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 Feb 23 2004, 06:24 PM
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People these days seem to against interracial dating, especially between Asians and whites. Is there something wrong with dating someone with a different skin color or ancestry?
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Mar 1 2004, 07:34 PM
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 !shobe! Group: Member Posts: 664 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 5,912 |
there's nothing wrong with interracial dating.. it's just like every other relationship that people have.. like.. they love each other so they go together..
the problem that arises is when some conservative parents come in the way.. they say, "they don't even eat the same food!" it's like they're saying that two cultures can never mix.. i'm totally against that... cuz like.. i'm dating a guatemalan.. and like.. everything is going fine... (only thing is.. our parents don't know about it.. ^^;) so yea.. back to the point.. interracial dating is cool.. |
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Mar 1 2004, 11:54 PM
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uhh..hey guys..u forgot about !!indians!! in the midst of debating about asian white relationships, cuz we ALL know that indians are kewl..right?
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Mar 1 2004, 11:56 PM
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ok, if no one is going to answer then i might as well confirm this myself
INDIANS R COOL!!io |
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Mar 2 2004, 10:09 AM
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interracial dating ... depends on how in depth their culture is. I'm asian (Chinese) ... but i'm an ABC. BUT THEN AGAIN ... my parents made sure that I knew all the holidays and traditions and what-nots. Now if i were to date a white guy ... we might have proeblems bc of different values. BUT <
 i know ... a lot of buts BUTTS> if he's culturally diversed ... there would be less probelms. u know what i'm trying to get at? plus ... we all know that mutts look HOT *wink wink* 
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Mar 2 2004, 12:48 PM
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cb=bullshit. Group: Member Posts: 1,783 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,793 |
QUOTE([2) Nekked,Feb 24 2004, 5:57 AM] i kinda think this is true... but the fact that i think asian females are prettier than caucasian females isnt racism ... its an opinion. there is a big difference. [edit: i'd just like to add that, again, since the definition of racism is 'the strong or irrational fear or hatred towards an entire ethnicity or race," and the sentence above wasnt said with any hate or fear towards people who arent asian, i'm not being racist] I think it's pretty wrong that you said that asian females are prettier than caucasian females... Do you have something against all caucasian females? I mean, come on... I know it's your opinion... but I just want you to realize that you're categorizing all caucasian females and saying that all asian females are prettier than them... I mean, there are a LOT of caucasian females that are very beautiful... But, apparently, you don't see this... and I'm thinking that it's just because they're asian that makes them prettier... but, I'm not sure... but that's just how I read into it, you know?... and also, you might just think that because this is the United States (I'm assuming you live here, as well) and that the majority is caucasian... So, anyway... You shouldn't say that asian females are prettier than caucasian females because you should be open to what all races have to offer... (i'm not sure if this all makes sense... but hopefully you get my drift)...Anyway, sure it's your opinion... but in my opinion... your opinion is a bit skewed... As for interracial dating... My ex boyfriend is black... and I'm hispanic... My family is against it, but they didn't know I was dating him... We were together for 2 years and we're still friends... My mom is fine with me hanging out with him, but I'm not sure how she would have taken it if she knew we were a couple... (if someone is planning to have an 'interracial relationship', I'm not telling you to keep it from your parents, if they don't accept it...) but it's also the safest way.... Because I know that if a parent is totally against it, they're going to try to separate you (I had a friend in this situation and she was black and asian and her boyfriend was from india and his parents went so far that they disenrolled him from school and were on the verge of sending him back to his country)... So, things like this can get extremely serious... but I say that two people can't help who they fall in love with or even who they like or just love them (there's a difference with people in love and just loving a person)... Dating outside of your race is a way for you to 'explore' other races... To see things the way another race sees things... for example, if you date someone who is black you see what they have to deal with from society... like racism or prejudice -- at least I learned from my ex boyfriend... To me, it's a beautiful thing... and being as open as possible makes you even a better person.... err, sorry so long... 
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Mar 2 2004, 08:26 PM
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QUOTE(AznHyperGirl @ Mar 2 2004, 10:09 AM) interracial dating ... depends on how in depth their culture is. I'm asian (Chinese) ... but i'm an ABC. BUT THEN AGAIN ... my parents made sure that I knew all the holidays and traditions and what-nots. Now if i were to date a white guy ... we might have proeblems bc of different values. Oh yea, I'm an ABC too. I don't actually have anything against interracial dating, but I was just wondering what others thought about this. |
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Mar 3 2004, 09:01 AM
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QUOTE(Idyll @ Mar 2 2004, 8:26 PM) Oh yea, I'm an ABC too. I don't actually have anything against interracial dating, but I was just wondering what others thought about this.  as the years go by ... interracial dating is going to grow like wild fire. eventually everybody's going to be one race. what do you think? if that's so ... then there should be no objections and funny look-eyes  at interracial dating
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Mar 3 2004, 10:44 PM
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im korean and i wouldnt mind dating other races...
