it's really hard to talk to him ... Options

[ichiban]

I used to like this guy so much and he knew about it, but he just wanted to be friends .. so slowly I just got over him, and decided being friends is a lot better than a relationship .. and now that he got his internet back, he's online a lot everyday. we're close friends but whenever he's on we never talk to each other ... i think he's ignoring me or something ... so I told my friend about it and she said that he thought I was ignoring HIM ...

So I just IMed him today and said hey, got internet back? and he just said helloz, yeah i got it back .... END OF CONVO ..

I mean, I'm just really sad ... it's really hard to talk to him for some reason, basically because we have NOTHING to talk ABOUT .. I STILL think he's ignoring me, and he doesn't wanna talk to me because he doesn't care or something ... my friend tells me a lot of things he says about me and its all about him saying he cares a lot about me and that i'm his really good friend nd im so important to him ... but i dunno, because it never seems like it.

Life is hell.

[x0143637x0]

if you really wanna kno then ask him yourself. you mite not kno whats happening until you go find out urself. ask him what you wanna ask him. dont be shy or anything since you care about this friendship.

[naiverucee]

yup you never know. it is best if you ask him yourself, your friend might have gotten some details wrong? perhaps

[Darkpekkle]

hey, maybe he's not ignoring you... you said it yourself "there's nothing to talk about" . and just because he doesn't IM you, doesn't mean he's ignoring you... i mean, why does he have to IM first? you could IM him first and keep the convo going...

the best way to find out... is not to ask your friend to ask him. Rather, it's better to just talk to him yourself. If you can't do that, then there's obviously communication problems... and communication problems don't occur between good friends. so just send him an IM... tell him how you feel... and see where it goes from there.

[DrEaMgUy2K1]

some people only talk to people who IM them... maybe hes one of em... maybe u should try small talk then real talk..that sounds retarded but eh

[sheepy]

when you IMed him u could've lik started a convo or something.. just like small talk ^

[ichiban]

lol i really didn't know what kind of topic to start .. well he told me himself he cared bout me and everything .. hrmm ..

[xsweetdreams12x]

That sucks.

I guess when teh conversation is seeming like it's going down hill then try to initiate another topic. If you try to make the conversation work, he may too.

Good luck.

[babieshortie]

aww i thnk i noe wat you mean

the LOOOOOOONG pauses..lol
just try to loosen it up w/ the dings u guys r both intersted in...

but hey...i gotta tell u...as bad as it may seem ...
gossipping brings so many ppl together..

[babygurl_xtacy]

So I just IMed him today and said hey, got internet back? and he just said helloz, yeah i got it back .... END OF CONVO ..

he replied.. soo doesnt that mean u have to reply next? haha yah i know wut u mean.. im always afraids hes avoiding me.. and my frien actually ASKED him.. and the next day he msged me and said he wasnt lol.. that was kinda embarassing.. but i know how u feel.. cant help but think that.. but yah.. dont wry i dont think hes avoiding you

[strwbrryluv8]

u can always continue the convo by saying.. 'wuts up?'
or... juss simply ask him... 'r u ignoring me or sumthin? i feel like i havent talked to u in ages!'
u can juss try all those...
there are A LOT ov other ways u can do...
but im suggesting that one...

cuz this happened to me before...
good luck!

[islandkiss]

why don't you talk to him about it?.. you guys are friends, so it'll be kind of easier won't it?

[*tyedyefroggy*]

yeah, small talk might help but there will always be the long pauses, i hate those lol

*pause* like that one.... lol hmmm nothing to do..... but yeah, small talk but since you both are close friends maybe you two already know the usual, so maybe start a convo about food or something, I dunno lol

LaterZ

-Courtney

[whywasisostupid]

i have tough times talkin to AJ...even though i did go out with him, we are lik on two different roads. but if we saw each other, we cant b seperated.

lik u said, yall have nuthin to talk about, so just lik bring up sumthin that he likes and mayb hell go jabbering

or i duno. sry if i dont help

[*bright eyes*]

maybe you should just tell him. tell him how you think that he is a really good friend that you don't want to lose. tell him that you wish you could talk to him but you are at a loss for words.

just tell him everything you feel. trust me, he will understand.

<3

[defjam_gangsta]

Greetings!!

it's not tat he is avoidin ya or somethin. thing is, he's havin butterflies in his stomach. coz he is just as worried to ya. he's afraid he might say sometin tat might trigger ya affections for him again!! he's just being cautious. why dun ya make da first move instead. make it casual aight?!

CHEERS CB!!