sex (13++), im really curious.. Options

[hybrid]

Er, there's two opinions on this.. I'm not taking one side, but I'm more leanient to no.

you are losing your virginity... and you're purity if you wanna go bible standard... on the real tip, dass losin' your virginity..... is like sayin', you get anal and is that losing your virginity? iss not goin' in the vagina so??? c'mon, get real

^^ but that is true.

[*krnxswat*]

vir·gin·i·ty ( P )

The quality or condition of being a virgin.

which would then lead to..

vir·gin ( P )
n.
A person who has not experienced sexual intercourse.

dictinary.com

[hybrid]

vir·gin ( P )
n.
A person who has not experienced sexual intercourse.

dictinary.com

So.. that means no, right?

[*krnxswat*]

So.. that means no, right?

But that's talking about sexual intercourse, and the person who created this thread is talking about oral sex. So wouldn't you still be a virgin according to the dictionary?

[WTFwasIthinking]

sex (sks)
n.

The property or quality by which organisms are classified as female or male on the basis of their reproductive organs and functions.
Either of the two divisions, designated female and male, of this classification.
Females or males considered as a group.
The condition or character of being female or male; the physiological, functional, and psychological differences that distinguish the female and the male.
The sexual urge or instinct as it manifests itself in behavior.
Sexual intercourse.

[*krnxswat*]

sex (sks)
n.

The property or quality by which organisms are classified as female or male on the basis of their reproductive organs and functions.
Either of the two divisions, designated female and male, of this classification.
Females or males considered as a group.
The condition or character of being female or male; the physiological, functional, and psychological differences that distinguish the female and the male.
The sexual urge or instinct as it manifests itself in behavior.
Sexual intercourse.

But then why are you leaving out sexual intercourse?

[ThePrincessofTKD]

Have you ever heard of something called anger management?

Anyways, I thought the only way to lose your virginity was through sexual intercourse?

Edit;
I'm guessing your parents told you you lose your virginity by kissing?

i stand corrected..

[Spirited Away]

YEAH KISSING.

wow...people DO read my posts..

anyways...i didn`t mean LITERALLY. like once you kiss someone it`s not like "LIKE...OMFG...I`M NOT A VIRGIN NO MORE!!!"

what about being a PURE virgin? i mean...those NUNS have to be virgins right? `cause they devote their virginities to God, so they have never kissed anyone [mouth to mouth] or had sex. unless you ALL OF A SUDDEN wanted to become a NUN..

being a COMPLETE virgin wouldn`t be doing any of the three in my list. so if ya did...you`re just a PARTIAL virgin...

hey!! that`s what my mommy said!!

Kissing?

I've seen a Moms give kisses to their 5 year old on the mouth many times before... are those kids no longer pure virgins?

I don't get how kissing=sex=devirginzed.

[ThePrincessofTKD]

Kissing?

I've seen a Moms give kisses to their 5 year old on the mouth many times before... are those kids no longer pure virgins?

I don't get how kissing=sex=devirginzed.

yeah so like...read the post above you.

[tsohg]

The real definition of virginity has always been changing.
At first to be a virgin you hymen could not be broken. (Popping the cherry)
then as the year went by the definition changed because some people were not born wwith hymens so it was anyone that participated in sexual intercourse. Whats the definition now? Virginity is being thrown around alot.

[WTFwasIthinking]

But then why are you leaving out sexual intercourse?

Because the definition of virginity isn't the period in which you didn't have sexual intercourse. it's the period of you not having sex......

The sexual urge or instinct as it manifests itself in behavior.

that means the reactions of sexual urges which can mean blow jobs, anal, feeling a girl or guy up, jackin' the opposite sex off, blah blah blah

DICTIONARY.com
vir·gin·i·ty ( P ) Pronunciation Key (vr-jn-t)
n. pl. vir·gin·i·ties
The quality or condition of being a virgin.
[b]The state of being pure, unsullied, or untouched.[/b

ya'll are gon' be like, well everyone touches you... well it's the motive that matters..... the MOTIVE

[h22fanatik]

oral sex does not mean ur f*cking...that's y they have 1st, 2nd, and 3rd bases. 3rd base is not home run. got it?

[WTFwasIthinking]

LoL... that's just a way of putting it so people can get away with it and no feel guilty. They're makin' excuses for themselves.

So as I asked before, is anal sex not taking away virginity just because it didn't go in the vagina? NO! If you think so, you're lyin' to yourself.

[*AngelicEyz00*]

What the eff?? haha... you're still a virgin even if you have oral sex.... you lose your virginity when t3h penis penetrates the vagina... Yes true, oral sex is still a type of sex, but you don't lose your virginity by doing it...

[WTFwasIthinking]

What the eff?? haha... you're still a virgin even if you have oral sex.... you lose your virginity when t3h penis penetrates the vagina... Yes true, oral sex is still a type of sex, but you don't lose your virginity by doing it...

PayCe ~1~

LMAO...

aright, keep allowing yourself to think that...

virginity is about purity and all of that takes away from purity....


once again:
The sexual urge or instinct as it manifests itself in behavior.

but iss all on you...

[pikimoo]

I've kinda done a little study on this before. (not much though, really)

But what I got from it:

Virginity is a description of a female who has never come in contact with the male er.. private.. region?

[Spirited Away]

I've kinda done a little study on this before. (not much though, really)

But what I got from it:

Virginity is a description of a female who has never come in contact with the male er.. private.. region?

well that's even more problematic because what if my hand acidentally brushed by a guy's "private region"? I mean, it can happen...

[WTFwasIthinking]

well motive means everything... you can kill someone completely by accident and not be punished for it....

like say you bump into someone and knock 'em off a cliff....

[pikimoo]

well that's even more problematic because what if my hand acidentally brushed by a guy's "private region"? I mean, it can happen...

That's not too likely to happen, but if you're going to be nitpicky.

Yeah. I would suppose you're no longer a virgin.

What are you doin around naked guys anyways?

[sheepy]

umms not tooo sure..

[cutielilsuga]

your still a virgin cuz you haven't actually done it with someone

[WTFwasIthinking]

LoL... but for the guy, it's no different

how different is stickin' it in a girl's vagina and stickin' it in her mouth or her a$$.... they're all sexually driven

The sexual urge or instinct as it manifests itself in behavior.

last time I'm postin' that (FROM DICTIONARY.COM - DEFINITION OF SEX)... but that means any reaction from a sexual urge.... which means it is technically sex... no more virginity... say buh'bye... tchao

PayCe ~1~
I'm out!

[tsohg]

Alot of people way more to the "oral sex does not take away your virginity" rather than the otehr other side. I guess thats how everybody grew up.

[WTFwasIthinking]

It's more that people have a tendency to make excuses for themselves so they don't feel as bad about something. So they make excuses and say oral sex doesn't take away their virginity because they wanna seem pure.... but technically, you're not

[Spirited Away]

That's not too likely to happen, but if you're going to be nitpicky.
Yeah. I would suppose you're no longer a virgin.

It did happened And I'm still a virgin, thank you very much.

As you know, accidents happen and I happen to brush at it because he ran into me. I "came in contact" with it, but I had no sexual thoughts.

What are you doin around naked guys anyways?

He wasn't naked.