the one u love-need help on this one, ...the one who loves u |
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 Jul 14 2004, 03:55 PM
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pr3cious  Group: Member Posts: 99 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,761  |
Have u ever been stuck between tha guy u love or (like) and the guy who loves or likes u?....right now..i have a guy who likes me .well he said he "loves" me...he's also one of my good guyfriends...but i dun like him...tha guy i like <3 told me i mean alot to him..but hasnt exactly asked me out...what should i do? i already told my guyfriend..i only like him as a FRIEND..but he keeps calling me these ANNOYING names like "babe" "doll" and "luv".....its really starting to get on my nerves....how can i make it go thru his head?! without...hurting his feelings too much.
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Jul 14 2004, 04:00 PM
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 Maggot Rocker Group: Member Posts: 396 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,016 |
I say just seat him down and have a long nice chat with him to get it through his head that you don't like him that way and you only like him as a friend and nothing more and if it hurts his feelings that is on him not on you.
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Jul 14 2004, 04:21 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,051 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,264 |
Tell him that it's annoying you that he's insisting on calling you loving names, when you don't feel the same way. If he continues to do what he does, don't stay in contact with him that much because he obviously doesn't respect you enough as a friend to listen to you.
Good luck. 
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Jul 14 2004, 04:25 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,443 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,050 |
well you really cant do ne thing that wont hurt him cause once you like one person so much or love them you take a risk of not getting inreturn the same feelings so just tell him that you dont like him that way okies well good luck!!
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Jul 14 2004, 07:32 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
the guy friend.. ill jus take everything he say as a joke lol and forget about it. jus pretend its like a flirt or something nothing too serious.. and for the guy that u like, wait for a while... if hes worth the wait, u'll wait if he isnt then forget it..
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Jul 14 2004, 07:43 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 286 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,508 |
erm, well you should definitely have a talk with your good friend, and politely ask him to stop calling you those names. If he asks why, tell him that you don't feel the same towards him and that you only view him as a friend, so it's just awkward hearing someone calling you those names when he's not your boyfriend. And plus, you find it extremely irritating. (There's no easy way around it. Telling someone that you don't feel the same way will always hurt the other person). If he's your friend, then he should respect your feelings.
hope everything works out, esp. with the guy you DO like
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