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 Feb 27 2004, 07:52 PM
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hey could neone gimme some advise....theres this girl in my class who i kno likes me n everything n so do i but im always soo nervous to talk to her and i never right notes
 and this is real harsh but one day her step dad saw her talkin to me (HER RENTS DONT EVEN KNO ME) well they banned her from talkin to me ever again on the comp  well if anyone has some advise id really appreciate it 
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Feb 27 2004, 10:25 PM
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you know that she likes you also, so just try not to be so nervous (which is actually easier to say than to do), once you start talking to her more, i'm sure your nerves will calm down. say something funny and make her laugh, that would probably ease the nervousness, and you know just be yourself.
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Feb 27 2004, 11:53 PM
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make a new screenname hahah.
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Feb 27 2004, 11:56 PM
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shes probably nervous around u too...
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| *CEP* |
Feb 27 2004, 11:57 PM
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QUOTE(d1nonlyqty @ Feb 27 2004, 11:53 PM) make a new screenname hahah. ^ Werd. And quit being such a wussy! Talk to her in person for cryin' out loud! You don't need to worry about what she'll think about you because she already likes you. So as long as you don't start acting like a snobbish little brat, you're all clear. - Chinkieeyedpnoi |
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Feb 27 2004, 11:57 PM
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QUOTE(d1nonlyqty @ Feb 27 2004, 11:53 PM) make a new screenname hahah. or you can do that... |
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Feb 28 2004, 06:58 PM
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 AYYEEEE =] Group: Member Posts: 103 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,377 |
talking to her online isn't the only thing you can do! you can try to say hi to her at school or even talk to her!! good luckk
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Feb 28 2004, 07:23 PM
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QUOTE(chinkieeyedpnoi @ Feb 27 2004, 11:57 PM) And quit being such a wussy! Talk to her in person for cryin' out loud! You don't need to worry about what she'll think about you because she already likes you. So as long as you don't start acting like a snobbish little brat, you're all clear. - Chinkieeyedpnoi WORD from the genuis  talk to her in person! who cares about internet, you cant feel the full power of joy talking online! get over ur nervousness... guys with courage turn gurls on (most of the time anyway  ) and as for her parents? who gives?  make a new sn like suggested
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Feb 28 2004, 07:25 PM
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talk to her in clas, school w/e flirt with her show some sign to her saying meaning u like her. but that really sucks that the rents lol, dont let you talk to her thats wrong
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Feb 28 2004, 10:38 PM
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no guys thats the thing, her rents wont let her talk online EXPECIALLY to me, and sometimes i do talk to her but only in comp lab cause we sit next to eachother but the other times i jus cant (mostly round her friends)
o and even if i did change my sn (she dont got aim/aol/msn/yahoo)
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Feb 29 2004, 12:11 PM
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 the one and only Group: Member Posts: 138 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,559 |
just start with a hi in the hallway when you guys arent around too many people, you have to take the first step, since you're nervous about it just make it a small one! eventually, it should expand :)
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Feb 29 2004, 11:35 PM
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SHE LIKES YOU RIGHT? SO DONT BE SCARED! JUST GO UP TO HER AND SAY, HEY WHATS UP? SHE'LL OBVIOUSLY BE HAPPY YOU'RE TALKING TO HER RIGHT?? THEN THA CONVO WILL START AND IT'LL BE ALRIGHT
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Mar 2 2004, 12:00 AM
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obviosuly if you want to build a relationship, you must learn not to be shy around her. i mean you do want a relationship right? just slowly talk to her day by day til you get comfortable around her. if you dotn know what to say then ask her questions you'd be interested in like "do you like sports, whats your favorite holiday and why" lil conversation starters to get you comfortable thats all...
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Mar 2 2004, 09:46 PM
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HAHAHAHAH...if you live in CA, la county i heard about this ...hahaha hilarious
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Mar 4 2004, 07:34 PM
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send her letters
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Mar 4 2004, 07:38 PM
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Seeing that her parents are involved, approach with extreme caution. If you really think she is worth it, pursue her. Don't be too forward or you might scare her away. YOU HAVE TO LET HER KNOW YOU LIKE HER THOUGH. Somehow, someway, she needs to get that message.
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Mar 5 2004, 04:09 PM
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-'<-:-.//Outkast\\.-:->'- Group: Member Posts: 138 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,215 |
wow this was really low of me
ok she came down to the PE room where i work n all and she did this game with her friends "Zap" well itss hard to explain but she ether had to kiss me or ask m out, and wel......i walked away on here n also, i dont think shes mad though, but she hates wen i fight so me n my friend sergio got in a lil fight on accident n she was waching, god im really pissed at myself right now, i wish i could rewind the day and change it all
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Mar 5 2004, 05:25 PM
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xSuperLazyBoix, how old are you??
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Mar 8 2004, 11:07 PM
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QUOTE(xSuperLazyBoix @ Feb 27 2004, 7:52 PM) hey could neone gimme some advise....theres this girl in my class who i kno likes me n everything n so do i but im always soo nervous to talk to her and i never right notes and this is real harsh but one day her step dad saw her talkin to me (HER RENTS DONT EVEN KNO ME) well they banned her from talkin to me ever again on the comp well if anyone has some advise id really appreciate it well there are 0ther ways y0u can keep in t0uch with her .. n0t just 0n line .. think 0f 0ther sweet things t0 keep in t0uch .. alth0ugh y0u aren't much 0f a writer .. i think it w0uld be a nice gesture t0 write her n0tes t0 gives in scho0l since 0n line c0nversati0ns will seem difficult at this p0int in time .. best 0f luck .. h0pe things w0rk 0ut f0r the b0th 0f y0u .. |
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Mar 8 2004, 11:11 PM
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dont noe if it was alreadi sed but if you feel wierd being around her like juz da 2 ov you mayb have sum ov yer frens stay with you n her frens tew until you feel more...umm cofortable
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Mar 21 2004, 09:11 PM
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-'<-:-.//Outkast\\.-:->'- Group: Member Posts: 138 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,215 |
YEA!! guys u all really hlped!!!!
   i finally asked her out!! i jus did wat a lot of u said too thanx
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Mar 22 2004, 10:09 AM
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he`z gOt my heart*<3`o2.18.o1` Group: Member Posts: 1,662 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,338 |
QUOTE(xSuperLazyBoix @ Mar 21 2004, 9:11 PM) YEA!! guys u all really hlped!!!! i finally asked her out!! i jus did wat a lot of u said too thanxawww i'm glad that we were able to help .. how did things go when you asked her out?!?! fill me in on the details kekeke :D |
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Mar 22 2004, 02:21 PM
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-'<-:-.//Outkast\\.-:->'- Group: Member Posts: 138 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,215 |
well it was at a fun night we have at out school she said yes n all but it was so hard lol but im jus glad i did ask
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Mar 22 2004, 03:54 PM
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awww wow congrats
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Mar 22 2004, 04:06 PM
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he`z gOt my heart*<3`o2.18.o1` Group: Member Posts: 1,662 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,338 |
QUOTE(xSuperLazyBoix @ Mar 22 2004, 2:21 PM) well it was at a fun night we have at out school she said yes n all but it was so hard lol but im jus glad i did ask awwwwwww .. yay .. she's very lucky she said yes!! best of luck always hun .. it's great that you overcame that initial fear and did something you never thought you could do .. you were very brave and i give you so0 much credit .. i admire your courage in doing it :D |
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