he's leaving..., about this guy moving. |
 Jul 17 2004, 11:19 AM
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well..theres this guy, kris. he is one of my best friends. we did have feelings for one another but then we talked about it and we said that it'd be best if we would just stay friends because it might ruin our relationship that we already have. and one other reason is because he is moving in two days.
and lately he's been spending alot of time with this other girl. almost everynite. and yesterday i find out that they kissed. then early this morning. i asked him if they were going out, and he was like.. uhhhhhhh uhhmmm errr. all that bullshiet. then he told me yea they were going out. then i told him that he was moving in two days. then he leaves to go to her house because he was complaining about how me and another friend were dissing all tha girls that he went out with. first of all..i never said anything about the ghirls. i dont judge people i dont kno. he told me that he didnt want to get attached to anyone because he was already attached to me and he didnt want to lose another close friend. but now he goes on and gets with another girl, 2 days before he leaves. wat kind of shiet is that? |
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Jul 17 2004, 11:44 AM
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 Change Gon Come Group: Member Posts: 2,286 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,822 |
maybe its lyke a one nite stand or sumthin..
either dat or he's a litto bia bia... u deserve a guy betta den dat.. n dat is sum straight up bullshiet! |
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Jul 17 2004, 01:41 PM
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 Kermit the frog = <3 Group: Member Posts: 2,315 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,215 |
he sounds like a jerk.. no offense.."there are plenty of fishes in the sea" you'll find a better guy that will treat you better...
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Jul 17 2004, 03:38 PM
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 KUNG FU/JEDI MASTER Group: Member Posts: 354 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,433 |
QUOTE(x3_kelly @ Jul 17 2004, 1:41 PM) he sounds like a jerk.. no offense.."there are plenty of fishes in the sea" you'll find a better guy that will treat you better... yes I agree |
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Jul 17 2004, 04:54 PM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
heh i think hes just tryn to make the most of the time he has left. =/
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Jul 17 2004, 08:12 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 286 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,508 |
yikes. what a bum! he probably has his own reasons though... but brushing you off like that (when you confronted him about his newfound gf) was really mean of him.
Maybe he was telling the truth when he said he didn't want to go out with you because of the "it might ruin the friendship" thing.. the 'moving' reason could have been a minor/less important reason.... Perhaps his new gf wasn't a close friend of his, so when he moves and the relationship ends, he won't have to worry about losing her friendship, cuz she was never that close to begin with... so there's less risk involved... I hope that made sense...  Basically, what I'm trying to say is that... he doesn't want to go out with you because he doesn't want to ruin the good friendship between you two... so he goes out with someone who is not as close to him.. if he breaks up with her, then he doesn't lose as much... as opposed to going out with you (he could lose you, the good/close friend).hrmm, but then again.. him accusing you of dissing his gfs (when you didn't) was such a bastardly thing to do. >.< idk, leave him alone for awhile, and then try talking to him again? 
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Jul 17 2004, 10:31 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,051 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,264 |
Sounds like a jerk to me. Doesn't realize he's hurting your feelings... a-hole.
Okay, sorry about that. Just ask him why he's acting like that. Maybe, he'll tell you his side of the story, and it ends up one big whole misunderstanding. |
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