Do you still think about your first love.., Is it wrong too.. |
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 Jul 7 2004, 02:26 PM
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 Look its...  Group: Official Member Posts: 5,817 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,767  |
its not worng to still think about him but its cute. also rember that is over and youhave to move on. cuz then you will be hurting yourself
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Jul 7 2004, 09:42 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
I think about him everyday....then again I am still with him haha
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Jul 9 2004, 07:51 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 1 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,738 |
 I can totally relate to how you're feeling. From a girl's point of view that is. You see, last year I went to Catholic School and met this really nice, hot, funny guy and we became friends. I'd always liked him more than a friend but never told him. I loved the friendship I had with him I'm not the closest with most guys as friends. But anyway, after he got to know me and stuff like that he started to like me too. He gave me his phone number and address and stuff like that vise versa. But then I broke up with him about after a day. Things were just too intense. Too fast for me. He was my first boyfriend. After I broke up with him he moved schools..just my luck. I never got to tell him sorry, I lied to him twice, and broke his heart. Now I called him two days ago and he still sounded mad at me even when I worked my butt off trying to find his phone number after I ripped it up and cried when we broke up. I just can't call him back, I'm afraid he's still hurt and will hurt me, emotionally. I have so much bottled up inside of me right now it's hard to think about anything, including him. But lately, he keeps wandering back to my mind, to my heart. I keep contemplating what would've happened if we wouldn't of broken up, he wouldn't of moved schools, we would've been friends. I can still see myself with him I'm just not sure if we're friends or a couple. I need to know. I just can't bring myself to call him back like I said two days ago. Maybe I'm scared of heart break. But then I realize I did that to him over a year ago. I want to tell him I'm sorry. I love him. I want him back in my life.Will you give me advice? You're a guy...I need a guy's point of view on my situation.  Look at my xanga and leave a comment telling me what I should do. I'm really clueless and desperate right now. Do you think he's thinking about me now that I called him? Do you think he's thought of me at all after last year? Do you think he still likes me? Do you think we could re-build our friendship? Do you think he could ever want to be with me like that again? His name's Harley, my name's LaToya. <3 HELP!  My xanga's http://www.xanga.com/Secrets_Leftover please help. |
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Jul 13 2004, 03:42 PM
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nope it's not wrong to because i think about my first love a lot and it's just something you'll never forget. it's part of you.. and not everyone ends up with their first love. even though mine was a complete asssssshole jerk. i still got love for him =) . maYbe not in love but yeah. don't feel bad for what you feeeeel.!
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Jul 13 2004, 03:55 PM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
yea i use to always think about her,but recently i told her ima have to stop talking to her and stuff cuz i'de get mix feelings about her while im with other people, it sucked but i feel better in a way.
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Jul 13 2004, 10:56 PM
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yes..i still think of him but that's because i still regret the things i did for him n all da crap he put meh through n at da same time glad dat i dont have him nemore.
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Jul 14 2004, 09:17 AM
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 I can't believe its not "Ryan" Group: Member Posts: 1,981 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,368 |
Man never knew there were so many people that were in the same situation as me! Now I know that Im not alone...thanks for the support everyone...
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Jul 14 2004, 11:57 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,564 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,336 |
[COLOR=blue]i still think about my first love en it aint wrong to
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Jul 14 2004, 12:33 PM
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 WUT THA DUCK? Group: Member Posts: 3,950 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,138 |
well actually... my first love was my recent ex... he was the best out of all my boyfriends.. i loved everything about him.. and he taught me alot.. i will always remember the times he helped me out.. his paient ways, and that caring tone he had... and wow now i miss him alot!!
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Jul 14 2004, 01:00 PM
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 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
its okay to dink about them.. since dey did make a diff in ur life rite?
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Jul 14 2004, 02:48 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,051 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,264 |
It's not wrong to think about your first love. I mean, he/she was the first time you felt strongly about somebody.
I've never been in love, so... yeah. 
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Jul 14 2004, 08:44 PM
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i never had a first love.. but i had this boy i really liked. we never went out.. but months after we stopped talkinq we told each other we used to like each other. now we're not even friends. i really miss him
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Jul 14 2004, 09:06 PM
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 he`z gOt my heart*<3`o2.18.o1` Group: Member Posts: 1,662 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,338 |
my first true love is the one that i'm still with .. so yes i still think about him<3 ;]
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Jul 15 2004, 11:47 PM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 17 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,110 |
Well I only loved the guy i am with now cuz well my first b/f tryed to beat me he cheated on me 3 or 4 times and he tryed to rape me which he didnt cuz i am still a virgin and i didnt let him cuz you have to give it up to the right guy and i knew he was not but I have the gratest guy in the world named Andrew he is sweet and he always there for me well most of the time he wont cheat or rape me he wont hit me either i think this one might be the one but the answer on the first love thing I never had one till now and im still with him so I think about Andrew all the time....
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Jul 16 2004, 10:17 PM
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i know i do, wq were best friends, and we talked about everything! he meant soo much to me...
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Jul 17 2004, 07:42 AM
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 DefJam Gangsta Inc Group: Member Posts: 914 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,652 |
GREETINGS!!
it's normal. coz tat's wat feelings all abt. yeah, i did think abt ma x-boo. she was amazing. but it's just those one -off kinda incidents. CHEERS CB!! |
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Aug 7 2004, 11:44 AM
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 fREsh from HK Group: Member Posts: 62 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,649 |
only every night i never got over.. that person .... i still miss him a whole lot... but now i gots myself a gurl sweet as can be.... but i still think about.. that person.... sorry cought up talkin bout this.... i miss that person sooooooo much... |
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Aug 7 2004, 11:49 AM
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 Dreaming of You... Group: Member Posts: 508 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,205 |
no i dont think about my first love.  i have better things to think about. but in your case, ehh.... if you still talk to her and such, i dont see whats wrong. try hooking up with her again if you really want to. btw, thats a sad signature, man!... ingat ka!! |
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Aug 7 2004, 01:15 PM
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 vertically challenged Group: Member Posts: 181 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 36,342 |
Well Im not sure if it was my first LOVE, but my first relationship, yes. And i don't think it's wrong to ever think about your ex's. I mean, somewhere deep inside, a part of you will always be with them and will always love them, but you're not IN LOVE with them so it's not wrong. Ah.. my first relationship, still wondering if I should get baq with him
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Aug 8 2004, 03:18 AM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 4 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,101 |
course its okay... when you are in love.... it never fades. no matter what happens. dont feel bad... its okies.. =]
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Aug 8 2004, 09:07 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 72 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,803 |
of course I do, they are the people you first were completely true with and had no walls with. They are going to stay with you forever, but that doesnt mean you still like them or anything. But it isn't wrong.
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Aug 8 2004, 09:30 AM
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 Word. Group: Member Posts: 3,004 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,673 |
i think about her once in a while but not alot... its not wrong.
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Aug 8 2004, 03:12 PM
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 Ms.LuLa! Group: Member Posts: 20 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,759 |
Girls always want what the can't have... in other words..yeah I do and sometimes it hurts like hell..
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Aug 8 2004, 06:41 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 39 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,286 |
u should nevr forget ur first luv....cuz it's special
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Aug 8 2004, 06:44 PM
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 WWMD?! - i am from the age of BM 2 Group: Member Posts: 5,308 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,848 |
i think everyone does. i hate it when i do though; it ended badly. but, when i do, i just flush him out of my mind with my current one.
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