help! i need advice on something.. |
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 Jul 10 2004, 11:29 PM
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i've been with my boyfriend for about eight months now. and lately i've been feeling pretty crudy whenever he goes out with his friends. i've never felt like this before. but lately whenever his friends call him up i would be totally fine with it, but when he's gone i get really sad. when he calls me to say hi, i would start being a b word. i guess i'm just jealous that he hangs out with his friends while i sit at home doing nothing. i know i need to control my bad temper, but i'm not sure how. any advice?
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Jul 10 2004, 11:43 PM
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 1'm h3r3! h0ll4! Group: Member Posts: 185 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,207 |
well.....i would say that he is not the right guy for you if he keeps on doing that to you...i mean like you dont HAVE to break up with him i jus think that that's mean....i used to have a boyfriend that does that and i got really mad and never talked to him ever again until he noticed that i was mad at him and broke up....
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Jul 10 2004, 11:52 PM
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questions make me blue. Group: Member Posts: 2,608 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,796 |
it`s perfectly normal to feel that way about your boyfriend. how come you don`t come along with him like most girlfriends do?
 tell him how you feel, and if the response is good, then it`s all good. but if he gives some stupid response...dump that boy like a rock! 
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Jul 11 2004, 01:07 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 286 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,508 |
While he's chilling with his friends, why don't [I]you[I] chill with your own crew? everyone needs their own personal space to do their thang every now and then.
just a thought. make sure you guys have some quality alone time together at least once a week, though. |
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Jul 11 2004, 01:13 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,032 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,398 |
QUOTE(Darkpekkle @ Jul 11 2004, 2:07 AM) While he's chilling with his friends, why don't [I]you[I] chill with your own crew? everyone needs their own personal space to do their thang every now and then. just a thought. make sure you guys have some quality alone time together at least once a week, though. yup so den u hab ur time wid ur friends while he has time too...its fair |
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Jul 11 2004, 01:23 AM
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aBABYmomma Group: Member Posts: 82 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,380 |
I know that you want to spend all your free time with your man but in a guys mind it isn't like that. He doesnt always want to hang out with his girl. I always sit home when he goes out with his friends... one way to solve your boredness is by going out with your own friends or if his friends have girlfriends.. hangout with them.. so that way you will be able to be out with your man and your "friends".. get it>?? well i hope that helped...
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Jul 11 2004, 01:40 AM
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 ilikeyouSofreakingmuch. Group: Member Posts: 2,014 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 643 |
Hmm .. why don`t you hang out with him and his friends too? i mean .. i was pretty good friends w/ my ex's friends ..
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Jul 11 2004, 08:30 AM
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 Kermit the frog = <3 Group: Member Posts: 2,315 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,215 |
why don't you hang out with him?..
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Jul 11 2004, 11:46 AM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
yeah.. wen hes wit his friends, y dont u go wit urs then? or maybe always think to urself to keep an open mind that he has a social life and he has to live it
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Jul 11 2004, 12:07 PM
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advice-
guys hate it when girls get fed up with there friends.. we feel like we have to hang out with you 24/7 which makes us sick of you which makes us run away from the relashionship.. <3-hs |
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Jul 11 2004, 01:24 PM
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Girl, you gotta understand your boyfriend has to spend some time with his friends, and can't spend every waking moment with you.
But, that doesn't mean he's not thinking about you when he's hanging out with his friends. He probably is.  What about hanging with YOUR friends when he's not available?? |
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Jul 11 2004, 08:45 PM
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 you! off my planet!! Group: Member Posts: 17 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,566 |
hey, I get the same way. EXCEPT its only with the girl friends of his. I understand that he needs to be around his crew, but when they are all over him and wont back off, no matter what he says. SOMETHINGS WRONG. HAHA.
I mean they are on him when I'm around, but still dont worry yourself. It probably just a phase you are going through. but be happy hes with you
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Jul 11 2004, 08:55 PM
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 Coolerator Group: Member Posts: 413 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,442 |
You need to ReLaX. Go to the mall with your friends. Clear your mind in chorus by screaming. Jus chill and clear your mind. Trust me. Ive had anger, sadness, depression all eat me from inside. Its not pretty. I was like a souless shell in school. Every1 was woried about me. I didnt notice when some1 was talking to me and was sent home alot. Then my friend said some kind words saying she and others were worried. Course she became my girlfriend
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Jul 11 2004, 09:55 PM
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 L for LOVE Group: Member Posts: 87 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,071 |
remember im still here to listen to ur problems. anyway, chris i was like that too. im sure you knew. kevin would get mad at me for bothering him while he's out. i think it's just that we think they're having all this fun with their friends and they'll forget about us. i still feel that way sometimes. but it's not as bad. it's like when me and you hang out you know and they're not with us. but we dont forget them right ?
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Jul 11 2004, 10:00 PM
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L for LOVE Group: Member Posts: 87 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,071 |
oh and for others information. some of his friends he hangs out with, they're mean to her. so maybe that's why she dont want to go along?
anyway chris you know i love you. i guess this was the problem i saw on ur away message that day i wanted to call to hang out. i thought you were with ur bf. so i didnt want to bother you two. dont ever hesitate to call me if you need me. we still have our date :D |
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