Parent Trouble, ...they know!!=O |
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 Jul 22 2004, 09:07 AM
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Basically, I'm not allowed to date...so I've been keeping my relationship with my boyfriend secret.
But now, I'm certain that my parents know...they've been telling me about how a girl like me needs to find a *right* boyfriend...and they've also been trying to get me to *realize* that my boyfriend isn't a good person to hang out with. Besides...my sister apparently told them *maybe* when they asked if I had a boyfriend...>_> ANYWAY! So yea...what should I do? I was thinking about calling a break, but I'm afraid of hurting him...I'm definetly not breaking up with him either... *I know that some of you might say that my parents knows what's best for me...and I guess they do...but they don't know my boyfriend...at all! They just don't want me dating...* |
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Jul 22 2004, 09:23 AM
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QUOTE *I know that some of you might say that my parents knows what's best for me...and I guess they do...but they don't know my boyfriend...at all! They just don't want me dating...* I'm gonna say the complete opposite. To hell with them. Stick with your boyfriend. - Chinkieeyedpnoi |
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Jul 22 2004, 09:41 AM
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 hey you Group: Member Posts: 331 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,531 |
i agree totally. u cant just turn off your heart like that.
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Jul 22 2004, 10:10 AM
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yo babi stick wif yo man,mah parents like dat too but i date aniways!!!
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Jul 22 2004, 11:15 AM
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 28:6:42:12 Group: Member Posts: 76 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,269 |
My dad has the same problem with me, but he knows I have my bf, but if you love your bf forget your parents, and if they tell you they know tell them that it's unfair to keep you away from guys =P
parents=EVIL! |
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Jul 22 2004, 11:17 AM
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 old school member Group: Member Posts: 1,796 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 843 |
My parents are like that too. But eh, if you love him, go with your heart.
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Jul 22 2004, 11:21 AM
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 waiting for love to find me... Group: Member Posts: 60 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,134 |
i would date regardless my parents. because they dont know the person i like and there fore they cat choose for me ya know. even if he was a good kid they just dont want me to date period so.......i think they should let me date. its way better to have them know who im dating. than me doing it in secret cause that way they dont know anything at all.
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Jul 22 2004, 12:18 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,032 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,398 |
keep ur bf, ur parents must understand sooner or later
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Jul 22 2004, 12:21 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,051 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,264 |
Screw what your parents are saying.
Stay with your boyfriend. Your parents don't have to know. 
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Jul 22 2004, 12:30 PM
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 pain is good Group: Member Posts: 812 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,846 |
introduce ur b/f to ur family.....they might juss realize that he isnt such a bad guy after all, who knows maybe theyll even like him...if they dont, tell them that u love him, nd its ur choice
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Jul 22 2004, 12:33 PM
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 Unlock the Darkness Group: Member Posts: 305 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,967 |
QUOTE(SkYlIneZx4xLiF @ Jul 22 2004, 12:30 PM) introduce ur b/f to ur family.....they might juss realize that he isnt such a bad guy after all, who knows maybe theyll even like him...if they dont, tell them that u love him, nd its ur choice Yeah. That's a good way to go. I just wish I'd done that in the past... |
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Jul 22 2004, 05:34 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,531 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,624 |
dont let your parents get in between your relationship..they cant force you to break up with him..keep your head up and stay strong
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Jul 22 2004, 06:05 PM
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 lil azn supermodel... =] Group: Member Posts: 461 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,841 |
QUOTE(chinkieeyedpnoi @ Jul 22 2004, 10:23 AM) To hell with them. Stick with your boyfriend. - Chinkieeyedpnoi i agree wit lyk everyone...especially wit wat he sed^^ i keep all my relationships a secret...they usually mistake who i go out wit 
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Jul 22 2004, 06:05 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
stick wit him ur parents dont even kno him lols maybe u can intro him to them lols wen u and him are ready of course
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Jul 22 2004, 06:43 PM
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well if you have asian parents,then asian parents are like that
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Jul 22 2004, 06:43 PM
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Try to make them understand.
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Jul 22 2004, 06:48 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 286 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,508 |
I also think that you should stay with him. Why should your parents decide who you should or shouldn't date. It's your heart, and your emotions/feelings, not theirs'.
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Jul 22 2004, 06:51 PM
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 i`m in love & always will be Group: Member Posts: 1,138 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 12,769 |
i was in the same exact situation
stay with your boyfriend and if you want to sometime try to get your parents to understand how YOU feel. hope it all works out <3 |
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Jul 22 2004, 07:40 PM
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 I'd surf if I couldn't bodyboard. Group: Member Posts: 62 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,817 |
just stick to your heart..
stay with him if you feel its gonna last for more than a year.. if not.. dump him.. <3 DAVe |
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Jul 22 2004, 07:42 PM
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 What the fack. Group: Official Member Posts: 6,164 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,519 |
I'm sure your parents are looking out for your best interest, but I think they should let you make your own choices and at least get to know more about your boyfriend.
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Jul 22 2004, 08:10 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 63 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,906 |
ahh... they juss dont want u dating...
it is your life... but at the same time... u cant change the way they think... if u really want a break from u n ur bF... tell him why... dont juss say u want a break... n for ur parents... its okayy to let them kno... EVEN IF... they dont want u dating.. its not like they CAN do anythin about it... u cant keep lovers apart from each other... 
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Jul 23 2004, 12:37 AM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 6 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,682 |
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yea i think u shud stick with yer guy.. thaz whut im doin rite now.. my parents r koo with me dating tho. but they jz dont like him.. but they dont even KNOW him.. they alwaiiz judge ya kno.. but if u reli wanna tell ur parents tho, u shud prove them wrong about whut they think of him. nd also about how ur old enough to hav a guy. i mean, they shud understand man, they went trough teenage life too! but THEN, if u dont think its worth getting in trouble nd shiizz(because its not that serious), then i dont think u shud tell ur parents.. but hey, we get in trouble from our parents fer nething newaiiz.. but yea i bet ur seirous about it nd yea jz stick with yer boii nd see whut happens.. did u tell ur bf about this newaiiz? does he understand about it? well he shud, nd he shud alwaiiz b by yer side no matter what. if he doesnt, that jz means hez not worth it! -------------------------------- ~ViSiT mY xAngA~
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Jul 23 2004, 02:24 AM
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 DefJam Gangsta Inc Group: Member Posts: 914 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,652 |
Greetings!!
it depends at times. back den, when i had ma girl, i had to keep it away from ma momma. da rest of ma family were okeyz but they told me to keep it safe coz they know how horny i can be at times!! we are no longer togather though but ma momma did have a negative feedback on ma relationship wit ma x-boo. oh well. ya just gotta trust ya guts at times. stick to ya guns (if ya have one). and it's okeyz. breakups and wat nots are part and parcel of life experiences!! CHEERS CB!! |
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Jul 24 2004, 08:36 PM
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 punk x3 Group: Member Posts: 39 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,260 |
just listen to them, but not listen to them. don't appear as if you're troubled for them telling you that because they'll just have more proof you have a bf. i'm kind of in the same situation
my mo-thurr keepz tellin me to keep my head off of boys and to study harder in school. luckily, she hasn't discovered me talkin to 'dude' late at night...
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Jul 24 2004, 08:41 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,077 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,904 |
Just stay with your BF. Your parents don't have to know you're still dating him.
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