friends with benefits., worth it? or not. |
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 Jul 4 2004, 08:33 PM
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Umm........I've tried that whole thing and it doesn't work for me 'cause I end up getting feelings for the guy. It's way too complicated, but if you can do it, more power to you! LOL.
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Jul 4 2004, 08:48 PM
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what i mean by friends with benefits.. is that.. I guess.. you both like each other.. but you guys arent together.. you know what i mean?
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Jul 4 2004, 08:57 PM
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 baby, be good to me Group: Member Posts: 592 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,358 |
I think it's good but you just gotta be sure that you guy friend won't make it weird between the two of you...I mean if you are close why not just have fun with your friendship
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Jul 5 2004, 11:22 AM
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it depends... usually friends with benefits ends up with someone having feelings... it's not bad if it's both people, but usually it's just one person and that's not worth it.
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Jul 5 2004, 01:50 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 279 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,406 |
couldnt friends with benefits also mean.. u both like each other.. but.. not together?
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Jul 5 2004, 02:49 PM
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 lil azn supermodel... =] Group: Member Posts: 461 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,841 |
that friends wit benefits stuff neva works out cuz its tru that one person will lyk tha otha person, in all those relationships, ta me, its lyk one person is usin tha otha, it doesnt matta wtf they tell u, cuz if they really did lyk u, u'd b togetha,
QUOTE(babygurl_xtacy @ Jul 5 2004, 2:50 PM) couldnt friends with benefits also mean.. u both like each other.. but.. not together? how does that make n e sense? u lyk eachotha but fa sum reason u'd rather fool around than b in a relationship? |
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Jul 5 2004, 03:21 PM
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 Rawr Rawr i am a Reptawr Group: Member Posts: 263 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,045 |
i used to be in a relationship like this but he asked me out...but when we were just friends we had talked about going out but we decided not to because it might ruin our friendship...and things kept going along and we kept getting closer and closer and we were at sixflags and we kissed and we made a mutual effort and we are going out now!
but when we were friends and we would like hang out together and sleep in the same bed and stuff it was really weird...like i thought there was more but there wasn't...i was really confuzzeled! |
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Jul 5 2004, 11:45 PM
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goose bucket. Group: Member Posts: 756 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,411 |
QUOTE what i mean by friends with benefits.. is that.. I guess.. you both like each other.. but you guys arent together.. you know what i mean? that's NOT what friends with benefits is.. that's people having a crush on each other, friends with benefits is friends who have a physically romantic relationship and not an emotionally romantic relationship, so in regards to that question: heck no. i have a really good friend that is an AMAZING kisser, so umm yeah. it doesn't bother either one of us that we're just friends, plus plus plus. mmm. |
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Jul 6 2004, 12:07 PM
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iF i AiNT G0T Y0U.. Group: Member Posts: 32 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 26,014 |
It all depends on the person. I had fwb before but they were all ex boyfriend's.. but I still had feelings for a few of them. I mean it was pretty okay DURiNG the time.. but once they got girlfriends or I told them how I really felt & they didn't feel the same......that part sucked. And if you're gonna be fwb with someone you like, I suggest you DONT do it. It ends up hurting you a hell of a lot more.
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Jul 6 2004, 08:39 PM
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 i`m in love & always will be Group: Member Posts: 1,138 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 12,769 |
I dont think its worth it.. someone will get hurt maybe & your friendship will be wayy different.
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Jul 7 2004, 01:44 PM
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 Feeel X Group: Member Posts: 2,814 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,498 |
friends with benefits, i didn't know what it meant either until now, lol.
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Jul 7 2004, 02:03 PM
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 Unlock the Darkness Group: Member Posts: 305 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,967 |
I don't think I trust anyone enough to be FWB. There's too much stuff going around for that. I mean if you're in a one-on-one situation, at least you can be sure of who (s)he is knockin' boots with, but FWB is Waaaaaaay too open-ended.
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Jul 7 2004, 08:07 PM
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 s a r a h r o s e <3 Group: Member Posts: 575 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 12,944 |
people might get hurt that way- so it might feel totally weird
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