does it annoy you when people assume..., to know what you're talking about? |
 Jul 23 2004, 05:10 PM
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 !shobe!  Group: Member Posts: 664 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 5,912  |
here's the thing...
recently, one of my school mates signed up for xanga. i used to have a fling with him... now, we're kinda friends.. kinda not.. i don't even understand it... anyway..! he found my account and started reading the things i wrote..... his name appeared a couple of time in some of the entries.. those had to do with how i felt/feel about him and what not.. later, he finds this entry that's about a night i spent with a guy.. there are no names in it; just pronouns. then, he remembers about the time i told him that my family won't be home and i asked if he wanted to come over. his answer was vague and eventually, he didn't come. i didn't make a big deal out of it cuz i my other friend, who was visiting from the philippines, came over. the point is, he thinks i was talking about him and that i was being "f**king delusional"!!! argh...!! i hate people like that!!!! i mean... why the hell is he assuming that i was talking about him!?!! i'm not desperate at all!!!! plus, he doesn't like me anymore and i don't like him anymore.. (but i'm not sure if that's clear since he did this..) now, he's saying that i'm "f**king crazy" and "living in a fantasy world." bullshit!!! then he was like, "you're retarded" and some other crap like that.. i mean.. please!! the world does not revolve around him and it's not like he's the only guy i'm seeing....!! well... yea.. that's enough of my ranting... ...so.... have any of you ever experienced that..? like people assume they know who or what you're talking about, and they think they know you..?? don't you find that rather annoying or aggravating..???? |
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Jul 23 2004, 05:18 PM
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POWAPOSTA Group: Member Posts: 3,169 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,725 |
i like to change names of people in my xanga.
anyway. yeah, i hate it when people think they know what im talking about, but don't, so i have to end up explaining shit to them and they still dont believe me. |
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Jul 23 2004, 05:23 PM
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 muted imperfections <3 Group: Official Member Posts: 3,295 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 2,260 |
yea i wrote this entry a while back when my group of friends were going thru some major drama. i didnt mention any names and i didnt talk about anything that was recently going on. i just wrote down random thoughts. and one of my friends ASSUMED it was about her when it had nothing to do with her or anyone else.
it really is annoying when ppl assume they know whats going on when in actuality they dont know anything. when stuff like that happens it ends up only making more problems.  jackie
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Jul 23 2004, 05:26 PM
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aBABYmomma Group: Member Posts: 82 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,380 |
Yes it sure is annoying when people assume... But you cant really let it bother you because.. it really has nothing to do with them. You should just let him be... and eventually he'll feel dumb cuz you dont give a rats a55 about him.. haha.. just dont let it bother you...
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Jul 23 2004, 05:31 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,032 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,398 |
yea i assumed a lot cus it makes sense.well after i assumed, i was kinda rong so i jus acted like nothing happen.
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Jul 23 2004, 05:34 PM
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!shobe! Group: Member Posts: 664 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 5,912 |
I can't really ignore his comment cuz he works with me.. i think he's f**king insane.. *rage* he even left the comment on that post (but of course i deleted it cuz of all the profanity and insults he put in) and he wrote all over my chatterbox, saying i was "f**king retarded" (and yet again, i had to delete all that crap).
i mean.. if people have a problem with it, i don't think it's appropriate to leave the insults in a public forum. it's just embarrassing for the author. but yea.. i still it's annoying when they assume then don't clarify and spread the word..... feel me? |
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Jul 23 2004, 05:40 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 265 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,383 |
I assume myself so I can't get to p.o at anyone else who does. Just our nature I suppose. Have you blocked him from your xanga.. you could always do that.
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Jul 23 2004, 05:51 PM
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 pixel hybrid Group: Member Posts: 6,410 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,081 |
It's okay. *pat pat* Let's just burn those people.
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Jul 23 2004, 05:53 PM
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 *aSh* =] Group: Member Posts: 2,075 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,101 |
ah yeah assuming sucks
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Jul 23 2004, 05:54 PM
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 Sharie. Group: Member Posts: 2,429 Joined: Dec 2003 Member No: 103 |
omfg...*totally agrees*
My number ONE HATE is people ASSUMING!!!!! Geezus, if I didn't announce to the whole world already, I hate people that assume! I feel you....and I'm serious. There's NOTHING worse than people accusing you for something you DID NOT DO...and they assumed you did it too! I'd probably rather die than let people do that to me (and no I'm not suggesting you to do so...never do that). I'm just saying I hate it that much. I can't say, "Just let him think that way," because that just doesn't work. Get that stupid boy back into reality. Tell him the world doesn't revolve around him, and there's more boys out that a thousand times better than him, so don't go assuming that he's at ANY kind of important place in your heart. Even tell him he's less than trash in your mind if that's how you feel right now...since he's calling you all these things. Geezus, making a big freakin deal out of this, he's retarded. I wish people like him never existed. He's only alive because it's illegal to kill him... EXTREMELY EXTREMELY EXTREMELY NEARLY TO HATE THOSE PEOPLE... |
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| *NatiMarie* |
Jul 23 2004, 06:08 PM
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That's so annoying...they cut me off when I'm not done telling them what I mean...I hate when people assume things.
