Crushes, How do u talk to them? |
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 Jul 27 2004, 05:01 PM
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Are you able to talk to the people u have a crush on? I think it's like so hard...i dunno maybe I'm just shy...but there's this guy and when I try to talk to him I get dizzy..is that weird? jw....
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Jul 27 2004, 05:06 PM
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 doot doot doot  Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
wow u get dizzy? lols thats new... wen i talk to my crush.. well its either i act as if hes jus a friend or i talk very politely =D
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Jul 27 2004, 05:06 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
yeah, it is kinda hard. and when i would talk to my crush, i would try to show off and stuff. but its better if you become friends, then talking with be easier.
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| *Kathleen* |
Jul 27 2004, 05:07 PM
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That's not weird at all.
 You just have to make it not such a big deal. Try to tell yourself that if you want to be with him, communication is the first step.  That's what I try to tell myself anyways. Don't worry. You only live once. Take chances and risks. 
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Jul 27 2004, 05:10 PM
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 Dark Lord of McCandless Group: Member Posts: 2,226 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,761 |
What a funny smiley.
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Jul 27 2004, 05:16 PM
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 :D Group: Member Posts: 212 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,682 |
well when i talk 2 my crush i try 2 talk normaly like how i talk 2 reguler friends if you talk 2 him and get 2 know him he'll probably see the same with you because thats how me and my crush got closer but theres many ways to talk 2 your crush just try 2 act normal usually works the best
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Jul 27 2004, 05:18 PM
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 JeSsIcA rAyE Group: Member Posts: 782 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,977 |
talk to them like you would anyone else, just find some way to let them know that you like them..... what is the point of dating someone if you canno tbe friends and talk when you are dating
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Jul 27 2004, 05:21 PM
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well we're sorta kinda friends...but he has a girlfriend so i kinda back off....i dunno cuz like all the good people seem to be taken or not interested....
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Jul 27 2004, 05:24 PM
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 ilikeyouSofreakingmuch. Group: Member Posts: 2,014 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 643 |
i just talk to him regularly. i dont find it hard or anythin
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Jul 27 2004, 06:03 PM
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 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
heh. i love talking to him
 he makes me happy!
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| *RiC3xBoy* |
Jul 27 2004, 07:25 PM
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yes, im doing it right now lol, but shes talking bout some other guy........
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Jul 28 2004, 12:34 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 47 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,295 |
hmm...you have boy shyness, symptom: shyness, dizziness??
 , sweating, breathing problems...but you'll survive.  steps on how to talk to that special someone: 1. begin by talking to your friends with him in your presence, when you feel you can talk to your friends normally (without dizziness) move on to step 2 2. try talking to HIM in a group with your closest friends so you'll be less nervous ( say Hi, and what's up) 3. Move onto to more personal conversations (like schoolwork, family members, etc) with him, but with less people 4. when you feel you are more confortable around him, talk to him ALONE. by this step, you'll feel more confortable with him, so it's not biggie 5. establish a bond between you guys! 6. be a little flirtatous, give him a little pat or just a friendly punch  7. give him signs you like him note: remember, he's only HUMAN and so are you!! so treat him like one and talk to him as if he were your best friend
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Jul 28 2004, 12:42 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 286 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,508 |
aww, don't worry, we all get nervous at one time or another when talking to someone we have a crush on!
I think the easiest way to communicate with him is if you treat him as if he was just another one of your friends. Of course, you could still flirt with him and stuff, but just be yourself. Act the way you normally act when you're hanging out with your closer friends. |
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Jul 28 2004, 01:20 AM
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 0nethr3e Group: Member Posts: 200 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,851 |
well..i used to never talk to my crush..but things changed..we started hangin out outside of school, and now we're like bestfriends..but there are times i am shy towards him.
and i think its a lot easier to talk to ur cursh online..instead of in person! |
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Jul 28 2004, 02:03 AM
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 --ALL EYEZ ON MEEH-- Group: Member Posts: 65 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,473 |
WEn i talk to my Crush i say stupid things and den he asks me out.. Hee hee.
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Jul 28 2004, 02:41 AM
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 cB Assassin Group: Official Member Posts: 10,147 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,672 |
if i knew how to get with a person i have a crush on id be a godd...unfortunetly i dont and i dont want to...
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Jul 28 2004, 03:50 AM
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 oh`em`gee Group: Member Posts: 21 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,423 |
Yea, i used to be shy in the 6th and would barely talk to any girls. Then BAM i hit puberty, confidence went waaaay ^^^^^^.
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Jul 28 2004, 02:33 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,051 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,264 |
Yeah, when I'm with my crush I go all flushed, and I laugh all weirdly at stuff I don't even find funny.
 But, the guy I'm crushing on, it's weird. I'm way more comfortable around him than when I'm with other guys. 
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Jul 29 2004, 05:04 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 851 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,718 |
its harder to talk to ur crush in person than online. in person, im really shy... i blush easily and smile a lot. so i talk to them more online than in person
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Jul 29 2004, 05:40 PM
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 push the botton... VROOOOM Group: Member Posts: 427 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,166 |
yea most of the time i could talk to them noramaly but this 1 girl
 .....lol
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Jul 29 2004, 10:55 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
i avoid my crushes unless they were a friend first before i started liking them..
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Jul 29 2004, 11:12 PM
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 Quand j'étais jeune... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 6,826 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,272 |
Some one gave me a great advice on dating and it WORKED for me.
Think of it this way: you're attracted to him because he's cute and has a great personality, but you're only interested in finding more about him and you're NOT in love with him or anything. Just think, no one is perfect and this guy you're crushing on might be a nose picker in public or an all around jerk. So, you only want to find out more about him, therefore, there's no reason to be nervous! Don't think that you like him a lot, think that he's interesting and you want to know more.. that's all. If he thinks you're his type and that you're interested in him, he will make the first move (if he's not shy). |
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Jul 30 2004, 05:57 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 382 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,179 |
i just talk to my crush like a friend but..don't do that cause then you'll get close like me and her did and if you go out it you'll have a deep relationship
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Jul 30 2004, 09:16 AM
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I have no problem at all.
But my this other friend, whenever she sees her crush, she get all tongue tied and starts like hyperventilating or something. She says her heart starts beating really fast and her hands turn cold. She wants to open her mouth and say 'hi' but nothing will come out. I guess it's quite normal... |
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Jul 30 2004, 10:07 AM
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 Unlock the Darkness Group: Member Posts: 305 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,967 |
QUOTE(sandra @ Jul 29 2004, 5:04 PM) its harder to talk to ur crush in person than online. Amen to that. I rarely talk to my crushes in person unless I ask them out. |
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