sex (13++), im really curious.. Options

[tsohg]

It's more that people have a tendency to make excuses for themselves so they don't feel as bad about something. So they make excuses and say oral sex doesn't take away their virginity because they wanna seem pure.... but technically, you're not

so most of the people that say oral sex isnt really sex have probably had sex?

[WTFwasIthinking]

oral sex is sex.... see, oral SEX!?!?!?

that should end it there but people try to bring every angle of excuses that they can possibly bring.... but oral sex is sex....

[pikimoo]

It did happened And I'm still a virgin, thank you very much.

As you know, accidents happen and I happen to brush at it because he ran into me. I "came in contact" with it, but I had no sexual thoughts.



He wasn't naked.

Touching his pants/boxers doesnt count

[tsohg]

?!?!?! are we arguing that the accidental touch of genitals makes you become a non-vigin?! becuase its happened many times to me and i dont think that this is an issue

[WTFwasIthinking]

?!?!?! are we arguing that the accidental touch of genitals makes you become a non-vigin?! becuase its happened many times to me and i dont think that this is an issue

you sure it was an accident?

LMAO... j/k

[I_LiKe_PiRaTeZ]

gosh....wtf!? don`t your parents tell you ANYTHING?!

what about at school?! the freakin` teachers?!

the ways of LOSING YOUR VIRGINITY are..

1] kissing
2] oral sex
3] sex 

I ASKED MY MOM! SO HA! and she`s a nurse. 

PEOPLE! IT`S NOT WEIRD TO ASK ADULTS! gosh...people these days..

uh.. dude .. your mom is sooo F*****G wrong, the only way that you are not a virgin is if the beef is inserted in the taco.. thats the only way..

<3 KT

[tsohg]

the ways of LOSING YOUR VIRGINITY are..

1] kissing
2] oral sex
3] sex

No, i think in a sense she is right. If your talking about whole pureness then any of those things will make you lose you who pureness.

[inthemudhole]

you lose your viginity if the penis goes in the vagina.
there you go.
thats the only way to lose it.
in kristins opinion.

Yeah. I agree with Kristin on that one.

[Spirited Away]

Touching his pants/boxers doesnt count

Did I say that I touched his pants?

No, I said that my hands brushed his private part, which meant that my hand came in contact (indirectly) with what's under his pants.

There could be instances where a couple wanted to have sex and got naked, start touching each other, then decides against doing it. They are still virgins.

[pikimoo]

Did I say that I touched his pants?

No, I said that my hands brushed his private part, which meant that my hand came in contact (indirectly) with what's under his pants.

There could be instances where a couple wanted to have sex and got naked, start touching each other, then decides against doing it. They are still virgins.

That's an odd thing to happen, but whatever.

This is just what I've read from various places and whatnot.

I'm stopping this convo.

Now.

[sandra]

im confuzzled now >< i always thought u only loose ur virginity in sex but oral too??!

[mouse_3k]

Of course not...

You're not a virgin.

It's stated in books. Like mentioned above, oral SEX.

=P

Once you have sex-->BOOM you lose your virginity.

Thank you.

wow, its ALSO stated in books, u lose ur virginity once the penis enters the vagina gosh..

also, even though its oral sex or anal sex, so wht if ur not pure NE more. then your a un-pure virgin. so what..

as i said before...ur only losing your ONE and ONLY virginity when the penis enters the vagina...its not like ppl have like 3 virginity for oral, anal, and normal damn..ONE virginity. and tht virginity is for the penis to go into the vagina. if tht dont happen, your still a virgin.

[WTFwasIthinking]

wow, its ALSO stated in books, u lose ur virginity once the penis enters the vagina gosh..

also, even though its oral sex or anal sex, so wht if ur not pure NE more. then your a un-pure virgin. so what..

as i said before...ur only losing your ONE and ONLY virginity when the penis enters the vagina...its not like ppl have like 3 virginity for oral, anal, and normal damn..ONE virginity. and tht virginity is for the penis to go into the vagina. if tht dont happen, your still a virgin.

nope, not true...

part of virginity is purity.... that's essentially what the definition came from..... PURITY....

DEFINITION OF VIRGINITY:
vir·gin·i·ty ( P ) Pronunciation Key (vr-jn-t)
n. pl. vir·gin·i·ties
The quality or condition of being a virgin.
The state of being pure, unsullied, or untouched.

[mouse_3k]

as i said before its NOT about purity. jeez, its like saying if u watched porn, ur not pure omg u watched porn, ur not a virgin no more. Its like OMG he/she masterbated, shes not pure, shes not a virgin no more. omg the boy touched the girls breast, he aint pure no more. hes not a virgin. all this stupid stuff, ur not pure which means your not a virgin is wrong. comeon now. you are still a virgin until the penis goes into the vagina. tht simple. u said if you have like a sexual experiance, then ur not a virgin no more yes? well wht if the boy just touched the girls breast? wht if the girl just touches the boy private parts? thts not pure so does tht mean they are not virgins no more? they still are until the vagina and penis makes contact...how many times do i have to say tht..