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Mar 5 2004, 10:48 PM
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-edited out-
lol it posted twice. look down. |
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Mar 5 2004, 10:56 PM
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QUOTE(omg_melface @ Mar 2 2004, 12:48 PM) I think it's pretty wrong that you said that asian females are prettier than caucasian females... Do you have something against all caucasian females? I mean, come on... I know it's your opinion... but I just want you to realize that you're categorizing all caucasian females and saying that all asian females are prettier than them... I mean, there are a LOT of caucasian females that are very beautiful... But, apparently, you don't see this... and I'm thinking that it's just because they're asian that makes them prettier... but, I'm not sure... but that's just how I read into it, you know?... and also, you might just think that because this is the United States (I'm assuming you live here, as well) and that the majority is caucasian... So, anyway... You shouldn't say that asian females are prettier than caucasian females because you should be open to what all races have to offer... (i'm not sure if this all makes sense... but hopefully you get my drift)...Anyway, sure it's your opinion... but in my opinion... your opinion is a bit skewed... As for interracial dating... My ex boyfriend is black... and I'm hispanic... My family is against it, but they didn't know I was dating him... We were together for 2 years and we're still friends... My mom is fine with me hanging out with him, but I'm not sure how she would have taken it if she knew we were a couple... (if someone is planning to have an 'interracial relationship', I'm not telling you to keep it from your parents, if they don't accept it...) but it's also the safest way.... Because I know that if a parent is totally against it, they're going to try to separate you (I had a friend in this situation and she was black and asian and her boyfriend was from india and his parents went so far that they disenrolled him from school and were on the verge of sending him back to his country)... So, things like this can get extremely serious... but I say that two people can't help who they fall in love with or even who they like or just love them (there's a difference with people in love and just loving a person)... Dating outside of your race is a way for you to 'explore' other races... To see things the way another race sees things... for example, if you date someone who is black you see what they have to deal with from society... like racism or prejudice -- at least I learned from my ex boyfriend... To me, it's a beautiful thing... and being as open as possible makes you even a better person.... err, sorry so long... whoa whoa whoa thats right. its my opinion. i didnt say it was commonly known that asians are prettier than caucasians. i didnt say it was a fact. i said thats what i thought. and im certainly not bragging about it either. i'm perfectly aware that there are beautiful caucasians in the world. but i still think that asians are prettier. as a race. not every individual person. i did not say that every single asian person out there is prettier than every single caucasian person. i think that the most commonly shared asian features are prettier than those of caucasians. Because asians look more... exotic to me... and in my opinion, that's what makes them more attractive to me. And I'm bisexual. So I can judge pretty well... I mean why do you think some white men look at asian porn all the time? so... 1. yes. this is my opinion. again. i never said that there arent any pretty white people in the world. 2. yes. i do live in the US. that has nothing to do with my opinion. 3. yes. you are correct in thinking that what you've said makes no sense. because you're twisting my words and my intent. so shut the hell up. P.S. I'm 50% french and russian. |
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Mar 6 2004, 10:46 AM
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cb=bullshit. Group: Member Posts: 1,783 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,793 |
Hahaha! Then, if you're going to say something like that, maybe you should be more specific, eh? Don't generalize, because some may get offended... your being bisexual has nothing to do with this and neither does the fact that you judge well... and I'm sorry that you feel like I may have been "twisting" your words around, because I certainly wasn't... I guess you just lack empathy, thank you for repeating that it was your opinion, I think I already stated that so no need to try to cram that fact into my head... because I already KNEW that... but you know, thanks anyway... and sorry for making it seem like I was trying to 'tell you off' or something, because I most certainly was not... I was just suggesting that you be a bit more open-minded.
The 'shut the hell up' comment, was not necessary... but I'm choosing to drop this situation between us... Sorry  mhmm, sorry for the assumption, and sorry to anyone else who had to read this off topic conflict... |
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Mar 6 2004, 12:27 PM
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QUOTE and that the majority is caucasian... isnt it hispanic??QUOTE And I'm bisexual really? im just 14, never met..nm. |
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Mar 6 2004, 12:30 PM
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cb=bullshit. Group: Member Posts: 1,783 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,793 |
nahh... the majority of the minority is hispanic...
