being TOO shy, when it comes to talking to ur crush.... |
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 Jul 12 2004, 08:41 PM
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 ...Oon sro lanh Bong...  Group: Member Posts: 114 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,944  |
i like this guy who's a sophomore in high school, well going to be when school starts and i'm freshman. i like this guy ever since the first day of 7th grade for me. see, before i told him i like him, i could KINDA talk to him...sometimes. but still, i could neva start a conversation with him.
we are both in marching band and over the summer, we have band camp and stuff. last saturday was the second meeting of band camp and i told myself that i would AT LEAST say Hi to him cuz I'm REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY shy towards guys. so saying hi to him would be a huge achievement for me. but after band was over, i didn't get a chance to talk to him because 1) i finished packing away my instrument, 2) i already put away the stand and chair, and 3) he was still packing. i left before i could say hi or him finished packin away his trombone. I was SO shy that i couldn't even walk up to the dude and say a simple hello! and i never felt this way about a guy before and this crush is the LONGEST i ever have. everytime i'm around him, i just freeze and can't make a simple conversation with him nor say a simple hey. i get butterflies in my stomach and my knees weaken. i try to be myself around him ( a kinda weird, sometimes funny, TALKING a lot girl) but for some reason i can't. the only time i can talk to him is when my best friend starts the conversation. this may sound selfish but I want to start the converation but i can't. any advice for breakin my shy shell toward guys esp. to the guy that I have been crushin on ever since 7th grade??????? |
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Jul 12 2004, 08:55 PM
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 Sweet n' Sexy Group: Member Posts: 146 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,489 |
well as a person who used to do marching band...and speaks french (saw ur siggy). lol. All I can say is...just keep trying. Talk about m usic that always worked for me!
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Jul 12 2004, 08:55 PM
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Sweet n' Sexy Group: Member Posts: 146 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,489 |
what instrument do you play?
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Jul 12 2004, 08:57 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,102 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,162 |
Talk to him online first, get to know each other.
Then call him or something. Then if you're comfortable, talk to him in person. At least you'll know a little bit about what he's interested in and you'll have a topic to talk to him about. |
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Jul 12 2004, 08:58 PM
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...Oon sro lanh Bong... Group: Member Posts: 114 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,944 |
QUOTE(fullmusicedmajor @ Jul 12 2004, 8:55 PM) what instrument do you play? i play the flute!  lol
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Jul 12 2004, 09:14 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,051 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,264 |
Ask for his screen name. That way you can get to know him better, without having to actually TALK to him.
It worked for me, for the guy I like.  Now I know him really well.
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Jul 12 2004, 09:23 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 131 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,888 |
well, i don't know if he has a s/n. cuz i asked his sis (she and i are friends) if he has one and she said she wasn't sure if he has one or if he uses aim
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Jul 12 2004, 09:26 PM
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...Oon sro lanh Bong... Group: Member Posts: 114 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,944 |
QUOTE(sweetbaby109 @ Jul 12 2004, 9:23 PM) well, i don't know if he has a s/n. cuz i asked his sis (she and i are friends) if he has one and she said she wasn't sure if he has one or if he uses aim dam my sis! she didn't logged out of her s/n! btw, that post was supposed to be mine but my sis didn't logged out of hers and i thought it was mine.... |
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Jul 12 2004, 09:38 PM
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 Sorry doesn`t cut it babe. Group: Member Posts: 176 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 12,588 |
Just try to be confident...be a little outgoing..I've learned from my older crush that guys like girls who are confident or outgoing.
