GF/BF over your Friends?, What do you think....... |
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 Jul 21 2004, 04:41 AM
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 F**k me Beautiful  Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124  |
Iono if theres a topic on this but eh i wanted to start something.....
anywho when ur in a relationship do u have time to balance ur lover and ur friends out? Me personally i spend all the time i can with my girlfriend and pretty much kick my friends to the curb haha....yea i know im a bad friend but they should understand....... how about u guys? do u try to share equal ammount of time with ur gf/bf and friends, or do u favor one side....? past my 200th post w00t!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Dumb topic i know but eh it seemed original to me... |
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Jul 21 2004, 07:04 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 279 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,828 |
yeah i try to balance things out for my bf/friends/family...it's really hard, now that i think about it. usually i do end up ditching one group, but i always try to make it up to them.
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Jul 21 2004, 08:29 AM
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 DefJam Gangsta Inc Group: Member Posts: 914 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,652 |
Greetings!!
this is kinda tricky but i would spend time wit ma peeps first before i spent time wit ma girl. thing is she finish skol much much later than me and tat leaves me ample time to chill out before spending da rest of da evening wit her. now tat it's over btw us, i dun have to worry of 'offending' any of ma peeps!! just gotta balance it out. talk to each other on how to maximise each others' time!! CHEERS CB!! |
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Jul 21 2004, 08:42 AM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
well, with my ex, i tried to spend an equal amount of time with him and my friends. but sometimes, i'd spend more time wiht him though.
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Jul 21 2004, 09:58 AM
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 Kermit the frog = <3 Group: Member Posts: 2,315 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,215 |
I'd spend more time with my bf.. I wouldn't want him to feel left out.
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Jul 21 2004, 11:05 AM
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 WUT THA DUCK? Group: Member Posts: 3,950 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,138 |
yepp i try to spend as much time with everyone equally!! lately i havent spen much time with my friends... since its summer... but lately its usually my boyfriend and family.. which im fine with!
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Jul 21 2004, 11:06 AM
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 Tina + Tommy Group: Member Posts: 427 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,575 |
i balance it out. i would hang out with my friends whenever my bf doesnt have time. and sometimes i hang out with both my bf and friends at the same time so i dont realli spend more time with one or the other.
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Jul 21 2004, 11:19 AM
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 i need an sn change. Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
sumtimes me and my friend double date
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Jul 21 2004, 11:58 AM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
I try to spend a bunch of my time with my bf since during school, i see him like once a week, maybe twice a month. so during the summer, im tryin to spend as much time with him since hes gunna be a junior and gunna be hella busy so im tryin to plan how we gunna meet and imma even buy him a webcam XD
i see my friends everyday and skool but im still chillin with my best friends at the mall and stuff...with my bf too lol but ya..i guess it equals out |
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Jul 21 2004, 02:06 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,051 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,264 |
Not in a relationship, but if I was, I'd try to balance everything out. If it doesn't work out with the sharing of me, well... I dunno.
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Jul 21 2004, 09:00 PM
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 Unlock the Darkness Group: Member Posts: 305 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,967 |
When I have a gf, I always manage to spend time equally with them. That's usually not a problem though, since all of my past gf's have rolled with my crew anyway.
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Jul 22 2004, 05:43 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,531 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,624 |
i try and make space for my bf/friends cuz if just left either of them out i would feel so bad. i already hate it when some people i know just spend time w/ their bf/gf..after they break up they come back to you
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Jul 22 2004, 08:19 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 63 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,906 |
QUOTE(DrEaMgUy2K1 @ Jul 21 2004, 4:41 AM) Iono if theres a topic on this but eh i wanted to start something..... anywho when ur in a relationship do u have time to balance ur lover and ur friends out? Me personally i spend all the time i can with my girlfriend and pretty much kick my friends to the curb haha....yea i know im a bad friend but they should understand....... how about u guys? do u try to share equal ammount of time with ur gf/bf and friends, or do u favor one side....? past my 200th post w00t!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Dumb topic i know but eh it seemed original to me... i try to share equal time... what i really like about my current bF right now... is that he knows wen i need to hang out with my friends n wen... to be with me... i love him so much  but... being honest... i wuld prolly choose him over than my friends... that are girls... 
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Jul 22 2004, 11:37 PM
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I try to balance it out. We have a lot of the same friends so we all hang out together sometimes.
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Jul 24 2004, 08:32 PM
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 punk x3 Group: Member Posts: 39 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,260 |
i kind of feel bad because everytime i'm with a guy and i'm talkin to that dude on the fone, and my nephew is calling, i just ignore it. i mean i know he'll understand, but i feel bad aboutz it still.
 i still chill and listen to my friends still, but i don't know if they come before the 'dude' ah hehe 
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Aug 13 2004, 04:34 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 113 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,544 |
well i try my hardest to balance things out, but u nevr realli realize when ur hanging out w/ a person one too many....but u still shouldn't shut out ur friendz...
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Aug 13 2004, 05:27 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
I spend time with my boyfriend and my friends at the same time.
I think overall I spend more time with my friends, though. =-/ |
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Aug 13 2004, 06:18 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 5,585 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,082 |
I'll have to pick my friends over my boyfriend. Nothing lasts forever but friendship lasts longer than relationships with someone....That's what I think anyways.
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Aug 13 2004, 06:19 PM
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F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
wow who bumped this up lol...
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Aug 14 2004, 02:44 AM
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 i'm lala. girly girl. Group: Member Posts: 1,531 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,888 |
i'm kinda trying to balance but basically its my friends who distant themselves from me...so i dont know what's wrong with it...me and my boyfriend try to spend as much time together as we possible can and my friends join...it's not like me and him are PDA all the time...but we have fun when they join...and it's cool with me if they want to distant themselves but i feel as if they dont want to hang out with me because of him...i need help too!
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Aug 14 2004, 09:38 AM
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i like ur duckies Group: Member Posts: 42 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,887 |
I usually spend most of my time with my boyfriend, because my friends have each other and stuff. If they really wanted to hang out, I would, but we dont really hang out that much anyways.
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