love is overrated, !!! Options

[ghjgfkgfk]

gah.

why do people even get a s/o when they are so young?

please. that person you're dating right now isnt going to be the person you marry or anything like that. so why do we waste time dating again...?

you say "i love you"
lie number one. its called infatution.
after too many "i love you"'s
you break up.
say goodbye.
reality check, please.
it's over.
you're hurt.
you don't speak to them again.
you were so depentant on this person to make you feel better, but when it's gone you don't know how to react.

oh wait.
3.
2.
1.
it happens again.
great.
you say the same thing, but convice your self he/she is "real".
but really? infatution.
get that word in your head.
you're not so perfect anymore.
its over again.
you feel worse.

'you plus me' won't always equal forever.

young people really shouldnt date.

[NawtyLilAznChic]

i actually agree...it bothers tha f*ck outta me wen lyk ppl have been goin out fa lyk 2-3 days n they already tell them they luv each otha...wtf is that? its not even special...thas y i wait til im sure im in luv...then u say it...cuz it means sumthin...

n sum ppl jus say "i luv u" cuz tha otha person sed it...thas so wrong...its lyk leadin tha person on...

but tha thing that sucks tha most is givin more than u get in return...its lyk a slap in tha face...

[*Fallen_Fairy*]

so true DOWN WITH LOVE! or wait is it UP well LOVE=PAIN

[initial-seven]

totallly ... i never had a gf but i agree witcha

[cynthia_bell]

I never say love. I say, heart,like,lurve and lava. Never been in love. Thankies.

[GyrL_wit_da_KuRL...]

i think ur rite in most situations...buh not n all..i noe pplz daht hab been together lik 3 er 4 yrs..and they still in high school...u shouldnt bang on all relationships..buh w/e...lolz...i do agree wit MOST...buh not wit all

[NawtyLilAznChic]

im not bangin on all...im jus biased at tha moment...
heart broken

[xinfamousXpinayx]

ahh yes. too many kidds use "i luv you." i usually sey "i heart yoo" or "i luv ya" or "mahal kita". wenever i say tha actually thing. i spell it out rite. like.."i love you". but that onlee came across once wen i had to say goodbye to him .

[SupraS15]

I wonder how old you are...-__-? Well anyway... "I love you" means something to me and my gf... and we planning to get married in a few years. I'm 20 btw so i'm getting up there in old age... XP So to me... it's not overrated...

[defjam_gangsta]

Greetings!!

funny how da process is similar to life itself. a child is born. grows up. dies at old age. long process but it is repeated. same thing applies to relationships as well. ya will keep doin it till ya finally married. but den again. some divorced couples do re-married again. well, wit a diff spouse obviously. didn't ya notice. they used watever experiences they have learnt during their "dating" to good used. God created us in such a way tat there is a hidden message behind every trait in each of us.

CHEERS CB!!

[ghjgfkgfk]

I wonder how old you are...-__-?

i'm 12, and i meant most teenage relationships are overrated

[Winter]

i meant most teenage relationships are overrated

This I agree. We all move on after high school. You'll probably never talk with the person you dated after you graduate.

[SSJ Kenshin]

People who say "I love you" after a few days of dating sicken me.

[JessJR1022]

how young is too young??..... I started dating my boyfriend at 18, and I can def say I love him and it has been almost a year now, love def isn't overrated..... if it makes someone happy and feel special, some people need that

[chanleythemanley]

I agreed up until the young people shouldn't date. I mean I'm young but I don't date and I don't see a problem with people that do. It's thse poeple who date someone new every two days and say "He/she is the one for me" I mean love has always been overrated.

I think you can fall in love young but you're not mature enough to handle it. I don't know if that makes too much sense. Like High School Sweethearts thing..

[xBitterxSweetx]

i actually agree...it bothers tha f*ck outta me wen lyk ppl have been goin out fa lyk 2-3 days n they already tell them they luv each otha...wtf is that? its not even special...thas y i wait til im sure im in luv...then u say it...cuz it means sumthin...

well it depends on the situation. like if the 2 were friends before they started dating. in that situation it would make sense because they knew each other well and probably had strong feelings for each other b4 they even started dating.

[wildaznchica]

lol i've never said I love you to my boyfriend, i dunno when it is called love or not..

[babixlilac]

i only sai i love u to ppo cus i do love dem as friends...

[maia_dc]

What's wrong with young people dating? I agree that the whole "I love you" thing is somewhat irrational for young teenagers, but just because you don't LOVE someone doesn't mean you can't date. At a young age, dating is more experimental than anything else.
Besides, even if they shouldn't date, how does that make love in general overrated?

[ghjgfkgfk]

love just sucks.

it won't matter how old you are because it will all end in heartache.

[eboarder2020]

It bothers me too when I see my friends dating and all they can ever think of is love... I mean sometimes they tell me all their sad stories and what not, and they also tell me their happy ones, but its very rare where people my age can acutally love.... But I do believe that some of the couples, or some of the young kids can find love when their 17. I know I did... Breakups and shakeups happen no doubt, and the chances of a person falling in love @ 17 is slim, but there have been people who actually got married to their highschool sweetheart. I cant be the person to say whether or not someone is or isnt in love, but i know that love exists in every person... Sometimes finding love is just the hardest part

[always_n0vember]

I wonder how old you are...-__-? Well anyway... "I love you" means something to me and my gf... and we planning to get married in a few years. I'm 20 btw so i'm getting up there in old age... XP So to me... it's not overrated...

Exactly!! How old are you~?!
I love you means something to me and my bf. I'm almost 20 (in nov.) and I've been with my bf for 3 years. We are planning our wedding at the moment. So excuse me if you haven't found the right person! bleh... but yeah.. Love is not overrated...

[ghjgfkgfk]

Exactly!! How old are you~?!
I love you means something to me and my bf. I'm almost 20 (in nov.) and I've been with my bf for 3 years. We are planning our wedding at the moment. So excuse me if you haven't found the right person! bleh... but yeah.. Love is not overrated...

read my post before. im 12, incase you missed it.

i know i shouldnt of put "love is overrated" in title because i guess it was misleading. what i meant was that most (note, i didnt say all) teenage relationships are bull. they think they are in love but its infatution.


it all ends in heartache no matter what way you think about it.

[conster]

i can tell u y ppl do it again and again wen they end up getting hurt.. its cuz they wanna feel it.... wouldnt u feel left out if all ur friends had a bf/gf and got hurt and u didnt? well yea its not something to be proud of but its one of those life experiences that u gota experience so u can talk about it to ur grandchildren lmao

[xsweetdreams12x]

Never had a boyfriend, but I know what you're saying.

Whenever I visit people's profiles it's like: I LOVE ____!! When they've only been together for a day. You think you're in love with them, but really, you only THINK you are. Bugs the hell outta me...