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Jul 23 2004, 06:08 PM
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!shobe! Group: Member Posts: 664 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 5,912 |
QUOTE(crazeegirl411 @ Jul 23 2004, 5:54 PM) omfg...*totally agrees* My number ONE HATE is people ASSUMING!!!!! Geezus, if I didn't announce to the whole world already, I hate people that assume! I feel you....and I'm serious. There's NOTHING worse than people accusing you for something you DID NOT DO...and they assumed you did it too! I'd probably rather die than let people do that to me (and no I'm not suggesting you to do so...never do that). I'm just saying I hate it that much. I can't say, "Just let him think that way," because that just doesn't work. Get that stupid boy back into reality. Tell him the world doesn't revolve around him, and there's more boys out that a thousand times better than him, so don't go assuming that he's at ANY kind of important place in your heart. Even tell him he's less than trash in your mind if that's how you feel right now...since he's calling you all these things. Geezus, making a big freakin deal out of this, he's retarded. I wish people like him never existed. He's only alive because it's illegal to kill him... EXTREMELY EXTREMELY EXTREMELY NEARLY TO HATE THOSE PEOPLE... hahaha...!! i'm glad someone here feels this much hate towards people like that... yup... the only reason he's alive is cuz it's illegal to kill him... well.. about blocking him, let's just say that he knows my account on xanga and is willing to make new accounts for himself if ever i block him. starting a new xanga is not really the path for me cuz i don't feel like re-doing everything....... i'm not sure how to confront him cuz he's like, "oh, don't talk you dare talk to me anymore, you freak!" (he wrote that on the chatterbox and i deleted it earlier) and he's out of town so i can't really retalliate.. only thing i did was make a notice on my xanga about that.. (if you wanna check it out, click here) |
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Jul 23 2004, 06:25 PM
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 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
YEAH I COULD TOTALLY AGREEE. GOSH . i hate ppl who assume..
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Jul 23 2004, 06:39 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,520 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 200 |
my mom assumes things...
 and she looks at me weird
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Jul 23 2004, 07:14 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,831 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,324 |
Yeah I have experienced that and it IS annoying and f-ing stupid for them to assume they know who or what you're talking about, and they think they know you.
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| *tyedyefroggy* |
Jul 23 2004, 08:04 PM
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mann that really makes me soo po'ed, especially the people here in town, they ALWAYS want to be right when they're really totally wrong....
-Courtney |
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Jul 23 2004, 08:14 PM
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 x3ania Group: Member Posts: 596 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,628 |
yea i really hate ppl like that. they always need attention and thinkt he world revolves around them.
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Jul 23 2004, 08:40 PM
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!shobe! Group: Member Posts: 664 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 5,912 |
sometimes you wonder.. how do those kinds of people even get along with others...? and why are they still alive??!?!?! lolz...!!
that guy i was talking about earlier.. he was telling me..."why do you even try to make it seem as if we're together when we really aren't?" i got so pissed when he said that cuz i wasn't the one doing it...! he assumes that i'm the one who still likes him!! what an idiot!!! *rage* there's this saying in the Philippines, "maraming namamatay sa maling akala." literally translated, it means, "a lot of people die from false assumptions." hahahahahaha...!!! |
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Jul 24 2004, 01:21 AM
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 and confused... Group: Member Posts: 328 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 26,137 |
yeah, that really annoys me... gah, then they on't shut up if they're mad at you..
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Jul 24 2004, 04:04 PM
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!shobe! Group: Member Posts: 664 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 5,912 |
if you think about it... why do they even assume to know you...?? especially that guy... he doesn't know me that well.. he never asks anything about me nor does he try to find out from others...
sometimes, he says, "oh, i do know you." pssh!!! i hate that... assuming is bad....!!! lolz...! |
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Jul 24 2004, 04:38 PM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
yea that happens to me and i hate it
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Jul 26 2004, 03:25 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 7,048 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,696 |
yeah that always happens with me.... see i try to laugh it off.... but when u laugh it off it only makes it worse
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Jul 26 2004, 04:28 PM
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Stacy Group: Member Posts: 220 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,199 |
Assuming sucks.
Had a friend who assumed a lot... got annoyed. had a huge fight. done. she's not my friend anymore. It's even worse when you tell someone something and that someone says, "I know how exactly you feel..." Well, the truth is the person doesn't know exactly how I feel because I am me and he is him and she is her! :P Some people tend to think it's all about them. Well, it's not. |
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Jul 26 2004, 04:31 PM
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 kristin Group: Member Posts: 5,705 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,985 |
well i odn't know.
i assume a lot of the time. I confront the person if i'm pretty sure it is conserning me. I think it's best to know about it. I don't go spaz and yell at them if I'm not ENTIRLY sure though. nothing wrong with assuming. But in the way he did it, I suggest just tell him what REALLY happened. |
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Jul 26 2004, 05:02 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 851 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,718 |
yah people assume and jump into conclusions as soon as they read or hear something. well it happens to me too when i assume people are talking or refeering me, but i dont do anything about it.
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