rape, would would u do |
 Jul 16 2004, 02:50 AM
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 hum de dum  Group: Member Posts: 82 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 26,638  |
so my friend asked me that one day
for me it would be a very difficult choice... if someone knew.. it would be such an embarassment to my family especially how alll my relatives are like crazy compettitng their kids to be the best... then it would be hard for a 16 yr old to keep her baby and go to school and do great in it. cant have an aboriton because we're catholic and it would suck... adoption would still mean carrying it for 9 months and then later give her/him away what would u guys do |
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Jul 16 2004, 06:08 PM
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felalalala Group: Member Posts: 87 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,371 |
i actually thinki would keep it .. apart from saying im too young .. but i mean it wasnt my fault .. i would feel even worst knowing i wanted to give my kid away to a stranger even if i could give it love and all that other stuff
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Jul 16 2004, 06:15 PM
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 . . someday* Group: Member Posts: 227 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,275 |
wow thats really hard.. i never thought about that.
well .. i know i wouldnt have an abortion, thats like killing a life. the fetus starts to feel within a few months.. i cant keep it.. so i guess the best thing is to put it up for adoption..tho giving it away would probably be a painful experience. err..i hate rapists! 
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Jul 16 2004, 08:15 PM
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 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
eh... to hard of a choice..
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Jul 16 2004, 08:49 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,025 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,051 |
QUOTE(xquizit @ Jul 16 2004, 12:16 PM) Adoption. Every baby deserves a chance. i agree... i might get attached to it and adopt it still into my family though |
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Jul 16 2004, 09:08 PM
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alli Group: Member Posts: 513 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,108 |
thats a hard difficult question...i think i would give it up for adoption and then like keep in touch with the family..but still with skool and all...i dont no!
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Jul 16 2004, 09:23 PM
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QUOTE(x3_kelly @ Jul 16 2004, 5:34 AM) abortion. after that I'd hunt down the person that raped me and I'd kill him.  hell yea!!!!  Probly give me stds and shi.... stuff. Id never keep that preverts baby.But before hed rape me, maybe id kill him then. |
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Jul 16 2004, 09:45 PM
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this is a goooood question.
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Jul 19 2004, 11:26 PM
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 B & B Group: Member Posts: 187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,204 |
Even though it sounds horrifying, i think i would choose abortion. I wont keep the baby because although the baby has nothing to do with what happend to me, the baby will be a constant reminder of the rape. I wouldnt want to choose adoption because i bet by the time i actually have the baby, i would grow fond of it and end up being heartbroken.
Abortion would be my choice. |
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Jul 20 2004, 11:59 AM
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 it's our chemistry Group: Member Posts: 1,151 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,775 |
Abortion... or keep him/her. I would abort because being raped would have been an extremely terrifying and horrible experience, and I don't know if I could bring myself through childbirth knowing I was forced.
Or I would keep the baby, and try to raise him/her with all of my love, knowing that the baby was simply the result of bad luck, and the baby had nothing to do with it. X_X Then I would hunt the rapist down and chop his d*ck off. =] |
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| *FreeStickers* |
Jul 20 2004, 12:17 PM
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adoption or abortion.
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Jul 20 2004, 01:20 PM
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adoption. or try to raise it myself.
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Jul 20 2004, 04:27 PM
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i would give the baby up for adoption. abortion is like takin away sum1's life.i wouldn't keep the baby becuz i wouldn't have time to raise him/her or the mooney to take care of it. and i think it ouwld be hard to raise a child.
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Jul 20 2004, 04:51 PM
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 Quand j'étais jeune... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 6,826 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,272 |
It depends on my emotional state. I'd most likely opt for abortion, but then again, I've heard that people grow to love their babies, no matter how they were conceived. So... It really depends on the situation.
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| *NatiMarie* |
Jul 20 2004, 07:05 PM
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I would try to keep it.
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Jul 20 2004, 07:19 PM
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abortion.
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Jul 20 2004, 08:44 PM
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 waiting for love to find me... Group: Member Posts: 60 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,134 |
i would do adoption. because abortion is like killing it, which i could never do. and i dont think i'll be able or ready to take car of it.
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Jul 20 2004, 08:58 PM
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 i luv kyle Group: Member Posts: 64 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,135 |
aww...NEVER abortion. Don't kill an innocent thing. :(
Even if it was from an unstable cause. |
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Jul 20 2004, 11:33 PM
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i`d give it up for adoption. I just don`t feel comfortable knowing that i`m killing a human being. As risky as this is to say, there is a reason for its birth .. yOo have no clue what gOod that child can accomplish in the future, and i wouldn`t want to prevent that from happening. We need some friggin gOod in this world, even though it was born out of "evil". Ya never know. But yeh, i`d rather give him/her up for adoption.
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Jul 20 2004, 11:43 PM
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id giv it to adoption onli because i wont b capable of supporting the kid ryte den..i would wanna giv it to some veri frendli nd loveli couple...i dont want the kid to grow up n keep thinking bout how messed up his life is...
 nd abortion?? dats cruel
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Jul 21 2004, 01:33 AM
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hum de dum Group: Member Posts: 82 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 26,638 |
at the age of 16, I dont think i can endure 9 months carrying a baby, experiencing mood swings, morning sickness, and all that stuff and still have to deal with school, friends, and parents. Yet I don't want an abortion. Life is complicated.
 and iono if guys read this but i just wanna know if ur gf had a baby out of rape what would u do? |
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Jul 21 2004, 01:46 AM
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POWAPOSTA Group: Member Posts: 3,169 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,725 |
abortion. i don't like babies. childbrith would hurt like hell and a teen isnt ready for that. i couldnt live myself knowing a didnt keep a baby that was mine. i dont want people thinking "ohmigawd. another slut" and then having to explain.
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Jul 21 2004, 01:46 AM
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 Assistant Manager of Personal Group: Member Posts: 1,101 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 26,922 |
Abortion is about 350 bucks. But, it'll save you medical bills, diapers, formula, babie clothes, and all that mess. Financial wise it'll save you some $$, but spirtually you are killing a living thing regardless if it is aware of it. I'm buddhist, so being killed as a baby means another shot at life, but it also means a shot of life i never got. But, since i'm a a baby being born from forced illed intentions, i wouldnt be loved as much; so adoption is good.
Long story short, its all a matter of circumstances and your beliefs. Now heres a picture to lighten up the your mood after reading my gloomy post. :D |
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Jul 21 2004, 02:03 AM
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hum de dum Group: Member Posts: 82 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 26,638 |
aww that's so cute
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Jul 21 2004, 02:10 AM
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adoption
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Jul 21 2004, 03:47 AM
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 Breathe..Stretch..Shake.. Group: Member Posts: 203 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,792 |
Abortion?Pssh..
Keep it?Depending on my age at the time Adoption?Hell yeah.. |
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