i have my own problems too!!!, garrrrrr |
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(sorry if this doesnt belong here)
ok, so recently ALL my friends have problems. i understand that. i mean, no ones life is perfect... so they all come crying to me, 'deanna HELP!!! .....' and of course me, being the selfless person i am, listen to them (if thats all i can do) try to halp them, give advice... but what about me??? ive got my own problems too  but heres the point of my post: dont you sometimes feel like people depend in you too much and forget that you may have your own problems?? |
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Jul 29 2004, 11:08 PM
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 You say you eat fucking hearts for breakfast. Group: Member Posts: 662 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,026 |
people dont really come to me to solve their problems, because im young and all
 but i guess i do understand how you feel. i hope things get better. sometimes you just gotta stand up and get some time in for yourself [nods] :) <3
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Jul 29 2004, 11:08 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Yes.
That happens to me a lot. By the way, I think this should be in relationships.  
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Jul 29 2004, 11:14 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,688 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,733 |
i totally agree with you. my friends always come to me, but i never go to them. pfft like i even wanna tell them.
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Jul 29 2004, 11:44 PM
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POWAPOSTA Group: Member Posts: 3,169 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,725 |
WHAT ABOUT THE SKINNY EMO KIDS IN AFRICA!?
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Jul 30 2004, 12:01 AM
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 samurai champloo! Group: Member Posts: 748 Joined: Dec 2003 Member No: 2 |
Save the drama for your mama and get new friends!
That's what I like to tell em. |
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Jul 30 2004, 12:09 AM
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Meh. Give them shitty advice.
If they get mad at you, tell them it's their fault for asking you in the first place. - Chinkieeyedpnoi |
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Jul 30 2004, 12:12 AM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 24 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,638 |
i think you should tell them about your problems. if they're good friends, they'll listen. i mean, you've listened to them right? there's no reason they shouldnt listen to you. and if they dont listen, screw them.
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Jul 30 2004, 12:25 AM
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 Wife of Legolas Group: Member Posts: 1,290 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,190 |
whatever you do, do NOT throw a fit like a female should normally.
 cause mean words just start coming out the closet and everybody gets hurt and dies.which.. happened cause i was experiencing... the usual, second-stage, puberty. no, not very fun at all
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Jul 30 2004, 12:36 AM
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i <3 me Group: Member Posts: 315 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,888 |
some of this "advice" isn't really that good
i'd still give your friends the attention they deserve. but you need to take the initiative and tell your friends about your problems, so they can stop talking and listen for once |
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Jul 30 2004, 12:51 AM
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 Word. Group: Member Posts: 3,004 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,673 |
i let my friends come to me... i keep my problems to myself.. i'll solve them somehow.
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Jul 30 2004, 02:37 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,688 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,733 |
QUOTE(Levy2k6 @ Jul 30 2004, 12:51 AM) i let my friends come to me... i keep my problems to myself.. i'll solve them somehow. thats what i do |
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Jul 30 2004, 06:23 AM
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 i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
hmm... not reallie. they dont forget... heh well some do, but not all...after i help them, they will say a question that the troubles they are dealing right now. like were u going through this problem too? or so whats happening with u and justin? heh so yeah
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Jul 30 2004, 06:27 AM
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 DefJam Gangsta Inc Group: Member Posts: 914 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,652 |
Greetings!!
yeah i would agree tat at times i feel tat ma frens are too independant on me when it comes to problem. imma known to be a problem solver i guess. i have to thank ma experience in life which allows me to communicate wit ppl wit ease. i dun know. tat's how i look at it. anyway, thing is, i can't be selfish. even if no one is able to help me wit ma own stuff or i can't find someone to confide in, guess i'll just have to be happy tat at least someone is happier than me. imma more worry for others at times den for maself. so yeah. CHEERS CB!! |
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Jul 30 2004, 03:38 PM
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 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
i agree. my friends r always asking me for advices ne all but dey don't realize that I want help to. that i also need someone to b there for me when deres times im not so strong.
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Jul 30 2004, 04:08 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 7,048 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,696 |
always.... i get tired of it but
 oh well life is life....
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Jul 30 2004, 04:11 PM
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 pixel hybrid Group: Member Posts: 6,410 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,081 |
Yeah but no one comes to me anyway... so.. yeah.
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Jul 30 2004, 04:13 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,102 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,162 |
Yes, but whatever.
I mean, sometimes it's easier to forget my problems for awhile to help deal with someone else's. |
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Jul 30 2004, 04:44 PM
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 Dorkish_bum Group: Member Posts: 126 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,946 |
chinkyeyedpnoi got a good point. i say use that. :D but if not then i guess you could tell them your problem too. that is what they're for. if not then...tell them to "go away!!!!!"
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Jul 30 2004, 06:57 PM
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Stacy Group: Member Posts: 220 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,199 |
Yeah. That happens to me a lot.
Good luck with your friends. Just tell them that you need them... and talk to them... lol I dunno. Or find new friends... :P |
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Jul 30 2004, 07:22 PM
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pfft...who needs a title? Group: Member Posts: 317 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 19,840 |
heh...thanks guys...
but my friends really are great. i mean, they always come to me so i can play 'shrink' but i guess it sonly because im caring and selfless but i guess in the end its sorta my fault. i am more private than anyone in some way, and theyve sorta come to respect my privacy. but sometimes a little, 'hey, what's up?' or 'how are things for you?' wouldnt hurt... and these people have been my friends since elementary and middle school (we're gonna be SENIORS!!!)...so no way am i gonna let them go... im used to this, but i usually dont get so many problems at once!!! |
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Jul 30 2004, 07:54 PM
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 i`m in love & always will be Group: Member Posts: 1,138 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 12,769 |
it hardly ever happens to me because it always seems like my friends are there to listen when i have some problems & then i'm always there for them.
just tell them how you feel about it |
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Jul 30 2004, 08:49 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 851 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,718 |
my friends come to me more than i go to them. its weird, im usually quiet about my problems unless our situations are the same. sometimes i like to keep my stuff personal but they still make me spill it. so much for keeping it a secret!
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Jul 30 2004, 09:00 PM
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 muted imperfections <3 Group: Official Member Posts: 3,295 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 2,260 |
omgoodness i had this problem before. i was always there when a friends needed me. after a while i noticed that when i was feeling down or needed a friend, the ones i needed werent really there. it just made me feel like the friendships were just half-a$$. but i finally came to a breaking point and told them that they werent being there for me. and yea.
Moved to Relationships  jackie
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Jul 30 2004, 10:02 PM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
haha yea all the time, i help out my friends....ex girlfriends come to me crying and complaining about their new bf, friends come to me asking me how to do this or that, what they should do to get a girl or stuff like that, and family is another issue.
when i need some help i can only depend on a few people haha.....but yea most of the time people forget i have my problems issue drama and stress and act like their world is crumbling cuz something doesnt work out |
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