HE's Distant.., ..What should i do |
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 Jul 15 2004, 02:11 AM
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 I'd surf if I couldn't bodyboard.  Group: Member Posts: 62 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,817  |
.. my boyfriend seems really distant lately..
i dunno why.. i dont think i said anything offending to him, he spends alot of time away from me now, our calls are further apart.. and we talk less.. & recently he got suspended from his job for supposedly shoplifting in his store.. i know he wouldnt do that.. have i done something wrong? what should i do? </3 Katie |
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Jul 15 2004, 05:13 AM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
maybe fustration , iono more details on the situation o_O?
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Jul 15 2004, 08:15 AM
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he seems to be going through a lot right now. some ppl just need their space.
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Jul 15 2004, 09:45 AM
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yeah, maybe you should give him some space, maybe he needs time to think something through. i would give it a little time. i hope there isn't anything to worry about...good luck though.
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Jul 15 2004, 10:10 AM
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 Kermit the frog = <3 Group: Member Posts: 2,315 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,215 |
well. you have to talk to him abt how you feel in order to work your relationship out.
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Jul 15 2004, 10:51 AM
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QUOTE(h22fanatik @ Jul 15 2004, 9:15 AM) he seems to be going through a lot right now. some ppl just need their space. agree buh u should realiee talk to him. |
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Jul 15 2004, 10:56 AM
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 hi Group: Member Posts: 128 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,306 |
QUOTE(h22fanatik @ Jul 15 2004, 6:15 AM) he seems to be going through a lot right now. some ppl just need their space. agree, mayb he's facing very diffucult times, give him some time and space, and then ask... |
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Jul 15 2004, 12:05 PM
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questions make me blue. Group: Member Posts: 2,608 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,796 |
QUOTE(JrockDollie @ Jul 15 2004, 9:45 AM) yeah, maybe you should give him some space, maybe he needs time to think something through. i would give it a little time. i hope there isn't anything to worry about...good luck though. well you can`t COMPLETELY leave him alone to get over what he`s going through.. SUPPORT HIM DAMMIT!! ask him what he`s feeling about all this commotion and tell him that you`ll always be there for him, okay? BE the girlfriend he always wanted. 
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Jul 15 2004, 12:39 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,412 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,012 |
shoplifting..?
maybe hes doing drugs. haha JK. but if hes becoming more agressive and.... stuff like that, i think you should keep away from him. otherwise, support him! |
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Jul 15 2004, 02:02 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
i agree- maybe he needs space- but you also need to talk to him...
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Jul 15 2004, 05:15 PM
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 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
mayb he needs his space but he cant just neglect you like dat. u guys should talk and listen to wut each other gotta say .
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Jul 15 2004, 06:02 PM
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F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
tell him that ur worried about him and ask him wuts really going on.....
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Jul 15 2004, 06:26 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
You should give him some space, yet talk to him when he needs it.
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Jul 15 2004, 06:55 PM
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aBABYmomma Group: Member Posts: 82 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,380 |
QUOTE(h22fanatik @ Jul 15 2004, 8:15 AM) he seems to be going through a lot right now. some ppl just need their space. I agree.. All you have to do is tell him that you are there for him and that you are being supportive. He should talk to you when he feels comfortable.. Just keep reminding him your there to talk to!!!... |
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Jul 15 2004, 08:21 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 286 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,508 |
It seems like he's going through some troubling times. Try asking him if there's anything wrong or if there's anything he wants to talk about. If he saids no, then don't press him- give him his own personal space to think about whatever's going through his mind, but be sure to tell him that... you will always be there to listen whenever he's ready to tell you.
 In the meanwhile, show your support- go give him a hug or something.
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Jul 15 2004, 08:53 PM
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He may be depressed and not wanna talk to anybody, not even his girlfriend.
But does he talk to other people, and shun only you?? Try confronting the situation with him. He may tell you his side of the story on why he's being so distant. |
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Jul 15 2004, 09:40 PM
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 fragile Group: Member Posts: 1,044 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,807 |
give him some space
and den try to talk to him after a little while |
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Jul 17 2004, 08:54 AM
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 DefJam Gangsta Inc Group: Member Posts: 914 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,652 |
GREETINGS!!
he is goin thru his period. serious. guys do have issues and sometimes we handle it in such pecualiar manner. just give him space and do tell him ya love him despite all. let him know ya there for him. just dun crack a guys' fragile ego!! it's hurts us too ya know!!  CHEERS CB!! |
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