[xHalf nHalf]

well either way, oral or the old fashioned way you can still receive/send your partner an STD. and what does that stand for kiddos? sexually transmitted disease..so to me, having oral sex for the first time is a way to lose the V card just a much as the other way

[WTFwasIthinking]

as i said before its NOT about purity. jeez, its like saying if u watched porn, ur not pure omg u watched porn, ur not a virgin no more. Its like OMG he/she masterbated, shes not pure, shes not a virgin no more. omg the boy touched the girls breast, he aint pure no more. hes not a virgin. all this stupid stuff, ur not pure which means your not a virgin is wrong. comeon now. you are still a virgin until the penis goes into the vagina. tht simple. u said if you have like a sexual experiance, then ur not a virgin no more yes? well wht if the boy just touched the girls breast? wht if the girl just touches the boy private parts? thts not pure so does tht mean they are not virgins no more? they still are until the vagina and penis makes contact...how many times do i have to say tht..

well if you wanna go bible standard it isn't pure to watch porn....

if you go bible standards, none of us are virgins cuz we all sinners and thinkin'/lustin' about another women/man kills the purity and technically you're not longer pure.... it also says masturbation is not pure....

no, I ain't a church boy (I'm the complete opposite) but I'm not in denial.... stop tryn' make excuses.... so you're tellin' me oral sex IS PURE?!?!?!? it either is or isn't... and it isn't.... CLEARLY

and if the girl touches the boy's private parts sexually and intentionally and with the correct motives, that isn't pure unless ya'll married..... I'm not sayin' I'm pure in every outright way but I seriously don't mess around with girls like that.... I'm not plannin' to until I'm 100% sure I'm with the girl I wanna be with... making out bein' the exception....

well regardless, it ain't pure at all... as I said, as yourself all those things in another aspect... you say isn't unpure... so IS IT PURE?!?!?! no, so c'mon...

it's still SEX... and regardless, watching porn is NOT SEX.... yes, that is unpure but oral SEX is still oral SEX + IT IS UNPURE = no longer a virgin if you took part in it

stop makin' excuses

[xpinkiexswearx]

kissing is not loosing your virginity..neither is oral sex. cuz you dont say oh i lost my virginity to this guy cuz i made out with him or i gave a guy a BJ.
'There is a lot of pressure to lose your virginity - that is, to have sexual intercourse for the first time. ' oh well i don`t have to think about things like tht yet

[mouse_3k]

no, I ain't a church boy (I'm the complete opposite) but I'm not in denial.... stop tryn' make excuses.... so you're tellin' me oral sex IS PURE?!?!?!? it either is or isn't... and it isn't.... CLEARLY

ok
#1 im NOT in denial
#2 It isnt a excuse
and idk to u, but to me, oral sex is more pure then normal sex

well to me, you are a virgin unless you have sex. normal sex so im not making excuses. its just my beliefe. sorry if u are against it but w/e. i grew up being told this from parents, teachers, books, and everything else and i will continue to believe it.

yes, that is unpure but oral SEX is still oral SEX + IT IS UNPURE = no longer a virgin if you took part in it

just because it has the word *sex* in it, dont mean its actual sex. idk about u. but the word SEX to me, it penis in vagina and i will continue to believe tht but w/e. u believe what u wanna believe and ill believe wht i wanna believe

[WTFwasIthinking]

no oral sex is losing your virginity.....

virginity is purity in a sexual nature.... you're partaking in oral SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX...... damn, I gotta reiterate myself a million times don't I? His genitalia is touching you're body and you are as one at a certain point or time.... you become one body (metaphorically as people say).... his d*ck's in the mouth and it connects... right? strange as it seems, that's no different from it goin' in the vagina other than you can't make a baby that way... but it's just as unpure IF YOU'RE NOT MARRIED

regardless, iss not pure and it's oral sex, sex, sex, sex, sex

okay? get it? DAYUMMM.........

just because it has the word *sex* in it, dont mean its actual sex. idk about u. but the word SEX to me, it penis in vagina and i will continue to believe tht but w/e. u believe what u wanna believe and ill believe wht i wanna believe

AND ONCE AGAIN!!! LoL

SEX: The sexual urge or instinct as it manifests itself in behavior.

that's from dictionary.com ......

translation of that: any action from the results of a sexual urge.... umm... oral and anal sex count....

[mouse_3k]

i don care...my mind is still set on ur still a virgin unless you have actual sex...sry

[WTFwasIthinking]

LoL... iss all good....

dass dope, you're black and asian mixed? dass some dope sh*t anyway... aright, well I'm done with this thread...

I'm out...
PayCe ~1~

[mouse_3k]

LoL... iss all good....

dass dope, you're black and asian mixed? dass some dope sh*t anyway... aright, well I'm done with this thread...

I'm out...
PayCe ~1~

lol ya im blck n krn. i guess its cool...besides the fact everyone things im spanish lol but ya..i think im done wit this thread so w.e. pc ez

hopefully ppl wont flame at me for my strong beliefs..

[LiNHy POO]

oral... yehh you are still a virgin i think!!! i mean you have to do the real thing!! then you're not a virgin!!

[SupraS15]

Nah... losing your virginity is only when one person's "thing" goes inside a chick's "thing." That's what i think... and also... how come you peeps only talk about girls doing oral sex? Chicks can get it too... haha.

[Spirited Away]

That's an odd thing to happen, but whatever.

This is just what I've read from various places and whatnot.

I'm stopping this convo.

Now.

Uh, okay, like I have to do what you tell me...

But what you read is one thing, what facts are is another thing. I mean, though I agree with some of what you say, there are exceptions.