i cut off the friendship, and now i think im going crazy Options

[HaN4RaNg]

do you ever have those times when you dont really think much about the person until they're gone?

just last night i basically gave up on a friendship that was pretty good and it just became a total mess.. now i see him everywhere and i cant stop thinking about him. i dont know if this is the same for him but its seriously driving me nuts. the thing is, im the one who decided on ending the friendship and i really dont want him as a friend anymore, but why is this happening? the littlest things are reminding me of him. i dont know what to do >.<

[black_cloud10]

rethink why you ended the friendship. you might want to try at it again.
if not, just give it time. after my bf and i split i saw signs of him everywhere, and everything someone said reminded me of him. he had become so much of my life that i could relate any topic to something he did or said. it passes with time.

[slurp]

time is everything i guess butt if youre really regretting for ending the friendship dont hesitate to try again.

[conster]

i agree wit slurp

but why did u end the friendship in the first place?

[HaN4RaNg]

i think if i point out all the little things, ur all going to get tired of it.. i had another post up about it but ill say it again.

we were always getting into arguments. at first we clicked really well but things started happening and we were constantly fighting. and after every fight, we end up having to start all over again on the friendship building it back up to where it was only to get into another huge fight and its like a cycle that keeps going and going. but as it did, we started getting sick of eachother [little things annoying eachother]. and last night, i just completely went off and broke it off with him.

the thing is, i dont miss him [mayb i miss the moments we had together wen we WERENT arguing]. and i dont want to b friends with him. im not a person who likes to deal with drama and that friendship was full of it.

[ComradeRed]

Suicide is the only way out.

[sheepy]

i noe exactly what you mean. well if you really don't want to be the guys friend anymore.. sooner or later you will forget about him. give it time.

[yeseulx3]

if you don't want him as your friend anymore, then don't be his friend.
simple as that.
move on.

[inthemudhole]

Gahh.
I recently ended a relationship, because the guy was.. pissy at me all the time. Okay, I liked him and he just kept making me feel bad.. so I said, "you know what? f*ck it. screw this friendship, I want out" so yeah. I kind of regret it, because I look back on it and realize that he was a good friend to me when he was being nice.. he was funny and nice.. but mleh. I could care less right now.

[laur3nw]

i think on the outside you dont want to be friends with him anymore and you keep telling yourself that, but inside you still have this part of you that still cares for him

[DrEaMgUy2K1]

i do that alot heh, but if i regret it or rethink it, i just go back to the person and straighten things out and things are normal, or atleast on its way back to normal again

[pbear]

Well, maybe rethink everything.
Why did you want to end the friendship in the first place?
Is whatever they did worse than the times you spent together?

I actually have the same problem.
I had a really good friend, who started getting on my nerves.
I was willing to work it out, but then she started telling other people that I was horrible because I was mad that she had betrayed me. [WTF. ]
So I ditched her.
Sometimes I miss talking to her, but in the end, it just comes down to the fact that I can't forgive her for what she did.

[silver-rain]

rethink why you ended the friendship. you might want to try at it again.
if not, just give it time. after my bf and i split i saw signs of him everywhere, and everything someone said reminded me of him. he had become so much of my life that i could relate any topic to something he did or said. it passes with time.

yeah, same here. i think you should rethink about why you ended the friendship. why my bf andi broke up, i went through that too- i would see signs of him everywhere and everything reminded me of him. but after a while, it goes away

[inthemudhole]

rethink why you ended the friendship. you might want to try at it again.
if not, just give it time. after my bf and i split i saw signs of him everywhere, and everything someone said reminded me of him. he had become so much of my life that i could relate any topic to something he did or said. it passes with time.

^Yeah.
I can do that.

I was with my friend Zena at Toys R Us (don't ask, haha) and we were in t3h Barbies aisle (once again, don't ask.. ) and she pointed at stuff and I came up with a different reason each time how that could possibly remind me of Alec..