hes leading me on...., i like him but then i dont... Options

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well ive been liking this guy for a 3 months now..hes been sooo nice to me ever since..he flirts alot.. and to me it seems like he does have feelings for me.. i mean he really flirts with me..sumtimes the stuff he does for me it makes my heart melt..the smallest things that a guy does can be the best things they do.. he really confuses me.. i dunno for a fact if he knows i like him..but im sure he knows...oneminute i like him the next i dont..i dunno...when i start to hang out with him i start liking him again but when i dont hang out with him..i dunt really feel anything.. im just so confused...the other day i heard from my friend that he likes some other girl..and i was really sad..it just pisses me off because he leads me on...he flirts..and shit and im mad at him but i really dunno..and these past days i cant stop thinking about him...

what should i do? i really wanna forget about him..cause i know it wont go anywhere..but i cant stop thinking about him..

[NawtyLilAznChic]

ehh...i think i noe wat thas lyk...may b u think its flirtin wen its really not...thas wat happened ta me...in tha end...it turned out that he jus saw me as a lil sis

jus forget him lil by lil...or may b wat she heard was wrong...but since rumors usually stem from tha truth...dont let urself get more attached...

gl

[DrEaMgUy2K1]

i dont think u should really get too attached to him, i mean speaking from experience of being a guy, flirting is like a hobby or a natural way of keeping us entertained and not bored ;[, that is unless we really like that person ;]

[xsweetdreams12x]

Maybe you only thought he was flirting with you because you like him...??

I really don't know. But I hate it when guys do that. Such scum.

I suggest confronting him. Ask him if he likes you. If you're too shy, ask one of your best friends to.

[Darkpekkle]

some guys just have that kind of personality- they don't really mean any harm or want to hurt your feelings, but they really don't know where to draw the line between flirting and just being nice to a friend.

maybe he doesn't even know that he's flirting with you. try not to blame him for leading you on, 'cuz sometimes it's unintentional. you may think that he's leading you on, because you're hoping that he does like you in that way, which may cause you to read his signals all wrong.

besides, the fact that you only like him when you hang out with him, and don't feel anything when he's not around, may suggest that ... perhaps you appreciate everything he's doing for you, but don't really like him for him? (i mean, who wouldn't appreciate a guy that's so nice to you? )

on the flipside, maybe he does like you. i guess you won't really know until you ask him about it. and be sure to ask your friend how she found out about him liking somebody else. it may not be true.

take cares~

[silver-rain]

hmm, well this happened to me too, but in the end, he really did like me, and asked me out. so, maybe he really does like you. but otherwise, don't try to get too attached to him because guys naturally flirt a lot.

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well i guess its his natural thing i guess..this one time we were at a friends house and we were watching tv and stufff and all of a sudden he starts to rest his head on my legs..i dunno he really confuses me..also when we went swimming sometimes he would always try to give me piggy back rides in the pool lol which i thought was sweet..and there are soo many stuffs he did for me that i thought was sweet thats why im sooo confused.. oh yeaa one time my friends and i we went to visit a friend in the country..he came along and when we were in the car i was really cold and he took his shirt and he gave it too mee..man im soo confused..i think im really attached to him

[NvieDi3ai3yGrL]

he may flirt but it may not be as serious as you thought .. and same with you .. if you lose feelings when you aren't always with him it can't be that strong what you feel about him .. you'll get a little jealous if he likes someone else .. but just know he's single and it's okay for him to flirt .. you can do the same .. but you should talk to him about it and see what the deal is .. hearing it from him as opposed to hearing it from someone else makes a difference ..

[MisSyHangy]

guys are bleep'n bleep bleep bleep

i jux got lead on so bad last week...
we been like'n each since last yr..
he never made his move.. so i jux
when out with pplz. the past few
months.. and right when he finally
have the chance to be with me...
...he says hes not ready...
you knoe its hurts cuz all the lies
and bs he said..

you knoe what imma do!.. imma see
him at diz partee and imma f--- him up!!!!

but hey girl.. be strong.. guys do a lot
of shit to girls.. and at times.. you jux
have to put up with it and move on..
the postion i am in now.. man i dont even
know my self.. been hurt so many times
that im not even sure what step i should
take now.. cuz he put'd me back at rock bottem
:sigh:.. but takcare

[islandkiss]

hang out with your friends more often. it'll help take your mind off him.

[sheepy]

aww i know wut u mean. hmms wut about get to noe him more, so dere MITE b a future for you guys cuz mayb deep down u do wanna like him. ierno.. let time do its magic

[babixangela]

some guys flirt just for fun but if he didn't, then maybe he really didn't know that you liked him also. So maybe he was tired waiting around and started to like another girl.

[defjam_gangsta]

Greetings!!

either ya make it or ya done. thing is. guys are really fickle when they are single. once they see somethin new, they will change course and direction. treat him as ya fren or carry on worry and pissing yaself off whenever ya see him flirt wit another girl. somethin to da tune of tat!!

CHEERS CB!!

[mistahpho]

get with him lol