is it really all about looks?, is there personality in there somewhere? |
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 Jun 13 2004, 02:27 AM
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 dripping destruction  Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,282 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,929  |
they're about the same for me i guess. i'm not going to like a really ugly girl with the best personality any more than the hottest girl with a personality like a poison.
the looks attract me to look closer at the personality. |
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Jun 13 2004, 02:31 AM
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 ThePinkPanda Group: Member Posts: 760 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,168 |
I find that I like people with a look of familiar facial features.
 Anyways, I def go for personality! Though it's sometimes hard because you're blinded by the looks. |
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Jun 13 2004, 10:17 AM
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 Moo.. Group: Member Posts: 54 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,700 |
well.. we go for looks first, and while were goin out wit em if their personality good we stick, if it sucks we split.
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Jun 13 2004, 10:26 AM
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QUOTE(YourLostTragedy @ Jun 10 2004, 7:29 PM) I am a chick too. I am not good looking either.. I think guys should like girls for their personality. You know that they Say "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder." I think your pretty though.  i would love to agree with u but our society doesnt work that way. guys only wants sex from girls so we tend to go 4 hot girls. girls on the other hand want to be all pretty and sexy 4 the guys and to compete with other girls so they go 4 guy's money then looks. if u dont apply to those then ur in ur own little world. im not tryin to be offensive or nethin but thats just how things go. most girls or all girls when ask to describe an ideal guy they usually say has sense of humor, sensitive, and other bullcrap like that but not takin into account their subconcious minds. ya know what im sayin? |
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Jun 13 2004, 06:11 PM
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 and then he died... Group: Member Posts: 338 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,047 |
yeh usually u wnana get to know more about the person cuz he/shez good lookin of some sort. then you discover how their personality is like. then yeh...
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Jul 12 2004, 11:12 PM
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Yep it is 50/50 I never will go out with a girl if she doesnt have a great personality NO OFFENCE but I will never go out with a girl who is really ugly.
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Jul 12 2004, 11:19 PM
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well, wen i hav a crush, is ususally she's bit cute- cute and kind...
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Jul 12 2004, 11:41 PM
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yup i'm thinking personality + looks. hah hMm shrek is pretty cute.. ;x bcuz of his personality i guess. heh for me, i've never liked someone from the second i see them, it's always i get to know them, then they seem attractive to me.
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Jul 15 2004, 03:25 PM
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i duno.... guys usually first look for the looks.... we cant deny it
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Jul 15 2004, 03:44 PM
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QUOTE would love to agree with u but our society doesnt work that way. guys only wants sex from girls so we tend to go 4 hot girls. girls on the other hand want to be all pretty and sexy 4 the guys and to compete with other girls so they go 4 guy's money then looks. if u dont apply to those then ur in ur own little world. im not tryin to be offensive or nethin but thats just how things go. most girls or all girls when ask to describe an ideal guy they usually say has sense of humor, sensitive, and other bullcrap like that but not takin into account their subconcious minds. ya know what im sayin? *sigh* People stereotype far too much.. Anyways for me, It depends.. Looks arent realli about what a girl's genetically born with.. but equally important is how her personality contributes to it.. ie. how she carries herself and feels about her body; that feeling is also conveyed to us guys Sure looks might play some part in it.. but isnt there a saying or something, that you dont love a girl because she's pretty, rather, she's pretty because you love her? Anyways, it realli does depend on the individual |
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Jul 15 2004, 03:58 PM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
lol...shouldnt this be in relationships ish? anywho...maybe if u got contacts u mite look sexier iono...
sometimes when im around a girl who isnt a smoking 10 i tend to not be attracted to them,but if she stays around long enough to show me she has a great personality, shes got me....or atleast have my attentino... So cheer up, personality does matter ALOT! |
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Jul 15 2004, 04:03 PM
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 smiling hurts Group: Member Posts: 480 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,630 |
your not ugly
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Jul 15 2004, 04:05 PM
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 Lyrical Genius: Watch 4 AND!!! Group: Member Posts: 574 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,616 |
I say it's technically all about the looks cuz you're not gonna go talk to someone unless they physically attract you because (even if they are sweet) you won't know it..... so I think it begins at physical attraction and then it becomes whether or not you can bare their personality
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Jul 15 2004, 04:07 PM
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F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
QUOTE(PENtheINSTRUMENT @ Jul 15 2004, 4:05 PM) I say it's technically all about the looks cuz you're not gonna go talk to someone unless they physically attract you because (even if they are sweet) you won't know it..... so I think it begins at physical attraction and then it becomes whether or not you can bare their personality i agree, great way of putting it ;] |
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