug 14 2004, 11:12 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 78 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,654 |
Don't be afraid to ask him out
off course if he flirts with you too....Most guys like girls who are confident in themsleves |
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Aug 15 2004, 01:10 AM
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 fragile Group: Member Posts: 1,044 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,807 |
just go up to him and ask him
rehearsing in front of a mirror won't do so much good cause like when you standing there in front of him in real life... you might freeze up like crazy |
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Aug 15 2004, 02:08 PM
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well u kneo wut u sud doo? if u dunt hab da courage to ask him out den dunt!! just start showin him signs dat u're into him and if he still too sstupid or RETARDED to notice dat and not take action den da last thing u sud tries is get sum of da 411 frum his closest frenz or sumone to see if he hab feelins fo u or not and den u cud decide frum dere to ask him out urself or not.
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