After The Break Up..., do you stay friends? |
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 Jul 9 2004, 07:44 PM
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 fragile  Group: Member Posts: 1,044 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,807  |
yup my and ex and me stayed friends for a while now
and we got other peoples in our lives of course but it is so possible of course |
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Jul 9 2004, 07:47 PM
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 Tina + Tommy Group: Member Posts: 427 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,575 |
im not friends with one of my exs.. but tha other two i guess we're still friends
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Jul 13 2004, 03:51 PM
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I don't think i'm ever friends with any of my ex's. haha yeah yeah we always say "lets be friends" but i think it's just too much pain. to talk to each other and knowing we can't be together type of thing or either we just become friends but later.. we stop talking just cuz.. well yeah.. its to hard of an effort to be friends with an ex.... too much comes with it. well yeaaaaaaah..
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Jul 13 2004, 04:14 PM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
usually i dont talk to them for a while,but then after that while....we become "friends" , its hard so yea...
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Jul 13 2004, 04:20 PM
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 lil azn supermodel... =] Group: Member Posts: 461 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,841 |
im friends wit only my first ex, kinda
i blocked my 2nd ex cuz it was kind of a messy... n my 3rd ex, i really want nuttin ta do wit his stupid lyin fake ass |
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Jul 13 2004, 05:36 PM
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 WUT THA DUCK? Group: Member Posts: 3,950 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,138 |
most i stayed friends with.. the guys at school i dated.. i dont even look at!! haha i dont know why!!
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Jul 13 2004, 07:22 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
My ex bf said tht *lets just be friends* thing. weird thing is...we actually did. we still good friends. hell, im going out wit his best friend and hes going out with my best friend. we tell each other wht to do to turn them on and stuff hahaha..ya we still tyte. its better then just not talking and be mad at them. we still cool lol
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Jul 13 2004, 10:31 PM
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 he`z gOt my heart*<3`o2.18.o1` Group: Member Posts: 1,662 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,338 |
it's really hard to just stay friends when you may want that person more than that .. i don't really know how i'd handle it until it were to happen .. (knocks on wood)
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Jul 13 2004, 10:33 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 286 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,508 |
some ex's stay friends, but a lot don't 'cuz it's just too hard- too much drama and bad emotions from the experience & sometimes you just want to forget that they ever stepped into your life (cuz for some, it hurts to remember)
 i think it depends on the effort each party makes. i'm friends with a few of my ex's. the others are either: 1. they're bad people. or 2. they are unwilling to cooperate and are unwilling to even try to be friends. 
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Jul 13 2004, 11:02 PM
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 ilikeyouSofreakingmuch. Group: Member Posts: 2,014 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 643 |
I was with this guy for 4 days ... back in december ... i don't talk to him anymore ... and i was with thiz guy who i've been friends with for about two monthes .. i was with him fer about a month .. nd i broke up with him and i discovered his true personality nd i dislike him sooo mch now ...
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Jul 14 2004, 12:12 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 188 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,801 |
my ex and i are trying to be friends bcuz like we both want to but its freakin awkward...
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Jul 18 2004, 02:43 PM
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 DefJam Gangsta Inc Group: Member Posts: 914 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,652 |
Greetings!!
its kinda tough but it's worth da try but seriously, i can jolly well forget abt da whole idea. maybe we can be friends. certainly not now after da breakup. maybe some time after down da road tat kinda thingy. it works for me though.  CHEERS CB!! |
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Jul 18 2004, 02:53 PM
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asian sensation Group: Member Posts: 773 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,091 |
i stay friends with most of them cept one.. iwas trying to talk to him but one day he IMed me and yelled at me and said i was his ex and im not allowed to talk to him and it as really mean =/
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Jul 18 2004, 03:05 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,373 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,505 |
i went out wit this boyu and when we broke up he made me cry. i couldn't talk to him for like 3 weeks been then after he became a friend. now i don't get why i even went out wit him.
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Jul 18 2004, 03:50 PM
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 042304<3 Group: Member Posts: 600 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,231 |
im trying to stay friends with my ex, but its hard, just like everything else.
i just hope that time would tell where all this would lead to. 
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Jul 18 2004, 03:51 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,051 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,264 |
I've never been in a relationship, so I can't say.
After a break-up though, I'd want to be friends with him, I suppose. It matters how harsh the break-up was. |
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Jul 18 2004, 08:50 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 851 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,718 |
hmm my ex never said lets be friend. so we no longer talked
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Jul 18 2004, 11:14 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 140 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,638 |
i guess i TRY to stay as frends..
otherwise we just treat eachother like strangers...like my first.. 
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Jul 18 2004, 11:30 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 63 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,906 |
QUOTE(babieshortie @ Jul 18 2004, 11:14 PM) i guess i TRY to stay as frends.. otherwise we just treat eachother like strangers...like my first.. finally found you... but anyways.... for me... well... my first one... i juss dint wanna talk to him... n from this day on... i still havent talked to him.... like for a year now... bleh...  but for my ex i still talk to him occasionally... but one topic to not bring up while talkin is... the relationship that u had together... BAD. 
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Jul 18 2004, 11:36 PM
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 0nethr3e Group: Member Posts: 200 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,851 |
hm..well im not really friends w/ my first bf...i neva talk to him ne more. i've only had one boyfriend..so yeah
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Jul 19 2004, 01:29 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,153 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,193 |
not really friends but acquaintances. as for my recent ex, we JUST broke up, its hard for us to be friends. It was a mutual agreement but we both crossed certain lines in the heat of anger that`s its tOo hard to be friends. He wants to stay away, personally i don`t .. i need him there as my friend still, as my support. But he did wayy tOo much to me that he says he feels tOo guilty.
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Jul 19 2004, 01:53 PM
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 i need an sn change. Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
sort of. my 1st one is stilll a butthole. every1 i stil keep in touch, cept AJ...i wish we culd still talk more.
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Jul 19 2004, 05:37 PM
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 Unlock the Darkness Group: Member Posts: 305 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,967 |
Yeah. We usually do. None of my ex's ever had any animosity toward me after we went our seperate ways.
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Jul 19 2004, 05:42 PM
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 waiting for love to find me... Group: Member Posts: 60 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,134 |
hm.......well at first we say that and its akward. but eventually me and my ex'es go back to being friends.
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Jul 19 2004, 05:47 PM
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I've stayed friends with all my ex boyfriends except one. Well, he wasn't really my boyfriend.
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