sex (13++), im really curious.. Options

[pikimoo]

Uh, okay, like I have to do what you tell me...

But what you read is one thing, what facts are is another thing. I mean, though I agree with some of what you say, there are exceptions.

I wasn't telling you what to do, hun. Just stating my opinion on the matter.

And yeah, you all have good points. I'm still gonna go through my life thinkin it's losin your virginity though.

[Spirited Away]

I wasn't telling you what to do, hun. Just stating my opinion on the matter.

And yeah, you all have good points. I'm still gonna go through my life thinkin it's losin your virginity though.

Considering that I'm 'slightly' older than you, I think I have more time to think about what virginity is and the answer is up to you, but don't make up your mind so soon, 'hun'.

Anyway, some kids actually tell their friends that they've lost their virginity because they saw/acidentally touched someone's private region, just to be "cool". So, that was my point, virginity isn't something as simple as that.

[eboarder2020]

Oral sex to me is considered sex. By going that far in a relationship you are really doing an Adult thing. Oral sex may be like French Kissing now a days, and it may be very common, but just because everyone does it, mean that I have to do it also. I've been brought up in the traditional filipino, catholic beliefs... Anything above fingering and handjobs are looked down upon in my church, and that certain things like oral, and sex, should only be done when married with a person you are willing to give yourself up to... Anyways yeah thats me, take care

[xsweetdreams12x]

I wouldn't know, but if it's Oral SEX, wouldn't it be considered sex??

[*AngelicEyz00*]

lol ya im blck n krn. i guess its cool...besides the fact everyone things im spanish lol but ya..i think im done wit this thread so w.e. pc ez

hopefully ppl wont flame at me for my strong beliefs..

Eh, I COMPLETELY agree with you... Oral sex isn't the same as vaginal sex... Therefore, i believe one is a virgin even if she's had oral sex...

[Just_Dream]

IMO IMO IMO...

I pick yes because I think it does count. IMO though! Personally, I think that if a guy puts his dragon inside a girl's cave, whether it be the month or the you know what, it still counts.

[Sumiaki]

Yes, you are still a virgin if you have oral sex.

[shawty_redd]

in my opinion, i think there are different types of virginity and when you perform oral sex you loose that virginity and then theres the boy and girl virginity buts thats different.

//EDIT

this should be in debate

[mouse_3k]

lol i wonder how ppl who think losing your virginity by giving oral will stay complete pure & a "virgin" until they get married.. (for those tht wanna stay pure & be a virgin until marriage)

lol sry im back..i was just lookin and i was like "I wonder blah blah blah" haha ok im out. pc ez

[eli5e]

i consider it no.

[nyCzxfOx]

well.. i think.. um.. technically is a virgin.. but i wouldnt think of the person as one.. ><;; ... i guess.. in my own mind the person isnt.. but in reality.. for most peopel yes she is

[uLoVeMikeRoch]

omfg u people are so f'in stupid

1.No u cannot lose ur god damn virginity by have oral sex ok thats the truth
2.We have to many topics on this, someone close this

[pikimoo]

omfg u people are so f'in stupid

1.No u cannot lose ur god damn virginity by have oral sex ok thats the truth
2.We have to many topics on this, someone close this

omfg yes you can. if thats what you believe in

But why does it matter wether you're a virgin or not? It doesn't(or shouldnt) change who you are.

Personally, I wouldn't have any form of sex unless I'm married. I know I'm young in making this decision. But who wants a dick in their mouth? Ick. You don't know where it's been. And think.. it's like drinking pi$$.

And I know you were mocking me by calling me 'hun'. I didn't mean to previously type that. It's a bad habit. I call EVERYONE either hun, touts, or babe. Anyways, a couple years could mean nothing. Times change, BABE.

[defjam_gangsta]

Greetings!!

oral is just an oral. nothin much unless da penis has penetrated thru da vagina and has broken ya hymen. now tat's losing ya virginity. still, dun go around havin oral sex. ya can get diseases too ya know. how would ya know da thing ya 'oral' wit is clean and hygenic?! play safe. not sorry.

CHEERS CB!!

[xquizit]

hmmm... if we go by this definition of sex: The sexual urge or instinct as it manifests itself in behavior.

does this mean you lose your virginity when you masturbate for the first time? or if you touch someone's genitals.

well, i dunno. in my opinion, you don't lose your virginity until you have sexual intercourse.

[*Fallen_Fairy*]

vaginally? yes
but I wouldnt call me self a virgin is i was reciev or giving oral sex

[capsule]

this is just my opinion (so dont start flamin), but i think oral sex = no more virginity. i've always believed that virginity isn't just "penetration"...you gotta stay pure. virginity = purity. any kind of sex (oral or not) is impure...so therefore, you lose your virginity. now...french kissing, is a whole different topic that i'm not gonna get into...but for now, lets just say its "the path to losing your virginity"....people who french kiss eventually have sex....95% of em

[naiverucee]

whats oral sex? ya i'm clueless

[WTFwasIthinking]

LMAO.... like head, blow job, suckin' the other sexes genitalia, brains

y'know

[Spirited Away]

And I know you were mocking me by calling me 'hun'. I didn't mean to previously type that. It's a bad habit. I call EVERYONE either hun, touts, or babe. Anyways, a couple years could mean nothing. Times change, BABE.

Well, I happen call people 'hun' by habit, too. How come that's okay for you to say, but when I say it, I'm 'mocking' you. That's a childish concept.

Couple of years? More like several years older, 'babe', if not by age, then by maturity in this instance.

Anyway, children shouldn't even be talking about sex if they haven't even taken sex ed.

And virginity has to do with your maidenhead being broken by a guy's penis. You're still 'virgin', albiet unpure, if you have oral sex because it has nothing to do with your maidenhead.

[waccoon]

oh cool! you`re korean. hi!!!

anyways...you`re saying that your parents don`t know what oral sex is..? what about asking your doctor about it? `cause my doctor asked me "did we have that sex talk?" i was like "nooooooooo...." but she just told me to go online on this website...but i totally forgot the name of the website..haha

well i just don`t see how your parents wouldn`t know about oral sex...or virginity and all that...i mean...how did they have you? LMFAO..

Even though they are nurses, you have to remember that they're your parents too. Kissing isn't a way to lose virginity, only a display of affection.

well i just don`t see how your parents wouldn`t know about oral sex...or virginity and all that...i mean...how did they have you? LMFAO..

You don't impregnate with oral sex.

[ichidou]

In my opinion, Oral sex means your still a virgin, becuase you have not had insertion yet.

However, you can still get STDs, and get yourself a bad reputaion.

[mouse_3k]

I know I'm young in making this decision. But who wants a dick in their mouth? Ick. You don't know where it's been. And think.. it's like drinking pi$$.

its most likly tht someone is doing it to their partner to please them. give them pleasure u know. damn, dont get mad at ppl who is just tryin to make their lover happy

[defjam_gangsta]

its most likly tht someone is doing it to their partner to please them. give them pleasure u know. damn, dont get mad at ppl who is just tryin to make their lover happy

Greetings!!

haha.. i like da way ya put it!!

CHEERS CB!!

[jarnifer]

i read all 4 pages of this thread...and i was wondering...so..

if only vaginal sex = lose virginity...then lesbians (no matter how many times they've had sex...haha) will be virgins forever?

Assuming that they never had sex with males