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post Jul 2 2004, 10:27 AM
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my boyfrend or my bf's brother.
that is the question.
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post Jul 2 2004, 10:45 AM
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no...if thats what your really want to do. but i suggest your dont...that would be really mean seriouly your bf is going to suffer!
 
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post Jul 2 2004, 10:47 AM
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you should be loyal....it would break your bf's heart if you just broke up with him and go out with his brother.
 
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post Jul 2 2004, 10:52 AM
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well if yoohs realli like ur bf's brother, go out wid him...buh after awhile u nd ur bf break up...wait a month or two?
 
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post Jul 2 2004, 11:13 AM
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QUOTE(babixlilac @ Jul 2 2004, 10:52 AM)
well if yoohs realli like ur bf's brother, go out wid him...buh after awhile u nd ur bf break up...wait a month or two?

ohmy.gif wat if i don't have that time???
 
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post Jul 2 2004, 12:42 PM
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it sounds like you would rather be with his brother. don't force yourself to stay in a relationship if you're not happy, but think it over really thoroughly first. 'cuz if you do break up with him and go out with the brother, and things don't work out.... you can't really go back to the original guy. hope things work out for ya~
 
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you know this sounds really mean but i mean if you and your guy arn't feeling it anymore, maybe you should break up with him for your own good and maybe you will be better off with his brother. i know you don't want to hurt him but that means hurting yourself. his brother won't wait for someone forever and he could find someone else and you could loose your chance. make your decision wisely.
 
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post Jul 2 2004, 10:33 PM
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well at least break up with ur bf...then wait a little while (till he stops crying etc) and then go for his brother, dont make urself suffer!
 
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post Jul 3 2004, 01:11 AM
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i can't take it anymore.. _unsure.gif
i mean..he makes me feel like..poop yet he doesn't even know that he does..and so wen i told him tha.t. he doesn't think so..so he says that he's not. wth!!? mad.gif
 
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post Jul 3 2004, 03:15 AM
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Oh wow... Certainly never experienced this before... But if you don't like your BF anymore... There's nothing wrong with going out with his bro...
 
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post Jul 4 2004, 09:01 AM
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QUOTE(Winter @ Jul 3 2004, 3:15 AM)
Oh wow... Certainly never experienced this before... But if you don't like your BF anymore... There's nothing wrong with going out with his bro...

that's...great advice..i didn't quite think that through..i think i'll need to think some more....yes?? _dry.gif
 
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post Jul 4 2004, 10:20 AM
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How can we choose if we don't know what they are like? huh.gif
 
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post Jul 4 2004, 12:56 PM
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lol i think u like the brother more, i experienced it lols before i went out wit my ex i liked his brother for a while but i was thinking.. eh.. its impossible so i stopped and somehow ended up liking my ex (but the brother never knew) and like 2days after we went out, i think his brother started to like me, and if he did o god i think i regret for goin out wit my ex cuz he didnt gimme much happiness... but i still wotn go wit the brother cuz i already went wit the ex... so i dunno about u... i guess if u want and it depends on how the brother and ur bf will look at it
 
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post Jul 4 2004, 01:09 PM
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QUOTE(kyootE_krn_bebe @ Jul 3 2004, 1:11 AM)
i can't take it anymore.. _unsure.gif
i mean..he makes me feel like..poop yet he doesn't even know that he does..and so wen i told him tha.t. he doesn't think so..so he says that he's not. wth!!? mad.gif

WTF?? that`s how jerks that are boyfriends act man... stubborn.gif if he keeps on treating you the way you say he does...THEN DUMP HIM LIKE A ROCK! and just go for his brother if he`s worth it. happy.gif

as long as he`s worth it and that`s all that really matters.
 
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post Jul 4 2004, 05:42 PM
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if your bf treats u bad.. i dont think u should be with him.. but.. wouldnt it be awkward dating his bro? i mean like.. they r from the same family
 
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post Jul 4 2004, 06:31 PM
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Um. Depends. What are you choosing them for? huh.gif I mean, it's not like you should go out with your bf's brother..because..that's your bf's brother. Well, unless you break up with your bf THEN go with his brother.. wacko.gif
 
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post Jul 4 2004, 09:08 PM
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er, I think that's gonna really hurt yer BF lol .. but its your choice .. better think about it
 
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post Jul 4 2004, 09:12 PM
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girl go out with his bro, Im giving you permission, go do it, now. heh.
 