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Jul 12 2004, 10:00 PM
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 The Secret Hacker. Group: Member Posts: 1,780 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,712 |
QUOTE(adnilamila_fe @ Jul 12 2004, 8:41 PM) i like this guy who's a sophomore in high school, well going to be when school starts and i'm freshman. i like this guy ever since the first day of 7th grade for me. see, before i told him i like him, i could KINDA talk to him...sometimes. but still, i could neva start a conversation with him. we are both in marching band and over the summer, we have band camp and stuff. last saturday was the second meeting of band camp and i told myself that i would AT LEAST say Hi to him cuz I'm REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY shy towards guys. so saying hi to him would be a huge achievement for me. but after band was over, i didn't get a chance to talk to him because 1) i finished packing away my instrument, 2) i already put away the stand and chair, and 3) he was still packing. i left before i could say hi or him finished packin away his trombone. I was SO shy that i couldn't even walk up to the dude and say a simple hello! and i never felt this way about a guy before and this crush is the LONGEST i ever have. everytime i'm around him, i just freeze and can't make a simple conversation with him nor say a simple hey. i get butterflies in my stomach and my knees weaken. i try to be myself around him ( a kinda weird, sometimes funny, TALKING a lot girl) but for some reason i can't. the only time i can talk to him is when my best friend starts the conversation. this may sound selfish but I want to start the converation but i can't. any advice for breakin my shy shell toward guys esp. to the guy that I have been crushin on ever since 7th grade??????? Wow, *sighs*, lemme see if I can help. You should really try your best and give it your best shot and talk to him, I mean, what's gonna happen if you get nervous? Nothing, of course. He's not your enemy or anything, so why should u b nervous? Just go up there and talk to him. Try bringing a friend with you when you wanna talk to him if you want, it really helps. |
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Jul 14 2004, 01:19 PM
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 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
talk to him . relax. b urself!
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Jul 14 2004, 01:35 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,032 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,398 |
my friend also had da same problem buh she patted his head nd said bye to him...maybe a little smack fo good job or jus ask fo sn...
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Jul 14 2004, 01:51 PM
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 Kermit the frog = <3 Group: Member Posts: 2,315 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,215 |
it's normal to be shy towards the person that you like.. just be yourself..
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Jul 14 2004, 02:37 PM
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 pixel hybrid Group: Member Posts: 6,410 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,081 |
"Accidentally" bump into him. That's a conversation starter right there!
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Jul 14 2004, 03:01 PM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
QUOTE(lilangelgurlpnai @ Jul 14 2004, 9:37 AM) "Accidentally" bump into him. That's a conversation starter right there! hehe thats wat i waz gna say |
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Jul 14 2004, 03:46 PM
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questions make me blue. Group: Member Posts: 2,608 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,796 |
 damn...you are too shy.if you`re going to keep this up...he`s going to have a girlfriend and you`re just gonna be a single girl WITHOUT a boyfriend. THINK OF THAT! and that will help boost up your confidence. |
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Jul 14 2004, 07:38 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
wow ur jus like my best friend.. i dunno.. shyness is a thing that takes time to overcome... by the time ur a junior u should be good haha i guess.. jus talk to more guy friends.. get used to how guys talk around girls and use the same tone of voice to talk to the guy u like.. get comfortable first
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Jul 14 2004, 09:03 PM
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 . . someday* Group: Member Posts: 227 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,275 |
i guess u can get his sn.. and talk to him online. if ur wondering how to ask him, wait til next time ur best friend starts the convo and just ask him for his sn. it wont be so bad after talking to him online..
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Jul 14 2004, 10:47 PM
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...Oon sro lanh Bong... Group: Member Posts: 114 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,944 |
hey, thanks for all da advices, u guyz. i'll try some of them out next time i see him. hopefully...i can at least say hi or at least wave to him. lol.
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Jul 14 2004, 10:52 PM
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 ilikeyouSofreakingmuch. Group: Member Posts: 2,014 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 643 |
Get his sn or somethin .. or try .. talkin online is easier lol ... nd then since you guys are in marchin band talk to him bout .. music nd band nd stuff ... =)
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Jul 15 2004, 12:12 AM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Yah. I'm shy, too.. even with my boyfriend, haha.
AIM solves everything, XD |
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