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Mar 6 2004, 12:30 PM
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oooohh, are you hispanic??
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Mar 6 2004, 12:40 PM
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 barbies token black friend Group: Member Posts: 496 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,165 |
theres nothing wrong with interracial dating ppl are just scared of change and some are just assholes who dont want anyone to be happy but eitherway i will dat who ever i damn well please i dont care what people think
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Mar 6 2004, 12:43 PM
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im happy with asians, white, black,hispanic, any female human species.
tell me if i am missing anyone. its just that i PREFERR asians, but they are all good.^^ |
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Mar 6 2004, 01:38 PM
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 let it burn... Group: Member Posts: 84 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,288 |
im tha product of an interracial relationship...im 1/2 pinay, 1/2 black
i dont find it a problem, as long as they are happy, then it shouldnt matter what others say. |
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Mar 6 2004, 03:43 PM
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QUOTE(omg_melface @ Mar 6 2004, 10:46 AM) Hahaha! Then, if you're going to say something like that, maybe you should be more specific, eh? Don't generalize, because some may get offended... your being bisexual has nothing to do with this and neither does the fact that you judge well... and I'm sorry that you feel like I may have been "twisting" your words around, because I certainly wasn't... I guess you just lack empathy, thank you for repeating that it was your opinion, I think I already stated that so no need to try to cram that fact into my head... because I already KNEW that... but you know, thanks anyway... and sorry for making it seem like I was trying to 'tell you off' or something, because I most certainly was not... I was just suggesting that you be a bit more open-minded. The 'shut the hell up' comment, was not necessary... but I'm choosing to drop this situation between us... Sorry mhmm, sorry for the assumption, and sorry to anyone else who had to read this off topic conflict... omg.. lol... i meant i can judge pretty well FOR MYSELF. Im not being onesided sayin that asian people are and always will be prettier, im sayin their features are more attractive to me. so im not being close minded either. like how some people prefer blondes to brunettes... and im sorry. i didnt think it was any of your business what i thought. im defending myself because you said that me saying what i thought was "wrong" how is it "wrong" to simply share my opinion with others? -- anyways.. by the way... i have no problem with interratial dating... i mean.. if i was attracted to someone who wasnt asian, and had feelings for them, then of course i'd go for it... im a total mutt, so theres no reason for me to be against interratial dating... im viet/chinese/french/russian/and jamaican... |
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Mar 6 2004, 04:01 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Ok, I'm not against interracial dating, I'm all for it. I'm chinese and i'm going out with a white guy, and its fine with us even though my parents would rather prefer that I date an asian.
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Mar 6 2004, 07:21 PM
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QUOTE(linke3 @ Mar 6 2004, 4:01 PM) Ok, I'm not against interracial dating, I'm all for it. I'm chinese and i'm going out with a white guy, and its fine with us even though my parents would rather prefer that I date an asian. my parents are like that too...><, aren't most chinese parents like that? |
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Mar 7 2004, 12:10 AM
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no way.. mixed kids from white/asian parents are really good looking!
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Mar 7 2004, 12:28 AM
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cb=bullshit. Group: Member Posts: 1,783 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,793 |
QUOTE(Podomaht @ Mar 6 2004, 11:30 AM) oooohh, are you hispanic?? Yes, podo, I am..... |
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Mar 8 2004, 07:44 AM
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 jesus freak Group: Member Posts: 378 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,748 |
:| Hey I'm an asian buh I aint no racist >.> heck my beau is even an Aussie
heeheee ~~ its all fine for me o.o xD
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Mar 8 2004, 06:52 PM
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 i am a smoe Group: Member Posts: 119 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,009 |
Well, if you date an Asian girl and she's crazy, the reason she's crazy is because of who she is.
I actually think calling it interracial dating is calling more attention to it then it needs. Its a person. dating another person. |
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Mar 8 2004, 10:50 PM
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 he`z gOt my heart*<3`o2.18.o1` Group: Member Posts: 1,662 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,338 |
QUOTE(Idyll @ Feb 23 2004, 6:24 PM) People these days seem to against interracial dating, especially between Asians and whites. Is there something wrong with dating someone with a different skin color or ancestry? there is certainly n0thing wr0ng whats0ever with interracial dating..it all depends 0n 0ne's preference..y0u sh0uld date s0me0ne that y0u find is interesting f0r y0u regardless 0f skin c0l0r 0r ancestry..in the end minute things like that are c0mpletely irrelevant..what c0unts is h0w c0mpatible y0u find y0u are with any particular pers0n.. |
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