Methods to attract that special someone, this is pretty sad.. -_-] |
 Jul 14 2004, 11:22 PM
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 smiling hurts  Group: Member Posts: 480 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,630  |
lately ive been having trouble with girls and it seems my approach is horribly off. What is the best way to attract that special someone??? Can someone actually give me methods that have had some experiance?
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Jul 15 2004, 10:17 PM
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 One who loves from afar Group: Member Posts: 9 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,887 |
depends on the girl really. if shes a quiet one it'll be a little harder for you to talk to her. cause like most guys, they're speechless with the ones they love.
just break the ice, thats what i do. If you dont know her at all thats all you gotta do. If you've known her for a while, just be a better friend to her. pretty much, be nice, funny, caring, and thoughtful. DONT be cocky, DONT try and gain attention by doing crazy stunts, DONT act all tough, DONT be shy. well, thats all teh words of wisdom i can give |
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Jul 15 2004, 11:39 PM
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 NO WAI! R u Srs? Group: Member Posts: 1,264 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,094 |
I'll let you in on a little secret. I call these The 10 Steps To Success. But make sure you do not tell anyone. If you do, i will be forced to kill you. Lol... j/k but here are 10 things that always work out for me.
1. Most important, be yourself. 2. Act cool 3. Don't be too macho 4. Listen 5. Don't get desperate (write love letters, poems, and etc.) 6. Get to know her and vice versa. 7. Find out what you two have in common and concentrate on that. 8. No Stalking 9. Make her laugh (but no gross humor) 10. Praying doesn't hurt.  LoL j/k Just ask her out like it's no big deal. If she doesnt want to then too bad for her.If all else fails... stalk her  j/k. Anyways if she doesnt want to go out with you or w/e then why waste your time on her? 
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Jul 16 2004, 01:52 AM
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 Mr.Snuffles Group: Member Posts: 243 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,788 |
just be urself and let them come to u! umm...dunno really...if that doesnt work try blakmailin or bribe them with money
 
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Jul 16 2004, 12:14 PM
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 KUNG FU/JEDI MASTER Group: Member Posts: 354 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,433 |
QUOTE(kriziaandrei2 @ Jul 15 2004, 4:48 PM) be who you are.... if you pretend to be somebody then a girl likes you for it, it wouldn't be really worth it since you wouldn't be yourself around her. relationships should make you fell comfortable around somebody that you like alot. kris yes I agree |
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Jul 16 2004, 01:51 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,628 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,359 |
QUOTE(lilangelgurlpnai @ Jul 15 2004, 1:18 AM)  Aww, that's so true, Jamie!Hehe, I have learned my lesson in the past |
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Jul 16 2004, 04:23 PM
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grrowl Group: Member Posts: 393 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,727 |
oh yea, dont be needy :O girls just gets sick of you
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Jul 17 2004, 04:18 AM
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 I'd surf if I couldn't bodyboard. Group: Member Posts: 62 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,817 |
'ey, just be yourself & try not to be so uptight if your gonna talk to her;
& abs dont hurt, dont be macho though.. thats kinda dick like.. try singing to her, or writing her a poem, i like when my BF does that.. or, be sweet/random.. like say your beautiful to her, & while shes tryin to respond to you, steal a kiss from her, or kiss her on the cheek.. i think thats sweet & you'd get me if you did that.. haha, booty comments dont always work on girls..=P <3 DAvE & sorry for posting in the guys locker, the subject was on the NEW TOPICS thing am i welcome here? =/ |
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Jul 17 2004, 06:11 AM
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 rawr Group: Member Posts: 906 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 26,961 |
QUOTE(chinkieeyedpnoi @ Jul 15 2004, 1:06 AM) < you > y hallo thar buttseckz? LOLOL < her > omghi2u < you > kekeke It works everytime, dude. And you gotta trust me on this. - Chinkieeyedpnoi Tales for the 1337 Just be yourself. If she doesnt like you for who you are, then it wont work out. |
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Jul 17 2004, 08:23 AM
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 ^ moo... Group: Member Posts: 962 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,212 |
2questions.. are u askin her out for her luks? do u kno about her at all?
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Jul 17 2004, 06:12 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,343 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,767 |
i think you should make witty comments... just not mean ones. sarcasm and humor is key to attracting a girl as long as you don't offend her in any way shape or form. in addition, shower her with compliments as much as possible, talk to her as much as possible (don't worry about being annoying). make it clear that you want to hang out with her more and when you talk about your futures somehow include her in yours. when she asks for advice, actually listen and give her your honest opinion (DON'T under any circumstance say "i don't know" or "how am i supposed to know"). if she doesn't ask for advice and you know she's upset about something you could ask her if anything is wrong and tell her you're always tehre to listen if she wants to talk or just tell her she can let out her anger on you. don't be fake, don't lie about her to your friends, let people know you're crazy about her. also don't act differently when you're with your boys. girls absolutely positively hateeee that.
do all of those things, and she's good as yours. |
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Jul 17 2004, 08:36 PM
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 it's our chemistry Group: Member Posts: 1,151 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,775 |
Whatever you do, suck in your ego! Don't try to be all cool and macho and badass because it's NOT GONNA WORK. Sorry, just feel strongly about that. Be NICE. Us girls hate those wanna-be-macho pervs who are rude. Be sweet and be yourself. ^_^
Friendly and outgoing is always a good thing. |
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