I think i like my guy friend.., ..but i have a boyfriend |
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 Jul 17 2004, 04:36 AM
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 I'd surf if I couldn't bodyboard.  Group: Member Posts: 62 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,817  |
Ok. Here it goes;
I have a friend his name is Kinu, he lives just a while away from me, & i think im starting to like him.. But i have a boyfriend, Kinu is closer because he lives in the same state as me, and we are the same age.. I Love my Boyfriend, & i dunno if this thing for Kinu is, just a feeling or a random thought.. ergh.. why me.. i dunno what im feeling at the moment & i think that the thing for Kinu is get a random thought.. yea.. Should i look deeper into this? or should i drop it? <3 DAVE |
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Jul 17 2004, 08:00 AM
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 Kermit the frog = <3 Group: Member Posts: 2,315 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,215 |
well, you have a bf already, and you do love him right? just drop it.. unless you start to feel like you do like him.. (hmm.. does this make any sense?)
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Jul 22 2004, 12:31 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 77 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,174 |
eh...same situation...my bf doesnt show that he likes/loves me...i think i should dump him...i dont feel loved
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Jul 22 2004, 01:02 PM
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 lil azn supermodel... =] Group: Member Posts: 461 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,841 |
I_LiKe_PiRaTeZ <-- i think that u should jus stuck ta ur bf...cuz u cant jus bounce from guy ta guy...n ur guy friend is jus a friend...ppl usually blur tha line between jus friends n more than friends...
xEoreMehttax <-- dont jus dump ur bf outta no ware...talk ta him bout it...ur supposed ta work things out...not leave things unanswered n lyk not even try... |
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Jul 22 2004, 01:05 PM
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 muted imperfections <3 Group: Official Member Posts: 3,295 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 2,260 |
if you feel bad about liking someone other than your b.f then dont. theres nothing wrong with that. if your b.f makes you happy and you have really strong feelings for him (b.f) then i think you should drop it. its not worth the confusion and the doubt. but if its the opposite with you & ur b.f then maybe you liking someone else is a sign that you want something more and your friend is just that. i hope this helps.
Moved to Relationships  jackie
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Jul 22 2004, 02:10 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 141 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,235 |
if you love your bf more than this kinu than go for it...but if you don't think this will work out than just drop it cuz you only have one chance for this and you have to make whatever decision you pick worth it..hope i'm not making it confusing
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Jul 22 2004, 02:11 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,051 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,264 |
If you like your boyfriend MORE than Kinu, then stay with him.
But if your relationship starts to wobble, then end it and go for Kinu. |
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Jul 22 2004, 04:20 PM
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 surf your heart out Group: Member Posts: 15 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 33,034 |
QUOTE(xEoreMehttax @ Jul 22 2004, 12:31 PM) eh...same situation...my bf doesnt show that he likes/loves me...i think i should dump him...i dont feel loved never be with someone who makes you feel unwanted. as for the situation of the first girl. so of what i read, you and your boy are in a long distant relationship, am i correct? so maybe this "thing" you're feeling with Kinu is something you are starting to feel because of the absence of your current boyfriend. you should think hard into this. |
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Jul 23 2004, 03:21 AM
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 DefJam Gangsta Inc Group: Member Posts: 914 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,652 |
Greetings!!
keep da current beau while keepin da other guy in check. just in case, he might be of use later part in ya life!!  CHEERS CB!! |
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Jul 23 2004, 03:33 AM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
QUOTE(defjam_gangsta @ Jul 23 2004, 12:21 AM) Greetings!! keep da current beau while keepin da other guy in check. just in case, he might be of use later part in ya life!! CHEERS CB!! yep yep |
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Jul 23 2004, 04:44 AM
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 ThePinkPanda Group: Member Posts: 760 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,168 |
Who is Dave?
 Anyways.. I've been in a similar situation. But yeah.. I got lucky and such so.. w/e. As others said: If you really love your bf, stay with him. Slight feelings for someone else can easily go away. It's normal. But if you feel you have a chance with the other guy and you like him more than your bf.. you owe it to yourself to give it a shot. Then again.. you can stick with your bf and if he does anything to hurt you, drop him and go for the other guy. |
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Jul 25 2004, 12:54 PM
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just at least try to stick to your bf
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Jul 26 2004, 09:57 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 851 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,718 |
if u truely love ur bf, u wouldnt have these feelings for the other guy... but yah it happens. stay with bf, cherish what u have right now before u loose it
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Jul 27 2004, 06:11 PM
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 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
well if u love ur bf how could u love someone else? o wait i mean like.. er neways .. if u really love ur bf.. stick with him.
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Jul 27 2004, 11:57 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 47 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,295 |
hahaha, I have been in this situation and it SUCK!! anyways....similar story of a bf and liking ur guy friend.
I suggest you ask yourself who you really like. I know it's HARD, but make a list of the pros and cons if you can't really decide. Maybe you just feel this way because your bf is far away and Kinu is THERE for you, so you feel a "stronger" bond with him. I mean, if your bf was there with you, do you think you would feel this way for Kinu? In some sense, the feelings you have for Kinu is due to the absence of your bf. Long distance relationship is hard so maybe this is why you are developing feelings for him. However, if it's more serious, every good guy deserves to know the truth and break up with your bf if you like Kinu. Just remember to be honest with your bf and know what you want. |
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Jul 28 2004, 12:32 AM
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 WWMD?! - i am from the age of BM 2 Group: Member Posts: 5,308 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,848 |
does kinu like you?
 if not, i wouldnt go into it at all. at least make sure he likes you before you make any rash decisions.
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Jul 28 2004, 12:50 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 286 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,508 |
I think you should stick with your current boyfriend for now. I mean, as long as he hasn't done anything to hurt you, and you still love him... why end the relationship so soon?
besides, your affections for Kinu might turn out to be false later on... maybe you just think you like him because he seems to be easier to have a relationship with (i.e. no long distance). |
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Jul 28 2004, 02:05 AM
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 --ALL EYEZ ON MEEH-- Group: Member Posts: 65 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,473 |
If you love ur Bf and he loves you too nutting would come between you guyz.. But if diz is going on den it's up to yooh noone can make da desicion except you.. DO wat ur heart tells yooh...
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Jul 28 2004, 07:36 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 382 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,179 |
do you really love your boyfriend i think if you are thinking more of kinu then you should ask him out but what do i know
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Jul 30 2004, 10:09 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 875 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,841 |
you should straighten out your feelings and see if you really do like your friend or not because you might end up regretting breaking up with your boyfriend
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Jul 31 2004, 06:25 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 131 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,888 |
um..if ur planning to leave ur boyfriend and go to ur guy friend..make sure that he "likes like" you first..cuz u never know
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Jul 31 2004, 06:54 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
^I agree with Sammi.
It mostly depends on if that Kinu d00d likes you.. if he doesn't, then you should forget it. I'd stick with my boyfriend. >:] |
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Aug 7 2004, 04:42 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 39 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,286 |
u should drop it...mayb u feel like u wanna hook up w/ him but who knows? it may b jus mixed feelings....it's like thinking ur in luv w/ a guy but really u get confused between loving sumone and actually liking sumone as a friend....this is the same situation....
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Nov 21 2006, 05:14 PM
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jsut stick with your bf and see what goes on from there
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Nov 21 2006, 06:15 PM
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 We are the cure. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,936 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,456 |
QUOTE(a painefull euphoria @ Nov 21 2006, 5:14 PM)  jsut stick with your bf and see what goes on from there Well, with any luck, the problem has been resolved - since this was two years ago. :P |
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