need some help Options

[catcherman16]

well my ex gf and i had been going out for almost a year and her ex bf came over to help her study for a test... (i wasn't there) i dunno why she didn't have me helpe her study but.... ne way... they studied for liek 3 horus then watched a movie and they jsut stared at eachother and told eachother they loved eachother... (she told me this) and then after the movie he was getting ready to leave and on "accident" they kissed... and well this is the 3rd time she cheate on me.. and it made me so mad.. after beeting the living hell out of the guy and then 5 days oss i came back to school... and it was wierd... but ne way long story short it has been about 3 months almost and im still not over her.. and i need help to get over her.. so what would u guys suggest?
thanks

[*CEP*]

Dude, she cheated on you three times! How can you NOT get over her? If I were you, I'd go up to her, give her a long kiss and say " F*ck you h*e I don't want you nomore. " Or something like that.
She's a slut, she doesnt deserve this kind of attention from ANYONE.

- Chinkieeyedpnoi

[melface]

She isn't a slut.... but she doesn't deserve a guy like you... I mean you obviously were really close to her, and really cared about her... but it's normal that you still like her, right? you went out for nearly a year or maybe even a year (i don't remember and i'm too lazy to scroll down).... but yeah, you can try looking for another girl to take her spot... I just think your ex is really inconsiderate.. apparently, she never got over her boyfriend that she had before you and that's not right... and it's really messed up she hangs out with the guy for a couple of hours after what? a year or more... and then she automatically is so in love with him again... err... okay so anyway... Yeah, look for another girl that's better than her... a girl that knows who she wants to be with, ya know? be sure you know the girl well, though....

[thisisallme]

I have been there... It took me a long time to get over my ex too, even though he cheated on my numerous times. And I know that this is something that you have probably heard before and you may not be able to [or want to] realize it, but these things and feelings you have right noe can't be 'fixed' by just doing something, you can only give them time and eventually, even though it feels like it may never happen, you will be over her. Until then, you are just going to have to try to not focus on her at all. It's a hard thing to do, becasue I'm sure when you think about her you aren't just thinking about the cheating you're thinking about some of the good times yous had, and it's okay to be thinking about all of that, but try to keep it in the context of what you guys had, not what you wish it could be. Hope that helps you a little

[SpencWoop95]

What they say is right

[princess_tracy]

FORGET HER u can do better

[xjjajeengx]

man... that really sucks!! but you deserve better... i mean... as a gurl saying this, WHAT A *****! she loves him like that? dude, that means shes not the one for you. just wait a bit... your dream gurl will come along you noe? cause like... dass just so messed up. MY @$$ they accidentally kissed...

aww... cheer up!

[aud_chua]

she cheated on you 3 times.. woah.. i'd be mad as hell at her..
it's really a drag.. but uhm.. just try to move on.. go out with other girls.. then party! hehe... that's what got my mind off my ex.. friggin' a$$hole.. he was cheatin' on me and it was my friend who told me about it!! *rage* whoops.. sorry for the side-track...
anyway.. cheer up... don't think about her.. party, drink (if you're of age), go out with other girl friends.. keep yourself occupied.. yup.. that's it.. hehehe.....
there are better people out there for you! ^_^

[ana8]

Just try to start a new hobby or sth..just don't think bout her...

[NvieDi3ai3yGrL]

well my ex gf and i had been going out for almost a year and her ex bf came over to help her study for a test... (i wasn't there) i dunno why she didn't have me helpe her study but.... ne way... they studied for liek 3 horus then watched a movie and they jsut stared at eachother and told eachother they loved eachother... (she told me this) and then after the movie he was getting ready to leave and on "accident" they kissed... and well this is the 3rd time she cheate on me.. and it made me so mad.. after beeting the living hell out of the guy and then 5 days oss i came back to school... and it was wierd... but ne way long story short it has been about 3 months almost and im still not over her.. and i need help to get over her.. so what would u guys suggest?
thanks

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