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post Jul 5 2004, 09:32 PM
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QUOTE(fullmusicedmajor @ Jul 4 2004, 9:12 PM)
girl go out with his bro, Im giving you permission, go do it, now. heh.

lolz! laugh.gif
 
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post Jul 5 2004, 09:55 PM
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if u think u and ur bf dont click, go for the brother. its really up to u if u can handle the consequences
 
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post Jul 6 2004, 09:50 AM
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ok so..today i went out with his brother. and...it turned out to be a great date..i now know for sure that his brother likes me...and all..however..my bf.may not seem like he cares for me..becuz..he has his own website thingy and he posts up pictures...but there's none of me..and he doesn't really talk about me to his frends but...he wrote a little note..that
"i did something wrong..but im not sure wat exactly i did wrong..i just know i did something wrong and i feel that the most preciious thing in my life is drifting apart from me.."
wtf!? o.O wat am i supposed to say with that?? and how can i relly go out with his brother wen he does this??
btw..on his website~he has guestbooks.. that are signed... all them are freakin girls...>.< it pisses me off!! esp. when he didn't write anything about me! his fukin girlfrend!!
 
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post Jul 6 2004, 12:51 PM
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QUOTE(kyootE_krn_bebe @ Jul 6 2004, 7:50 AM)
ok so..today i went out with his brother. and...it turned out to be a great date..i now know for sure that his brother likes me...and all..however..my bf.may not seem like he cares for me..becuz..he has his own website thingy and he posts up pictures...but there's none of me..and he doesn't really talk about me to his frends but...he wrote a little note..that
"i did something wrong..but im not sure wat exactly i did wrong..i just know i did something wrong and i feel that the most preciious thing in my life is drifting apart from me.."
wtf!? o.O wat am i supposed to say with that?? and how can i relly go out with his brother wen he does this??
btw..on his website~he has guestbooks.. that are signed... all them are freakin girls...>.< it pisses me off!! esp. when he didn't write anything about me! his fukin girlfrend!!

That's good that u found out his brother likes u too.. But after reading your bf's lil note it makes u think otherwise. Iono... u seriously need to talk to him.. and let him know that he's not treating u the way u want to be treated.. and if he still doesn't listen.. just let him know that u want to break up.. I had an ex-bf who never told these ppl online that he has a gf.. and on his BL it's all girls.. and i ask him about it.. he would always tell me that they're just friends.. soO one time i tested that out.. i signed on with a different sn and IMed him.. and well what do u know... he tells me that he doesn't have a gf and wants to meet up.. That JERK! Anyways.. what i'm trying to say is.. don't stay with a person if you're not happy... Even though he's writing that... how come he's not telling u straight up about how he feels? If he knows that he did something wrong... y don' the just go and ask you.. instead of hiding his feelings.. I"m sorry for blabbing on and on about this.. happy.gif


What ever u decide to do.. I hope everything goes well for you.. happy.gif
 
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post Jul 6 2004, 01:17 PM
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QUOTE(Mini @ Jul 2 2004, 10:47 AM)
you should be loyal....it would break your bf's heart if you just broke up with him and go out with his brother.

I agree with Mini.
 
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post Jul 9 2004, 02:53 AM
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bigger problem...so...my bf and i ..made up..the reason is becuz..iono.i guess it was just meant to be. however, i told him straight up that i don't like the way he treats me and he promised to be better..however..i know that his brother likes me..and .. his brother is willing to still talk to me.

i've never been in this kind of..pickle before..i think i'm the bad one heree..i mean..how can someone like brothers??? and then again..wat kend of brothers like one girl???? -.-;;;;

this is something that happens in dramas..it should happen to me. o.o
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post Jul 9 2004, 03:06 AM
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YOUR B/F!! dont ditch him..especially for his bro....that personally woudl piss me off and i would almost probably kill my bro
 
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