i need cheering up...., ................. Options

[sweet_thang_135]

im really upset ............my cousin who was like 24 yrs old had cancer..........she recently died and we werent only cousins....we wer best friends.........going to her funeral was the worst experience of my life...........sitting around with a bunch of ppl and i was thinking that none of them knew her like i did.........well maybe her mom but ther were even sum of her cuzins that wer just talkin and even laughin thru it whil i was hystericaly crying i felt liek goin to them and just smackin them in their faces .......but i didnt ........losing her was like losing the sister i never had......i feel life will never be the same and my friends dont understand exept one whos cousin also died but a long time ago...........i just need cheering up.........plz thank you

[*bright eyes*]

i am so sorry about what happened. anyone who treats you like that is not a friend at all. my grandmother died after 22 years of pain from cancer and i was so upset you couldnt believe. i locked myself in my room and cried for hours.

if you need anyone to talk to you can always message me, really. i know you don't know me but sometimes talking about it is all you need.

<3

[defjam_gangsta]

Greetings!!

chin up k. death is somethin we have to deal wit. we can't never avoid it coz it's part of our life. ya just gotta pick up da pieces left behind and continue wat ya been doin all along. anyway, ya must be proud tat she's watchin ya from above and tat she doens't have to carry on suffering in dis world of world sins. take note, HE is wit her rite now. or is it vice versa?! ya can always talk wit me too. imma a youth counsellor and i'll do ma best if there's anything. hook me up if ya want to aight?!

CHEERS CB!!

[whomps]

Aww, it's okay. Things will move.. Just don't ever forget the great times you had with her =] The best memories.

[winks03]

its okay that you are feeling bad and even lonely and its okay to miss her. but smile cuz im sure your cousin wouldnt want you so sad. and remember that you always have God! group hug----->

[whywasisostupid]

im sorrie...but now u kno shes in a better place and doesnt have to go thru the pain of cancer no more, ive never lost sumone to cancer.. i hope u fell beter <3

[babieshortie]

ehh...some frends huh?
talk to someone dat would actualli understand nd...stay away from ppl dat r less selfish bout demselves..
its ok dat ur styll having feelings bout dis..u ken miss her...u ken cry bout her...
do everything u kan to soothe urself...cuz its HARD...just giv urself some tyme..
besides...ur cuzin probli went to a place with happiness all round her...GOD bless her! wo0t!

feel better!!

[xsweetdreams12x]

I know it sounds corny and all, but you'll learn to have her there for you in spirit. Just remember the good times you've shared with her and maybe get to be closer friends than you already are with your friend who's cousin died too. You guys will be able to support eachother through everything.