What would u do if a friend was acting up, some tymz friends act like A holes |
 Jul 12 2004, 04:21 PM
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 (0.x)o-(^.^q) take that  Group: Member Posts: 125 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,827  |
Well recently I have this friend of mine that is acting like an A hole. I want to fight him because he is talking to much mess. What should I do, Should I talk to him and or fight him(I rather fight him though because I like to fight). Tell me what should I do, at the end I'm the one who is going to make the desicion but I want to know what u guys think I should do
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Jul 12 2004, 04:23 PM
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 pixel hybrid Group: Member Posts: 6,410 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,081 |
Talk to him. Don't fight. You'll both end up hurting yourselves.
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Jul 12 2004, 04:38 PM
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questions make me blue. Group: Member Posts: 2,608 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,796 |
QUOTE(lilangelgurlpnai @ Jul 12 2004, 4:23 PM) Talk to him. Don't fight. You'll both end up hurting yourselves. Moved to Relationships ^^ NO KIDDING! communication is always best. but if he`s stubborn...FIGHT HIM! 
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Jul 12 2004, 04:40 PM
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(0.x)o-(^.^q) take that Group: Member Posts: 125 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,827 |
QUOTE(ThePrincessofTKD @ Jul 12 2004, 4:38 PM) ^^ NO KIDDING! communication is always best. but if he`s stubborn...FIGHT HIM! YEah his a stubborn person....what a friend after I defended him so many times at fights. |
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Jul 12 2004, 05:14 PM
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 Tina + Tommy Group: Member Posts: 427 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,575 |
i dont think fighting is good. i personally dont like fights but if theirs no other way to solve this [after you talk bout it first] then i guess yooh should fight him [ but before you do think of the aftermath and if you wanna take it]
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Jul 12 2004, 07:02 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,051 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,264 |
Even though you like to fight, don't. Talk it out.
When you fight, you make yourself weaker. But if you talk out a sitation, you make yourself stronger. ^ Listen to that. It makes a lot of sense if you read it carefully enough. ^ |
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Jul 12 2004, 07:14 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,032 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,398 |
jus talk to him first nd evb if he doesnt listen, jus styl talk buh if yoohs realliee cant take it...i guess fite him
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Jul 13 2004, 12:23 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 54 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,149 |
Don't fight him; that's not going to do anything. Talk to him. You can yell at him but don't get violent. If nothing happens after that, just... ignore him.
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Jul 13 2004, 01:32 AM
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(0.x)o-(^.^q) take that Group: Member Posts: 125 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,827 |
I don't know yall I talked to him today when he was with his new hommies and I was gonna go out on him cuz he kept talking mess. But I did hold up because I didn't want to embaress him infront of his friends but eventually it might just come to a point were something just might happen.
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Jul 13 2004, 04:19 AM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
when i notice some negativity coming from my friend i confront them about it, but not just like randomly punching them...asking like wats up with u lately, why u been acting like a prick, u know stuff like that,tell he/she that their attitudes or actions is getting to u
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Jul 13 2004, 01:08 PM
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 Drew Group: Member Posts: 489 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,012 |
my friend was like that... i was about to knock his lights out, but my other friend told me the same and i told her wat she is going to do about it and she said she'll give him time to chill.. so i did the same. i'd avoid him for a week and then when i saw him hanging out at the mall he was back to normal.
 you should go to 1 of ur friends and ask them if u think he's been acting up a lot, then ask for their opinion |
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Jul 14 2004, 11:26 AM
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 Kermit the frog = <3 Group: Member Posts: 2,315 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,215 |
fighting won't solve anything. talk it out with him..
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Jul 14 2004, 12:21 PM
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La la la la... ok, first of all Ricky, if this person were your so-called friend he wouldn't be talking shyt to begin with. If he thinks he's so damn hard that he can talk shyt behind your back go up to him and tell him what's up. I dunno if talking it over is even gonna help any, but you should at least try that ya know?? Then if that doesn't work then you have to lay the smack down on him
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Jul 14 2004, 12:44 PM
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 Rawr Rawr i am a Reptawr Group: Member Posts: 263 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,045 |
talk to him. tell him that hes being an A-Hole. then if he doesnt listen, fight his butt! haha. just talk to him.
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Jul 14 2004, 01:00 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 279 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,828 |
no need to talk...beat his ass and don't forget to videotape it for me =)
i keed i keed...just don't talk to him. what i do is, i ignore them for a few weeks, wait until they return back to their usual self and then everything will be great again. |
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Jul 15 2004, 04:11 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,549 |
ahh just bitch slap him and teach him a littile lesson on how to act right.
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Jul 15 2004, 02:39 PM
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(0.x)o-(^.^q) take that Group: Member Posts: 125 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,827 |
QUOTE(betrayedbytheducky @ Jul 15 2004, 4:11 AM) ahh just bitch slap him and teach him a littile lesson on how to act right. I like the way you think
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Jul 15 2004, 08:03 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 286 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,508 |
well, you know what they say, 'violence doesn't solve anything.' even if you beat him to a pulp, he can still act like a prick. Pressuring him to change (especially by physical force) will just make the situation worse.
have a talk with him, ask him what's going on and find out what's up with his new attitude. if he gets all defensive, just ignore him for a while, and then try to talk to him again. 
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Jul 17 2004, 09:07 AM
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 DefJam Gangsta Inc Group: Member Posts: 914 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,652 |
Greetings!!
why fight why ya can get someone else to do da dirty work. anyway, dun take things into ya own hands. ya won't know wat da consequences is like. i've done dis before and i really regret it caused i almost caused a death in another person's family. oh well. imma for da better now. a youth counsellor/mentor and waitin to start ma training at da police academy soon!!  CHEERS CB!! |
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Jul 19 2004, 12:08 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 140 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,638 |
fighting kinda would make things worse so uhmm i kinda disagree on dat..
 otherwise...yah talk it out...u say hes ur frend...if dats so ...dere should b no more problem with dat...but hey..if he acts up jus cuz u care nd wanna talk to hym bout it...den ..HMM is he a frend worth keeping [?]
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| *AngelicEyz00* |
Jul 19 2004, 12:26 AM
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Also Ricky, is this person 18 already?? if not, you're a little screwed
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Jul 19 2004, 01:26 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,153 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,193 |
fighting wouldn`t help anything .. i know with guys its hard to control but ya gotta talk it out. i learned that when you talk to the person, you can`t be so aggressively confrontational. It`ll aggravate your friend and nothing will be resolved. Ya gotta be calm and reasonable .. make sure your friend hears ya out and yOo hear him out.
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