cheated, ... Options

[Boricuahh_Mamii]

yeah.. i cheated on ma bf wen i was away for vacation..but i really do love him an i dont wanna end it...it was a really big mistake buh i dont wanna tell him cuz that might end our relationship..but if i dont, imma b mad guilty cuz hes neva dun anything to hurt me..wah do i do??

[DrEaMgUy2K1]

as long as u know what u did was wrong, i dont think u should tell him, guys are fragile when it comes to this stuff so uh,just keep it to urself cuz im sure he wont take it well

[XaZnX07]

bye cheating what did you do with the other guy?




.:tony:.

[Boricuahh_Mamii]

makin out an gettn 2 hickeys..some ppl mite not think thas really serious, buh still..

[dani41790]

well idk wat u should do. if ur bf is realli understanding then i think u should tell him if not then mayb u shouldnt

[eli5e]

i wouldnt tell him if i were you.

[DrEaMgUy2K1]

or u can start a serious conversation then let it out..... like "hey baby you love me right? "yea" you know i love you right? "yea...." i gotta tell you something.... and let it out, first make sure he knows u love him

[xsweetdreams12x]

Tell him. I mean, if he cheated on you wouldn't you want to know?? If you really love him, you know that he doesn't deserve not to know.

[defjam_gangsta]

GREETINGS!!

reasons like dis tat's why we have skeletons inda closets. it's can either go right or just go wrong. ya in a dilemna. oh well, it's situations like dis whereby we pray we have da ability to have an option. to turn back da hands of time. 'moment of folly, lifetime of regret'. tell him if tat's da best ya heart and mind tells ya. it's gonna be tough but at least ya won't worry abt da 'cheating' part when ya wit him. coz da thought is gonna kill ya. sooner or laterz!! all da best aight?!

CHEERS CB!!

[islandkiss]

just keep in mind that what you did was wrong.. and that you'll never do it again.. don't tell him..

[inthemudhole]

That IS pretty serious in my opinion.

I think you should tell him.
That's the appropriate, thoughtful way of doing things.
If you don't it'll haunt you for a while, and you might just break down and tell him in a few months/weeks or whatever and then the situation might be worse.

[Rice_on_my_shoe]

I think u should tell him... If he So great.. he deserves to know....

InTheMudHole Posted on Jul 17 2004, 2:36 PM
  That IS pretty serious in my opinion.

I think you should tell him.
That's the appropriate, thoughtful way of doing things.
If you don't it'll haunt you for a while, and you might just break down and tell him in a few months/weeks or whatever and then the situation might be worse. 

yes brie i agree (heY that rhymes ahahahah)

[conster]

i think u should tell him, the problem is that u did somethin wrong.. not if u two gonna break up... yeah that may be the reason why he wants to end it but u should still tell him cuz jus imagine he finds out later... hes gonna break up wit u even worst - at least ur being honest

[Darkpekkle]

Although telling him has a high possibility of ending your current relationship, I think it is the right thing to do. Otherwise, the thought will just keep bothering you and make you feel guilty whenever you're with him. His trust in you will be broken, but perhaps you can gain it back over time.

If you had the ability to cheat, then you should also have the ability to take responsibility and face the consequences for what you did. hey, we're only human, and we all make mistakes sometimes... so hopefully, your bf can find it in his heart to forgive you... as long as he knows that you really do love him, then maybe things will work out.

take care~

[babieshortie]

i wouldnt tell hym
but at the same tyme ...the guilt will kinda get to me..

[always_n0vember]

If you really did love him then you wouldnt have cheated on him. If you really did love him you would have been thinkin about him first before makin out with someone and getting two hickeys. Some people might not think that, doing that is cheating but.. in reality its wrong.. and you shouldnt keep this situation a secret... its not fair to him...

[lilconfusedbabii...]

just keep in mind that what you did was wrong.. and that you'll never do it again.. don't tell him..

i agree. lol just to be on the safe side..

[Foolish Heart]

FIRST: WHY DID YOU DO IT?? DID YOU EVER THINK OF HIM WHEN U CHEATED ON HIM?? IF YOU LOVE HIM THEN WHY DID YOU CHEAT ON HIM??

SECOND: WHEN YOU TELL HIM..MAKE SURE YOU TELL HIM EVERYTHING SO THAT YOU WONT FEEL GUILTY INSIDE ANYMORE..BUT IM SURE HIS PROBABLY HURT..

[nyCzxfOx]

reminds me of the song confessions part 2.. mm.. i was in this situation once cept i was ta one cheated on.. i forgave him because he did alot of really nice things that like... was worth forgiving him.. but then i did lose alot of trust in him.. but then once i did cheat on someone.. for revenge because he slept with another girl.. then when he saw the other guy and me together i was "... we're over .." now i feel.. guilty for doing that..

[sammi rules you]

you should tell him. he doesn't deserve not to know that you've cheated on him. it may end up in a breakup, but that'll teach you a lesson not to do it again. you know what you did was wrong, and youve gotta 'fess up. it's only fair to him.

also...
stop tawkin lyk thiz cause its annoyin.

sorry i point that out every time i reply to a topic where the topic starter is talking like that. it annoys the hell outta me.

[waccoon]

FIRST: WHY DID YOU DO IT?? DID YOU EVER THINK OF HIM WHEN U CHEATED ON HIM?? IF YOU LOVE HIM THEN WHY DID YOU CHEAT ON HIM??

SECOND: WHEN YOU TELL HIM..MAKE SURE YOU TELL HIM EVERYTHING SO THAT YOU WONT FEEL GUILTY INSIDE ANYMORE..BUT IM SURE HIS PROBABLY HURT..

Calm down, everybody makes mistakes. Who wouldn't be hurt when they find out their other is cheating on them? Eh, I remember when Sammi *points up* thought I was cheating on her.

[mistahpho]

i dont think you should,u'll hurt him

[whywasisostupid]

i wouldnt tell him if i were you.

heh... well, if ur gona feel realy guitly about it later, u shuld bring it to him slowly, but make sure u tell him u still luv him... sry if im no help

[LoST SouL]

dont tell him u kno its rong n tass all u need 2 kno.. if nethin tell him a "white lie".. like part of it n tell him u relly relly lobe him n tat ur xtra sorry

[x0143637x0]

if you tell him things are going to be different and maybe you two wont be close anymore. i kno it feels guilty hiding it from him but you wouldnt want to mess anything up.