heart broken..., help me deal with it... Options

[truluvis4eva]

my life is a total mess rite now.... i know its kinda stpid to cry and pout endlessly over boys, but i am raelly heartbroke rite now. i liked, actually thought i luved, this really cute boy. and he always acted like so swet, like listened to my family problems or frend problems and he always calledme and was SUCH a great frend(i was fiting with my bestfrend at that time) and then he had like this movie nite thing and inviited like only 3 other people that included me *YAY* and then... he told me he had to talk to me and stuffies so i got kinda excited, and then he told me he wanted to ask out my best frend (the one i was fiting with* and so i got like heartbroken and I'm really srry if this is a stupid topic, but can neone help me deal with it?

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[lemonlina]

awwww, it's not stupid. it happens a lot! ok, so here's what you do. you treat yourself to something you love, like shopping at your fave mall. then the whole time you think "omfg, what a jerk. i deserve someone better than him and it's HIM that's missing out." i dunno, worked for me. but i hope things get better. =[

[h22fanatik]

aww it's okay, guys are jerks...u gotta realize that. i agree u should definitely do something nice for urself and try not to let this whole situation get to u. cheer up babe =)

[xsweetdreams12x]

Aww it's not stupid. Don't worry, there are other guys out there. Or if it doesn't work out with this guy and your best friend, maybe you can tell him how you feel.

[cutielilsuga]

this topic isn't stupid
i think you should go shopping..cuz that will cheer any girl up
and also no worry about him...someone will come along when you at least expect it to happen in your life

SO SMILE..SMILE AND BE HAPPY

[truluvis4eva]

thanx..i was afraid peoplewuld b like uhh.. everyone get heartbrokem=n, this is a stupid topic, go away

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[DrEaMgUy2K1]

do something u like or meet someone new,maybe tell him how u feel.... your probally gonna still think about him when ur out and stuff,but its better than sitting at ur house just being miserable

[islandkiss]

hey.. there's my avatar..

aww. feel better.. "there are plenty of fishes in the sea". you'll find somebody who's perfect for you.

[shawty_redd]

this isn't stupid.

talk to you girlfriends. they know you best. talking about what you feel is better than leaving it bottled up inside.

[Darkpekkle]

eek, i hope you feel better

maybe one day he'll realize that he doesn't like your friend as much as he thought he did... i mean... YOU'RE the one that's always there for him and always hanging out with him... not your friend (right?) so if he doesn't see that, then he's missing out.

take care~

[defjam_gangsta]

Greetings!!

ouch!! it must have hurt rite?! well, i won't sweet talk or anything. guess ya just gotta accept da fact. it's all part of ya growin up. relationship. breakup. heartbreaks. when ya get older, ya will laugh yaself off thinking abt how things were like when ya younger. trust me. coz i've been thru it before. will do aight?!

CHEERS CB!!

[sunni_banana]

awww no worries i know how it must hurt to have it said straight up, just try to cheer up and i guess forget about him! and a ton of guys will come and go but there will be that one who captures your heart forever so don't worry about it!

[sweetdreamsx3]

Well, I had this SORT OF. I just started being more involved with the community, hanging out with friends whenever I can. ANYTHING to get my mind off of him and I moved on.. Hope things get better for you. I hate it when guys get closer to you just to get closer to someone...Maybe your best friend knows you like him and she won't get with him...(even though you guys are fighting) but there's still a reason she's your best friend.